...and another day begins, yet today is different than any other since May of last year.

Last night I finalized my relationship with the man whom I've known for a while now is not the one for me.

Great guy, great person, just doesn't have much to offer this relationship, and if he did/does, he sure didn't take the opportunity to prove that. I clearly, yet gently indicated to him on a few occasions (the first one before my DR trip in April) that his actions speak louder...

I seem to learn more and more and more around here each day. After a good chat in the 'chat room' last night with a few very insightful members, I must say that there's more hope than less for his genuinity. It seems that the doubt in MSCS (my so-called sankie) may be just a creation of my own!

I know many people will disagree with that, telling me that ALL resort workers have nothing more than the typical intention of any other sanky....however, I just can't believe that - I mean...

So, as with many North American women on this board...I too have started investigating the intentions of my DR man...what most here would refer to as a Sankie.

Yes, he works at a resort, which increase the risk of being a sankie...I hear all of ya loud and clear.

Bottom line for me at this point is that he's too far away to get me 'hurtin' like a local player would. In fact, if he is genuine, I think I'm more capable of hurtin' his feelings if he knew I was investigating...