Every Woman, Please Read

[AmbiorixPaulino]

Seven Manly Secrets Every Woman
By GinaMaria Jerome

At this stage in life, you may think you've learned everything you need to know about men. Ah, but those alluring creatures still have a few hidden surprises! Here are a few secrets about men and the ways to their hearts.

1. They really do love you just the way you are. Even though you may be spending hours getting dolled up for him, he probably thinks you're wildly sexy running around in your baggy sweats or waking up first thing in the morning with no makeup and messy hair. Of course, this doesn't imply that you should always look frumpy. After all, guys love those short black dresses just as much as we do. It's just that the more approachable you look, the more he'll approach you. So wear your hair soft and natural and skip the lipstick once in a while.

2. They aren't into details. Ever launch into a long-winded story about your day and see your date's eyes glaze over? Guys truly like it short and simple most of the time, and they get lost with all the details and prefer that you get to the point. Save all those extra words for chatting with your gal pals or for long drives when you and your mate have plenty of time to talk and to absorb.

3. They like it when you make the first move. Whether it's asking for a date or getting a hug, men like to be indulged and cared for, too. Now and then, be the one to make the dinner plans, kiss him or take his hand. Run a hot bath for him and suggest he relax for the evening. Call him at the office and ask him out on a special date to a sporting event he's been wanting to see. These sort of things certainly make us feel special, and will affect guys in the same way.

4. They're into romance. Remember that famous line Kevin Costner delivers in Bill Durham: "I like slow, wet kisses that last for three days." While not all men are cuddlers, many confess that they love strong hugs, lasting kisses and staring into your eyes. So hold that hug a little longer. Give him a massage. Kiss his eyelids. Find those unique romantic things he loves, then do them! You'll both be glad you did.

5. They don't always have to pay. Every now and then, offer to pick up the check. Though some men are old-fashioned and prefer to pay every time, others are flattered when you foot the bill. If he buys dinner, offer to pay for dessert or for coffee afterward. Pick up tickets to a concert that you know he wants to see. Have something special -- like flowers or a wrapped gift -- delivered to him at the office. If money is tight, there's nothing better than a lovingly prepared home-cooked meal accompanied by candlelight and soft music.

6. They want to be themselves. Many men complain that they feel they are just projects for women to fix up and show off for their friends. If you don't like criticism and the need to be something you're not, he feels the same way. True, you may cringe at his choice of sport shirts or what he ordered for dinner, but it's his choice. True love sometimes translates to acceptance. Quiet down the nagging, and don't chide him about his friends or what's in his fridge. If he wants your opinion or advice, it's more than likely he'll ask.

7. They want you to be creative. When it comes to sex, most men are voracious about variety. Be a little bold when it comes to sexual interplay with your partner. Try writing love notes about what you'd like to do with him that evening, then position them in special places for him to find. When you're out on a special date, drop hints that you're wearing sexy lingerie. Be inventive and maybe even play a few light, safe games in bed, such as role playing that you're his favorite pin-up or actress. It's a little daring, but it can be wildly sexy and fun.

[AtlantaBob]

What'd you say your number was??

[Musicqueen]

...what am I suppossed to do now? Follow this crap?
Please...get real!!!
Why did you even post this stuff?

[AZB]

Ambiorix is right on the money with this post.
Its true men do like all of the mentioned stuff above but, providing, the woman is attractive and desirable as opposed to a 50 plus years old granny who who still "FEELS" young and attractive. Remember: it doesn't matter how young you feel, what matters is how young you look.

[Criss Colon]

I used to see an "old" couple(about 50,or 60) and wonder how could the guy kiss the old "bag",much less make love to her!Then I began to "mature",a little,and also began to learn about "LOVE",which up until that time I had equated only with "SEX"!Real mature,adult love is a wonderful mixture of;affection,devotion,reflection,sexual relations,fights,,births,deaths,graduations,succes ses,failures,hopes,dreams,and all life's experiences that a couple share during their time together!When a couple share a life together they bond.You only want your mate to be happy,to make you happy.The "physical" is not the only aspect for your continuing together thru life.Your shared history,your family,your future are the "Super-glue" that forms your bond!I look forward to holding,and kissing my wife when she is 50 or 60 years old.If I live to be 80 or 90 years old myself that is!Your posts refect the fact that you have not yet made the transition from "SEX",to "LOVE"!To you women remain an "object",and a "Trophy" to be used,and "Shown off"!I think that life as a single old man in Santiago could get pretty lonely!Remember when you kiss a "Trophy" it doesn't kiss you back!Might be time to "get serious" with one of your "Slim,light skinned,long haired,college student,"Model" type,girl friends!How old are you anyway?CRISCO

[linamia]

THANK YOU. YOU TOOK THE WORDS OUT OF MY MOUTH!

[AnnaC]

Sometimes Criss says things that make me slide right off my chair. There must be a kind, understanding, mature side of Criss that we don't often see (read).
On behalf of all mature women. Thank you Criss

[Bugsey34]

Wow.

[Jim Hinsch]

We definitely don't find baggy sweats "sexy". Topless is sexy. Know the difference. Messy hair? Love it.

[Hillbilly]

Well spoken CCCCCCCCC!!

But then, I happen to know the "other side" of the creature!!


HB



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