Why do you care if she is cheating on you? What really matters is if she cares for your needs and takes care of you as a Dominican wife should.
I've posted this before and I'll stand by my observations to this day. Retired in 1992 to the Dominican Republic. Married a lovely Dominican women, separated now because it was impossible for me to stay faithful with all the temptations here for me.
You're here for a 1 or 2 week vacation or even living here you have to get realistic about Dominican relationships. The reason most men come down here is because of the beautiful chicas. The culture is a little different and sex is a lot freer (but not as in free) but as a point of view. The longer I'm here I realize how little I understand about the Dominican lifestyles and morality when it comes to sex and love. You have to come to the realization that sex is recreation (what else can you do when you have no money); morality has no part in the equation.
Do you think these 19 - 25 year olds are with us 50 - 60 year olds for our good looks and charm? Again get real, they do like us because we can make their lives better and we do treat them better than the Dominican men but it's a business deal. They prefer Dominican men to us (80% have steady Dominican boyfriends) because they are more comfortable in their own cultural circle (communication, music and dancing). Think about it, just what do we have in common with a woman 1/3 of our age from a different culture, NOT MUCH! Hell in Canada or the States we wouldn’t have much in common with someone 1/3 our age.
We get love (sex) and affection in return for our financial help and that's the bottom line! As long as she takes care of me and my needs why should I begrudge her needs.
We are and will always be an outsider; all we can hope to be is an accepted outsider.
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