I agree that most men can truly love their wives and have sex with women that means nothing. Sex and matrimony are not exclusive to each other. I am not saying i would not be heart broken if i found out my husband had been unfaithful, but in truth there is a difference between a quicky and a long term love affair...now that is different.
Alot of my husbands sisters are with older men and do not love their husbands at all. I dont want them to sound heartless but finding the best provider is more important than faithfulness. One actually said to me they wished their husband would find a mistress so he would leave her alone, which i thought was really funny.
Personally for me i could not bare the thought of my husband having children with other women, but everyone is different and i guess if it does not worry them then it shouldnt worry me.
I agree that being bored is not something that only effects men and yes i believe us women do get bored much quicker, but i think we are better equipt to deal with the dissapointment ha ha! It seems that men think that they are the only ones who bore of the missus putting on a few pounds and maybe everything is not quite as perky as it once was, but think that us women obviously adore a big beer gut, baldness and the same predictable sexual moves every night.
I cant quite understand how a man could be attracted to or even in love with such a weak caracter/doormat, but then i suppose is serves them, so is it love or convenience that keeps these men with these women?
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