My Story Of My Dominican.....

Latin Lover · #1 09-01-2003, 05:16 PM

First of all...I'm new to the website so I just wanted to share my story with everyone. My boyfriend of a year and a half is from the Dominican Republic and I met him when he was here playing baseball. He got sent back to Arizona but we still talked and when his season ended he came back up to my house and stayed with me, then returned home. He made it clear to me that I was the only one he wanted and the only one he cared for and of course I believed it. He had always gotten on my case about me being unfaithful to him (which I was very faithful) and I never once thought that he was to me. Well when he returned to the states to play ball again, I went to see him and everything was once again perfect (or so I thought) He had talked to me about wanting to have children with me and that he wanted to marry me and would always tell me that I was the most beautiful girl in the world. I was so completely hooked on him until I found out from one of his friends that he had been talking to another girl down there for quite some time. When I asked him about it he acted as if he had no idea who she was and everything.

Well being curious about it, I got her number from his room mate and called her to talk about it......Well yeah, she knew him all right, they had been talking for about 6 months or so and he was telling her the same exact things he was telling me. Wanting to catch him in his lie, we called him on 3-way and confronted him about it. To make a long story short, he was surprised to say the least and a little mad but when I asked him about it, he told me that the only reason he had been "talking" to her was because he missed me. Honestly, I have no idea what to do about the whole situation because I'm honestly in love with him but the distance is too much. And I know that if it's really meant to be, everything will work out but should I sit and wait?? And I just feel so dumb for being played like that because he has taken advantage of me in more then one way.....

Sorry to bore all of you with my pity story about my pathetic love life.....but I just need some feed back about the whole thing. Are Dominicans known to lie? Hmmmm...so many questions! Thanks!!

Danny W · #2 09-01-2003, 05:30 PM

Everyone lies. Many people are going to tell you to dump him; most probably they are right. I am involved in an equally foolhardy situation, and so far I'm glad that I am. As the referee says before the prize fight, "protect yourself at all times". I'm impressed with that 3 way call - hope you make the right choice. - D

Robert · #3 09-01-2003, 05:31 PM

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Originally posted by Latin Lover
Are Dominicans known to lie?

I'm not going to touch that one

You have been played, move on...

Dominican Babe · #4 09-01-2003, 05:35 PM

Hope you're ready for the responses you're going to get here.
Check your emails.

goatfarmnga · #5 09-01-2003, 05:39 PM

Now if you think he really loves you etc..Why would he be with that girl again? OOOOOhhhhh he missed you.....Yeah he is lieing and you fell for him..It happens alot. Just get rid of him as he is only hurting you and using many women with the same game..A 3 Way call told you both the deal..Drop him and find a more honest guy as you are wasting your precious time! He could also spread disease with his behavior so watch yourself...Better to find this info before you have kids etc...Good Luck to you,

Pam

Criss Colon · #6 09-01-2003, 06:17 PM

Now,would you like to buy some swamp land in Florida at a special price just for you??? Cris Colon

Ken · #7 09-01-2003, 06:35 PM

Assuming you aren't a sock puppet, what is it that you want from the board? Your post makes clear that you know you have been played for a fool and that there is little reason to believe things will change for the better.

There is nothing in your post that hasn't been said by many other women. As Robert advised, move on--unless, of course, you want to demean yourself by chasing a guy who comes from a culture where men cheat on their wives and who has been brought up to believe men are special.

AnnaC · #8 09-01-2003, 06:42 PM

Yes like Ken said, what is it you want from us? You already know that he lied to you.
Do Dominicans lie? Do men lie? Do women lie? Sort them out by their merits not their nationality.

Welcome to the DR1.

There are times I smell bait in the air, especially when all has been quiet for a while.

ClippedWing · #9 09-01-2003, 06:48 PM

I have a friend who dated a Dominican baseball player while he was playing in minor leauges in the US. He lied, he cheated, etc. This mofo was married. So you got off easy with another girlfriend.

Dump him. Cry. Heal. Move on.

Smooches... Clip.

AZB · #10 09-01-2003, 07:09 PM

I say stay with the guy if you really are into dominican men. All dominican men cheat just like all foerigners (if the risks are low). Look at it this way, at least he has the money and will have the fame and more fortune. Enjoy the money and the pleasure of the flesh and welcome to the club, all dominican men cheat. To go even further, I have yet to find an able foreign male who wouldn't cheat if the circumstances were right and risks were low. Then you have guys who fantasize about being with the other women but are too old, ugly or too chicken to even make an attempt at it.