I echo what Dale 7 said earlier.
since I was 16 I have had the 'I don't give a F__k what other people are thinking about what I am doing" attitude. (This applies to manner of dress, friends, extra-cirricular activities. I am not harming anyone by sleeping with their husbands (married is off my list) and have (except for a 6 year relationship) been sowing MY womanly wild oats to this day. Not to say that I go seek out someone night after night - I don't because I don't have to.......I get repeat 'business' so to speak!!
I am straight up with men, we know what the situation is all about and removing that stress of 'Oh-where is this RELATIONSHIP going' crap makes things easy going and so much more fun. I believe another poster mentioned be yourself, and you can become friends and who knows....I met someone casually 3 years ago....we have gone on to become great friends. I have no designs on him however I think his wife might think so!!! Her problem.
Bottom line-be true to yourself, follow your gut instinct and buy your own condoms.
And it's so damned cold here right now that some body heat would be most welcome!!!!
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