Pregnant girlfriend

mark21 · #1 09-08-2009, 10:11 PM

My dominican girlfriend of 2yrs(for the first 12 months I was visiting her 10 times) is 3-4 months pregnant. I moved in to DR last year in October and she stayed with me for months and some times she move out for weeks.
She always works and study, resently graduate from university.
Never drinks or go to discos or bars.
Did not were provocative cloth, listening to romantic or christan music.

20 month ago she ask me to go and meet her mother and family.
We spend Christmas with them.
But, my digital camera was "lost" in her mother house....

With time, I learn about her divorce (no kids)
and very close relationship with her exhusban family...she move in to ex-mother in low

When she move in to my apartment for the first time in October last year, her ex-husband family call police on me and blame me for kidnaping her. Police new my address....I let them tolk with her outside, but I did not let them in. Police left, but 5 min. later one middle age woman stop by with young man, lookng for my gf. Again I let them tolk.
(When I told my landlord doctor what happen, he told me, they were looking to get money of me) I do not know.

Also, some man was calling many times my cell and looking to tolk with my GF......according to her, he was her father....(but she did not head a contacts with him for years)

Ones, when she moved out from me (after her old friend call her again) and move in to ex mother apartment I try to visit her, but I was attacked by two man in front of that apartment (when I was sitting and waiting for her in my car). I drove a way, they trow large knife at me. Two blocks later (strangely) police stop me.

Well after weeks of seperation, we start again dating.
She move in, but under my condition of "0" contacts with ex family.

In June we get engage. In July, I went to US for a week, she stay in my apartment. ( before, I never give her apartment keys....her 13 yrs old sister with girlfiend visit her in my apartment for couple of days)
When I was in US, I learn she is pregnant.

I bring back from US second laptop and some more goodies.

Two weeks later, in August, she ask me to go for a weekend to Las Terenas (my BD) When we were a way my landlord doctor call me and told me about one female...tiff... broke in to my apartment at 2pm....his two old sisters lives on the first floor and see her....( I do not have friends here or visitors)

Well, I learn about my girlfriend ongoing communication with ex family mother....
Because of that, I ask her to move out. I felt an-secure and be trade.
I really had a good intentions and plan for us.... move with her to Panama and have a baby there......(I have a condo under costuction in Panama) .....better security, health care and living standards.....but, she never see serius about this

I understand all those incidence could be just coincidence and she could be innocent, maybe she talk with wrong people and they use information to break in duriing my trip. Maybe some one was observing me.... we always will be a turists in DR.

Now, I'm thinking of moving out from DR or to change apartment.
I'm not sure now, if I'm the father or ther is some els.

What are my rights here?

What legally they can do to me now, when now she is 3-4 moths pregnant.

Her mother husband is an attorney and she is getting a lot of free legal directions from him. She told me he told her to pay her some monet, she will report me at US embassy....

Now, she took a dog..... and moved out again.
We do not have any contacts for two weeks.
I told her, I will move out of DR.

I'm not looking to run a way from respnsiblity.

But, siruslly this "novela" is getting little stinky and out of control now.

What do you think??

GringoCArlos · #2 09-08-2009, 10:38 PM

Go talk to a reputable lawyer and get their advice.

Panama is looking pretty nice right about now. Maybe you can get a DNA test done here, now, hang onto the results, and have the baby tested once it's born. Then an independent lab in the US can check to see if it's a winner or not, and deliver their analysis.

If you are the daddy, you can start your support of your new child then. Otherwise, by sticking around waiting for the baby's momma's momma's boyfriend or husband to keep needling you, you will lose. Either way, daddy or not.

Right after doing the DNA thing, I would hit the road for now. Up to this point, it sure sounds like you have been played more than a $5 guitar. And stop telegraphing your next moves by telling her what you may or will do - she will use it against you one way or another.

cobraboy · #3 09-08-2009, 10:47 PM

I see DNA testing in your future.

rsg · #4 09-08-2009, 11:21 PM

RUN!!!! AND RUN FASTER... You will probably end up hurt or killed with these crazy people..What else do you need to happen to you for you to wake up dude? You have had the cops called on you, you have been physically threatened with a knife, they have stold your property, and this girl has a relationship with her ex and his family. Knock knock Mcfly, please wake up and get on your horse and get out of dodge before they make dog food out of you and your horse..This girl is trouble dude, and things will only get worse if you keep her around. If that is your kid{probably not} then you are in for 18 years of hell. If you really want to find out if the baby is yours and support it if it is, then get a good lawyer who can handle all the test and support matters for you..
And not to insult you, but what is your nationality? your spelling is probably the worst i have ever seen on DR1.

