Do women take separate vacations to the DR in order get away from hubby?

kunky · #1 10-28-2003, 10:59 AM

im not looking for justification as to what i do, i thought id start up a new thread, and by the way, i use protection, i dont have sex with my hubbie, we're just friends, and for every guy who claims they've been faithful, doubt it. you're not all saints. wow, you're all tough, although i did expect this anyways. everyone has a skeleton in their closet, and they're afraid to admit it, or they're too afraid to let loose.

goatfarmnga · #2 10-28-2003, 11:08 AM

Hey not judging you but curious...If you do not have sex with your husband..he must be gay, ancient or handicapped..All of which can make you feel loyal to him. But why waste your life with a "Friend" if you love someone in the DR?
Just curious as a home can be found anywhere...why stay married to someone you are friends only...You can still be friends and not be married so you can have a "Life" of your own with sex..How do you do that anyway? I would go crazy..
These people are not tough..they are weird....LOL

PAM

Escott · #3 10-28-2003, 11:28 AM

Kunky,

What a handle...

Don't be bothered by some of these women who pass judgement upon you and feel that everyone should lead their lives as they do which is most times just a boring existance.

I am not a player like a lot of these people claim to be but to each his own.
Regards,
Scott

kunky · #4 10-28-2003, 11:28 AM

my husband had cancer ofthe kidney 3 years ago, and since its been removed, and after an injury at work, he doesnt work anymore. so, i settle, and we' re friends, and im okay with that. after 16 years of marriage, and not wanting to start over again, a am very happy that i have one week out of a year to be with my latin friend, and we're okay with that. i dont cheat on him here at home, and im not interested in anyone else either. it works for me and i dont judge anyone for what goes in their lives, nor do i care if anyone judges me. they dont know me.

MrMike · #5 10-28-2003, 11:29 AM

Not all of us, there are many I'm sure like me who find no fault in your pleasure trips, but didn't think it was worth a comment just to say so - after all, statistically we are no minority.

There are many, many people who come to this country for the same purpose you do, and many more who would if they could, and yet many others who make their living because of people like you.

kunky · #6 10-28-2003, 11:55 AM

mr mike, i didnt go to the dr looking for anything, it was my first holiday ever, and i needed to get away. my amigo just happened to be at the right place at the right time. i was in the middle of a divorce at the time, so i wasnt cheating, we were already separated. to date, i still go back as i have a lady friend who i met through patrons at my work place who owns a bed and breakfast in puerto plata, and now i go to visit her on my holiday. hang out on the Malecon and drink Brugal.. what fun and i dont have to cook, clean, answer the phone, do anything for one week out of a year. i earned it.

AnnaC · #7 10-28-2003, 12:03 PM

Kunky I'm trying to get the story straight. I'm not judging, I'm not without sin but you say you were separated and in the middle of a divorce but now you are with your husband. You must have come to some agreement. Is this right?

kunky · #8 10-28-2003, 12:08 PM

hi anna, yes, after being separated, we got back together, he stopped the drinking, (he is an alcoholic) and for the sake of the children, and finances, we are still together, we are friends, we dont have sex (health issues) we get along great other than the lack of... he has no problem with me going away with my friends, and hes actually going on a 4 day fishing trip with the guys this weekend. it works for us, and its hard for others to understand our lifestyle, but we're happy. cheri

Forbeca · #9 10-28-2003, 12:11 PM

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Originally posted by kunky
im not looking for justification as to what i do, i thought id start up a new thread, and by the way, i use protection, i dont have sex with my hubbie, we're just friends, and for every guy who claims they've been faithful, doubt it. you're not all saints. wow, you're all tough, although i did expect this anyways. everyone has a skeleton in their closet, and they're afraid to admit it, or they're too afraid to let loose.

In reading that other thread, I don't see what all the fuzz was about. We all know how each and every member of this board is going to react to certain issues. Are we always going to have to close threads because these individuals' opinions? Kunky, people were just telling you how they felt, they werent passing judgement!

I don't think putting the women of DR1 down is a smart way to go either. For what? over a new poster who has not paid her dues yet? In all fairness Kunky, you sounded like a woman who enjoyed cheating on her husband. Today, we find out the real story, perhaps the women whose comments you didn't appreciate yesterday would have been a little more understanding if you'd been a bit more detailed. See how these things get out of hand?

kunky · #10 10-28-2003, 12:20 PM

sorry if i offended anyone from the dr, i have the greatest respect for anyone from around the world. if i have dissed any women from the dr, i opologize, thats not how i meant to come off. as for the dr and their people, id rather live my life down there, than up here in canada. their culture, and whole attitude on life, impresses me.