FOR MEN ONLY - What women really want and need

[miguel]

[QUOTE=Forbeca]

Originally Posted by chuckuindy

What women really want Women want a POWERFUL man.

Do you actually believe everything you write? Take it from me, a powerful woman, you are so disconnected it's not even funny!

Indded, a POWERFUL, but also loving, respectful, mature, caring and a tiger in bed. The total package. Yes guys, a man can be very POWERFUL and still be all that I mentioned. Some can be POWERFUL and still be chumps.

Charlie, what kind of relationships are we talking about; the uncommited one or the commited one?.

[CyaBye3015]

Originally Posted by Talldrink

Chucky, I see your point (I think) However, I feel a little different than you do. See, I am Dominican and I was raised with the mentality that the man needs 'special' attention and needs to be serviced. I don’t have a problem playing this role, as long as all my hard work is reciprocated with love and attention from my mate. I LIKE to serve and please my husband - not that I feel I HAVE to, where is the love here? See, if you care and are grateful for the love and attention you are given, it is only to your benefit. You can get so much more from a woman by just being plain ol’ nice to her!

I don’t expect my man to do chores (honestly, I’m anal when it comes to cleaning – think Monica from Friends – so cleaning is MY thing) but if I cooked a good meal and I get a kiss on the cheek, a thank you for the cooking and maybe a compliment for how good it was, I would be smiling away the entire time I’m doing the dishes and he is off doing something else (most likely watching TV). I wouldn’t be disgruntled because he is not helping me right this minute.

There are many things that Dominican women ‘soportan’ to keep peace at home. And in all honesty, not sweating the little things is much better than bickering over who should have the power at home. As long as there is love and respect in a relationship, in my opinion, the man will be a King along with his Queen in the kingdom.




It doesnt matter what the wife does at home, if the man wants to cheat (instead of trying to figure out what he is lacking at home) he will do it regardless if he had a harem of wives that called him 'Master' at home...

Talldrink, will you marry me?

[chuckuindy]

Originally Posted by miguel

Indded, a POWERFUL, but also loving, respectful, mature, caring and a tiger in bed. The total package. Yes guys, a man can be very POWERFUL and still be all that I mentioned. Some can be POWERFUL and still be chumps.

Charlie, what kind of relationships are we talking about; the uncommited one or the commited one?.

You see my friend there lays the problem. What is committed? Tell me why it is that the human male is the only species known to man that is supposed to be committed (monogamous)? Who made this silly rule, anyway? I bet it was some woman.

For millions of years the powerful male hunted for woman’s food then drug them off to his cave to have his way with them. Multiple women followed him around because he was their meal ticket. If he liked Jane a little better at the end of the day she got a little extra meat (if you know what I mean). If Betty did not clean the cave, like she was told, she probably became a vegetarian and a gatherer. Only the Jane’s survived because they understood what their powerful man needed. The really powerful men thought history have always had several Jane’s around to take care of their needs. Never committed to only one, but committed to the select few who knew that he was master of all that is good and all that feels good. Only he could supply the things they wanted most, food, sex and the seed of life (children).

The powerful Chinese rulers had their concubines, medieval Kings had their winches, yet most were very committed to their number one wife or Queen. Why did this lifestyle change? Somehow women were allowed a little power. Some male screwed up and let it happen. Do you think that even 100 years ago some woman could walk into a court any where in the world and say, I want a divorce, my man never cheated on me but he treated me as less than his equal in front of my female friends and this constitutes “mental cruelty”, and I want half of what he has now and a cut of future earnings. Well my friend this happens every day here in America. Let some male try to do that and they will be laughed right out of the court room.

Commitment is only a state of mind. Who says that I can not be committed to my wife and still have uncommitted relationships with other women? Please tell me who made that rule. Something like this is only spawned out of jealousy, lust for ownership, and a desire to zap the power from the dominate male.

