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Originally Posted by Berzin
You know why guys cheat? Because even true love can be boring "Night After Night"...
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Funny video! I remember watching that episode as a kid, but was too young to understand the full meaning LOL
But men dont hold the monopoly on being bored. I just overheard a bunch of married women in my gym change room talking about things that would make their men cringe. Yes the truth does hurt sometimes!
Usually the woman is beyond bored, long before the guy is...i.e. the headache excuse,
faking it, etc.
The truth is the typical guy thinks he is a lot better lover than he really is (as most women know the really good ones are the exception and not the rule!!!), leaving alot of women bored and sexually dissatisfied ...who really want "
what she is having" cause that is not what she is getting at home LOL.
Remember that famous line from the lady in When Harry Met Sally
YouTube - Katz's Delicatessen - in "When Harry Met Sally"
To the OP most DR women put up with it for a variety of reasons (1# reason is financial security) because they know that they will leave one cheat for another one, so what is the point. Better to stay with the devil you know, who is the father and provider of your kids than the devil you dont know.
Like in alot of other developing countries there is a mentality that a 'good' woman will know how to keep a man, and that will include not making a big fuss if he makes a mistake and has a 3 kids with his mistress because hey its normal, my dad and grandad did the same thing. No wonder many developing countries remain poor and underdeveloped generation after generation.
Obvious abnormal behaviour becomes normal (like teen pregnancy) because it is so common, happens generation after generation and no one really questions it or thinks about the negative consequences especially for the kids who are left to deal with the confusing mess...
Also the stigma of being labelled a whore or a 'S' if they go from one man to another man in search for the faithful one, or go out and cheat themselves, will keep them in a situation they are really unhappy in.