Eddy · #5 09-09-2009, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted by mark21

My dominican girlfriend of 2yrs(for the first 12 months I was visiting her 10 times) is 3-4 months pregnant. I moved in to DR last year in October and she stayed with me for months and some times she move out for weeks.
She always works and study, resently graduate from university.
Never drinks or go to discos or bars.
Did not were provocative cloth, listening to romantic or christan music.

20 month ago she ask me to go and meet her mother and family.
We spend Christmas with them.
But, my digital camera was "lost" in her mother house....

With time, I learn about her divorce (no kids)
and very close relationship with her exhusban family...she move in to ex-mother in low

When she move in to my apartment for the first time in October last year, her ex-husband family call police on me and blame me for kidnaping her. Police new my address....I let them tolk with her outside, but I did not let them in. Police left, but 5 min. later one middle age woman stop by with young man, lookng for my gf. Again I let them tolk.
(When I told my landlord doctor what happen, he told me, they were looking to get money of me) I do not know.

Also, some man was calling many times my cell and looking to tolk with my GF......according to her, he was her father....(but she did not head a contacts with him for years)

Ones, when she moved out from me (after her old friend call her again) and move in to ex mother apartment I try to visit her, but I was attacked by two man in front of that apartment (when I was sitting and waiting for her in my car). I drove a way, they trow large knife at me. Two blocks later (strangely) police stop me.

Well after weeks of seperation, we start again dating.
She move in, but under my condition of "0" contacts with ex family.

In June we get engage. In July, I went to US for a week, she stay in my apartment. ( before, I never give her apartment keys....her 13 yrs old sister with girlfiend visit her in my apartment for couple of days)
When I was in US, I learn she is pregnant.

I bring back from US second laptop and some more goodies.

Two weeks later, in August, she ask me to go for a weekend to Las Terenas (my BD) When we were a way my landlord doctor call me and told me about one female...tiff... broke in to my apartment at 2pm....his two old sisters lives on the first floor and see her....( I do not have friends here or visitors)

Well, I learn about my girlfriend ongoing communication with ex family mother....
Because of that, I ask her to move out. I felt an-secure and be trade.
I really had a good intentions and plan for us.... move with her to Panama and have a baby there......(I have a condo under costuction in Panama) .....better security, health care and living standards.....but, she never see serius about this

I understand all those incidence could be just coincidence and she could be innocent, maybe she talk with wrong people and they use information to break in duriing my trip. Maybe some one was observing me.... we always will be a turists in DR.

Now, I'm thinking of moving out from DR or to change apartment.
I'm not sure now, if I'm the father or ther is some els.

What are my rights here?

What legally they can do to me now, when now she is 3-4 moths pregnant.

Her mother husband is an attorney and she is getting a lot of free legal directions from him. She told me he told her to pay her some monet, she will report me at US embassy....

Now, she took a dog..... and moved out again.
We do not have any contacts for two weeks.
I told her, I will move out of DR.

I'm not looking to run a way from respnsiblity.

But, siruslly this "novela" is getting little stinky and out of control now.

What do you think??

Actually I don't believe a word of this crap. But write the TV series it will be a hit. LOL

drloca · #6 09-09-2009, 12:56 AM

I agree Eddy...arent there enough novelas on TV already?

Celt202 · #7 09-09-2009, 09:34 AM

I think he lives under a bridge.

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frank recktenwald · #8 09-09-2009, 10:25 AM

It sounds like she's playing you!!!
Move to Panama and get yourself a woman there, they have plenty there just as willing and hotblooded as the Dominicana. Safe yourself the hassle because it would also be very difficult to get her into the country. I lived in Panama and I know what I had to do to get my Dominican woman a visa and let me tell you it's a headache even with our daughter having a Panamanian passport!!!!

slug · #9 09-09-2009, 10:36 AM

The best advice I could give is "just disappear". Nothing good can come out of it, only bad. I've seen this too many times. Usually they just stay with you and bleed you enough to support the "families" forever. This one appears to want it all quickly.

julio Pepe · #10 09-09-2009, 10:42 AM

Experience is the best teacher