Go and do everything you have always wanted to. Not 'in case' but because you'll be having such a great time it'll put you in a positive mood to not let it get the better of you. It might be more complicated this time around, as you say, but it isn't an automatic death sentence. I will still be expecting you to be deleting posts 5 years from now

. In fact, I'm going to make a note in my diary to remind you of this post 5 years from today..........deal?