You pick the answer Miguel, the uncommitted one or the committed one; because I don’t believe that it makes any difference. Since my third world experiences (Dominican) have taught me, there are women who understand the need for a powerful man in their lives.

[AZB]

I bow to your wisdom.

[Adrian Bye]

Originally Posted by chuckuindy

You pick the answer Miguel, the uncommitted one or the committed one; because I don’t believe that it makes any difference. Since my third world experiences (Dominican) have taught me, there are women who understand the need for a powerful man in their lives.

So can you make this work when there isn't a massive economic difference between you and your partner?

For it to be a true test, that factor needs to not be a part of the equation. Cynics would say that the only reason these women put up with these conditions is that it gives them some relief from financial pressure, of which this country is under a tremendous amount currently.

What do you think?

Adrian

[AnnaC]

Originally Posted by adrianb

So can you make this work when there isn't a massive economic difference between you and your partner?

For it to be a true test, that factor needs to not be a part of the equation. Cynics would say that the only reason these women put up with these conditions is that it gives them some relief from financial pressure, of which this country is under a tremendous amount currently.

What do you think?

Adrian

ABSOLUTELY!

[AZB]

Originally Posted by xamaicano

Ummm, but Dominican women get cheated on too. Let's be real here, we go to Dominican Republic because our relative wealth gives us easier access to tons of really hot women. Wealth that is derive from living in a wealthy country. A wealthy country that affords its women choices that most Dominican women don't have. So of course a lot Dominican women are going to be less demanding than American or European women, they are negotiating from a position of weakness.

This is it, some people have no idea what they are talking about.
You think all dominican women are married to foreign men? Not even 1% of dominican women are married to americans. Dominican women treat the same way, all the men, regardless of their origin. Almost 99% of dominican women are ,married to dominicen men and they treat them like kings.

[chuckuindy]

[QUOTE=ForbecaDo you actually believe everything you write? Take it from me, a powerful woman, you are so disconnected it's not even funny![/QUOTE]

Joking? Would you have had the opportunity to be a “powerful” woman 200 years ago? Would you be a "powerful woman” today if you were born into poverty in a third world nation? And why are you a “powerful woman” now? Only because some PW’ed, non-powerful male was convinced by his woman that she should have a little power and then took more power than he ever suspected or that she required.

Joking, I think not. Spend some time with the really happy women of the world. Those who understand that with out their powerful male they are nothing.

P.S. you will have to travel outside of North America or Europe to find these women.

[Forbeca]

OMG, you are one demented old fool. FYI, I was born in Santo Domingo, and my success has nothing to do with someone giving me a break. I have a great job today because I work hard and did not let fools like you deter me from my vision. The world has changed dear, get used to it.

Have a great weekend!!!!





[QUOTE=chuckuindyJoking? Would you have had the opportunity to be a “powerful” woman 200 years ago? Would you be a "powerful woman” today if you were born into poverty in a third world nation?
Joking, I think not. Spend some time with the really happy women of the world. Those who understand that with out their powerful male they are nothing.

P.S. you will have to travel outside of North America or Europe to find these women.[/QUOTE]

[chuckuindy]

Originally Posted by adrianb

So can you make this work when there isn't a massive economic difference between you and your partner?

For it to be a true test, that factor needs to not be a part of the equation. Cynics would say that the only reason these women put up with these conditions is that it gives them some relief from financial pressure, of which this country is under a tremendous amount currently.

What do you think?

Adrian

Apparently you know nothing about history. Money has always brought power. Money is power. That’s why man has always made the most money and women have always tried to take it from them.

There is no level playing field; it is the strong vs., the weak. No matter how much money you have you are stronger than the person who has less. How often do you see a rich man with a dog for a wife? It’s not because he bought his arm bracelet, it’s because she loves him because he is powerful. And because she loves him she will keep herself fit and look as fine as she can for him at all times. She will meet his every need and fulfill his every dream. Why, because she understands she needs a powerful man.