How to love like a Dominican girl

[JOCHYPLAYA]

Hello girls. I have noticed that many girls from all over the world seem to fall for us Dominican men. Those of you that come to this board to get advice, end up getting abuse and ridicule by the regulars. Ladies, I feel your pain, and as a Dominican, I want to give you some useful tips on how to have a happy relationship with a one of us. I see most people here say "don't do it", "dominicans are all dogs", "he's playing with you" blah blah blah, but that doesnt help because although there might be some truth to those generalizations, you gals will not listen to that. I know you don't wanna hear that even if it's true, and you will keep on falling in love with dominicanos no matter what they say. So, the best thing you can do is behave like a dominican girl if you wanna be happy with a dominican man.

Rule # 1

Dominican girls don't mind us "cheating" on them so much as long as they get their "respect". What I mean by this is that our girls are raised to tolerate our love for many women. They are thaught that if they have a relationship, and the man has other girls on the side, it is ok as long as they are the "main girl/wife." Unlike other countries where the mistress can become more important than the wife, our wives are still "la senora de la casa" and the mistress is just the low life slut.

Rule # 2

We are raised to be mujeriegos. We are encouraged to chase girls since we are little boys, so it's part of our culture to like girls more than anything else. I remember that I was kind of shy when I was growing up, and sometimes I would get a lot of pressure from my grandfather and older brothers to "go talk to the girls".
Sometimes I would get intimidated and they would even hit me because "the neighbors' daughters were so beautifull and I was being too slow to talk to them" so they'd get mad at me.

Rule # 3

You never want to "give it up so easily". That is ok for "cueros" and swingers, but if you wanna be taken serously by a dominican guy, you might wanna make him wait a little, but don't over do it because we get tired of waiting and loose our patience.


Ok, I hope this helps. There are some other things you can do, but you need to talk to some dominican girls and they will steer you in the right direction. By the way, dr girls are very reluctant to give money to a guy, even if they have it. In summary, you girls have to leave your gringo mentality at home. If you wanna be happy, you have to accept that we have big hearts and can love many girls at the same time, and be charming and fair to all. Take it how it is and just be happy. You can find some decent dominicans that will turn out to be faithfull, but is is very unlikely in a resort or touristic centers. However, I 've realized that girls seem to like "bad boys" better because I know that we have the worst womanizer reputation in the world, yet you girls from all over the world keep on falling for us everyday. Ain't that cool?

[JOHNNY HONDA]

Jochy
Way to go,Girls us gringos who live here have accepted to live by these rules much as it pains us to have to keep mistresses against our will,so you must accept this as a way of life submit to the enchanting call of Dominican rules

[Theresa]

I agree Jochy except for one thing:

our wives are still "la senora de la casa" and the mistress is just the low life slut.

OK now there are other DR men on this board that state that there is a hirearchy. E.g. you have your wife but then you number the other women like "my #1, #2, #3 and so on. #1 get preference to #2 since #1 is most likely to be prettier, nicer etc. Isn't that true. I mean, maybe once you get down to #100 she might be the low life slut. I say this not from experience of course any comments?

[JOHNNY HONDA]

You only reach low life slut if you have several boy friends you know how it goes the old double standard Theresa are you sure you did no studies of this phenomonen?

[Theresa]

Who ??? No, no studies for me I am still a virgin They call me Madre Teresa.

[JOHNNY HONDA]

Ay Dios Mio!!!!!!!!!

[Mcinbrass]

...when you give them multiple children, then go on your wandering ways and not support her or the children. You make the mujeriego lifestyle sound so glamourous however in reality this macho way of thinking has supressed the women of your culture. These women then have to resort to things like prostituting themselves to support themselves and your children. How do you feel about that?

Interesting-these rules can also be applied to many other places/people. In Toronto's great diversity, I have encountered many who subscribe to those rules - and not just immigrants or children of immigrants......

The thing that I cannot get over is the number of just STUPID women who give men money! And these can be educated, experienced women that get taken by some smooth talking devil. When you consider that women still on average earn less than men what the hell is the reason? Most of these guys are lazy s.o.b's with multiple kids/women/ who totally shirk responsibility.

Are they that desparate to hang on to the guy that they throw money at him? Ladies-where is your self-respect?
This girl will never give anything away that easily to those that do not deserve it-sex/money/food/whatever!

See-this happens here too-not strictly a Dominican thing. I have always said that IF I was ever crazy enough to get married, I would expect that there would be something on the side-and frankly I would just not want to know about it. I don't want their guilt unloaded just so that person can have the pine-fresh feeling inside!

[AnnaC]

I'm sitting here thinking, hummm is it better to be the respected wife who has to wash his dirty underwear after an event with the low life slut,or is it better to be the low life slut who doesn't have to put up with him all the time.....hummmmmmmmm...I'll get back to you on that.

[Jane J.]

Without a doubt, I'd rather be the low-life slut.

(Anna, couldn't I be a high-life slut instead?)