Why?

[ConfusedNBK]

I am new to this forum, but I have been reading and browsing for sometime now. I want to know if anyone can tell me why/how a man can be so totally crazy about a woman, and then just stop everything. If someone is so great to you, how can you just drop everything thats good? My friend told me that all Dominicans are like that, but I don't believe him...at least I didn't at the time. Is it me, or is there something that I don't know about Dominican men?

[Jim Hinsch]

The same way a woman can drop her soul mate after catching him cheating just once. One thought can completely change a person's perception.

[Jersey Devil]

Confused,

Actually I am confused by your post. What exactly are you
questioning about the character of dominicans?

te cuida,

Moca

[ConfusedNBK]

Moca,

I have dated alot of men from everywhere, and this particular man is the first Dominican man that I have ever dated. I am wondering if all Dominican men lose interest in a span of one day, or is this just my man?....I thought maybe it was a Dominican thing, I am just looking for an thought or ideas that anyone may have.

[debs]

I don't think this trait is specific to Dominican men (and yes I've dated quite a few). I guess we all lose interest in someone new after a while. Some just do so faster than others.

[AnnaC]

You knew him for one day or he lost interest in one day? I think, matters not where one is from, losing interest happens slowly. Or if you just met, then find out they are not you're type you have to walk away at some point. Does this make sense? I think my brain is on reverse again today.

[JOHNNY HONDA]

Where Im from we call that a one night stand.

[jrshd9]

You really can't be serious to think you can label an entire population on one person? Johnny, where everyone lives it's called a one night stand

Stoner

[ConfusedNBK]

Ok..I think there is some confusion here, we were together for almost a year..this is not a one night stand. I just wanted to get some feedback of someone who has dated more Dominican men than I have to see if it was just this one guy or if someone else has gone through this crap.

[Lee-Lee]

hey confused. welcome to the forum and i hope you'll be able to get your answers. I think part of your question might simply never be answered. All too often we try understanding dogs... oops i meant men, but to no avail.

in any case... you state you were together for almost a year. I'm sure his change wasn't a complete overnight. did you happen to see any warning signs, flags, signals in his behavior and attitude? try to link those (if you can) to something that could have happened to change his feelings towards you.

like everyone said already... I don't think it's STRICTLY a dominican thing, so let's clear away from stereotyping.

finally... is this a long distance thing or is he a dominican living abroad?

oh yea one more thing.... if he changed towards you.... whatever the reason is, maybe you should just move on. this person is obviously not for you if he hurt you this way without an explanation (how serious a relationship was this by the way? i mean... change without explanation illustrates a lack of communication in a relationship. )

smile.... life is all about human relations and the consequent intermingled web of confusion : )