sex trade in the dr

love da DR · #1 08-01-2002, 06:08 PM

I a constantly reading about the expoitation and at times the
willing participation of Dominican women. I am very interested
in marrying a Dominican Women, does anyone have any suggestions on 1. avoiding women how are shall we say "women
of the night" and 2. where might be the best locations in the country to search for women of integrity?

thanks, LD DR

ricktoronto · #2 08-01-2002, 06:15 PM

1. Say "no, gracias".
2. Churches. Universities.

Frankly if you are not interested then you are not interested and you can be polite if you are approached and in reality you are not likely to be bombarded with purchase orders.

CaribbeanGeorge · #3 08-01-2002, 07:31 PM

well start by looking into 10 yr old girls, first be her mentor, make sure she doesnt lack anything & after 8 yrs marry her !

Universities ???? I dont think so, read about the beeper girls.

Ken · #4 08-01-2002, 08:15 PM

For "women of integrity" the convents (if they have them in the DR) might be the best place to start your search.

Escott · #5 08-01-2002, 10:08 PM

Hi Isaac!

Nelly · #6 08-01-2002, 10:16 PM

I admit that since I quit smoking I'm a bit touchy BUT has anyone else noticed that when a female posts about Dominican men they often get extremely condensing responses from the regulars, however, when a man posts about Dominican Chicas the responses are much more "supportive"?
Cheers,
Nelly
Warning: PMS'ing and recovering nicotine addict - I wish I had a smiley for this. lol

Jane J. · #7 08-02-2002, 12:50 AM

What's even crazier, Nelly, is that at least when women seek advice regarding men on these boards, it's always about a specific person, one guy, no matter how sankie-pankie, or mismatched to them. Not, "I've decided I want to marry a Dominican. Where can I find the best one?" The idea of predetermining the nationality of one's spouse is a bit "foreign" to me.

bob saunders · #8 08-02-2002, 03:23 AM

I had actually set my sights on a latina, but a Dominicana was probably last on my list, but I'm certainly happy that I found the one I did. I personally know a number of women in the DR that are wonderful people with all the faults and virtues of women everywhere.
Both the male and female members of this board have a tendency to generalize about things( i guess people in general do) Dominican women or men aren't all that different that North American or Europeans. There are some cultural differences, and maybe some other small differences but when you find the one you find the one. Just as some are attracted to dark some are attract to light skin. Everyone has their own particular attraction.
I read almost all the threads on this board and I THINK most women are treated quite gentley, except Janice.

Hillbilly · #9 08-02-2002, 10:11 AM

I think that us male regulars just sort of think: Oh schitt, here's another one!

This guy should have been here last week and gone to the Miss Dom Rep. pageant....Lots of teeth, boobs and ass-like that song in the Chorus Line.. Tits and Ass!

Not that I don't appreciate either!..

I think, being guys, we come down harder on the girls looking for "lost loves" since we know men! We understand the role of youthful gonads pushed by hormonal rushes. Plus we have seen the degradation of the sankies, which are just about the only men these love lorn ladies ever come into contact with....

Now a guy-like Isaac or this one, if different-looking for the love of his life, that's different. See, he is willing to come here for a couple of years, learn the language, enter the social order of things, learn the dos and donts, and then choose the lady.

University? Sure, lots of eye candy. Any mall in Santo Domingo will fill the bill. But marriage is not really like that, is it>??

I loved Jane J's remark: 'the idea of predetermining the nationality of one's spouce is 'foreign" to me"

Now there is a brain at work!.

Isn't this a silly waste of band width?

HB

Theresa · #10 08-02-2002, 10:39 AM

The reason why Nelly, is that there's only a select "few" of the women on the board who will speak up when there is a lonely heart post from a man looking for a Dominican "Chika". The rest would rather not comment. Or, a select few may be like me and have fun with the chap and say something like "This guy must have caught on to the latest DR1 craze and has an alternate user name. Could this be Isacc in disguise?