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Originally Posted by Matilda
I have three questions, and they are probably all very stupid so apologies in advance.
1. My mum used to check all my posts every day to see what i was up to. She isn't a member, and now she can no longer click on my name and then 'see all Matilda's posts'. Is there any way she can do this or does she have to join as Matilda's mum which could be very dangerous as God knows what she will post!
2. Whispering......what is an avatar???
3. I have now got a friend!!!! What do I do with her?
Matilda
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Hey Matilda...no question is stupid...so no worries. Some people know lots about forums...others don't! There's always a starting point for EVERYONE!
An avatar is a picture that would be beside your name on the left when you post, and show up in your profile as well.
As far as your mother goes...I won't judge her for snooping, but boy oh boy that's not nice to do that to you. If I were you, I wouldn't question what she can or can't do as a non-member...I would talk to the admins here and see if they will allow you to close your account and then create a new one using a name that doens't expose your identity to your mother. If she were to join, and everyone knew what she was doing, I don't think anyone would support the idea! That's just not fair to you or anyone else.
You have a friend and you want to know what to do with her...well that I could make some seriously sarcastic remarks, but I will refrain as I'm not sure how old you are. I'm guessing someone has "befriended" you or added you as a friend here on the board? Well...it just helps to keep in touch and follow that members posts and activity more closely.
I know I add the people who I get familiar with...it's hard getting to know everyone on a forum, so when you do start to become familiar with a particular person, you can add them - like a mental note.
Hope that was of some help to you.