Why do Gringos hate Dominican men...?

Mira · #1 01-22-2005, 12:23 AM

I think the males (especially the ones on this board who are not affraid to claim they have sex with Dominican women or even pay for it) who bash the Gringas who have sex with Dominicans guys and/or fall in love with them do it because it hurts their Ego.

If you wouldn't be a rich Gringo to those ladies, chances are, no one would want to have sex with you, that's why you are so upset when a white women have sex with one of those guys! Maybe are you even jealous that a black man's tool is (supposely) bigger than yours... In psychology it is known that a man's first concern is the size of his tool (erectile disfonction is next, 3rd is balding).

When a man comes saying he found love in DR, are you just upset that your chicas were into you for money but he might live something different? And what if you are right, she's into him for his $, maybe the guy likes it that way! (some men do!) But he's alowed to live it without having his expectations shattered by a bunch of judgmental, closed minded Gringos.

Racism or jealousy???

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And pleeeaaase, don't start telling me about all the horror stories, I've read them, I've seen some with my own two eyes, I've seen people getting married in DR, in Montreal... ... I've seen lots of failure, but I've also seen success. I'm sure any women heard it all before they traveled how those men want their way out of their countries etc... It's been said for ages!

It's right to say the proper things, it's right to tell someone about the risks and the dangers, the possibilities, tell real horror stories to educate the ones who might fall for it. But name calling a woman because she believed in love for a second, that is really innapropriate and of bad taste!

In North America, in Europe, a woman's body belongs to her, she's as liberated as any men, she's allowed to go where men goes, she knows what she wants, how to get it, and what to do with it. If she wants sex, or if she wants to believe in love, the decision is her own. Your job is to give the informations, that's it! It's not by judging, throwing stones and calling names that you will change things.

liam1 · #2 01-22-2005, 12:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Mira

I think the males (especially the ones on this board who are not affraid to claim they have sex with Dominican women or even pay for it) who bash the Gringas who have sex with Dominicans guys and/or fall in love with them do it because it hurts their Ego.

If you wouldn't be a rich Gringo to those ladies, chances are, no one would want to have sex with you, that's why you are so upset when a white women have sex with one of those guys! Maybe are you even jealous that a black man's tool is (supposely) bigger than yours... In psychology it is known that a man's first concern is the size of his tool (erectile disfonction is next, 3rd is balding).

When a man comes saying he found love in DR, are you just upset that your chicas were into you for money but he might live something different? And what if you are right, she's into him for his $, maybe the guy likes it that way! (some men do!) But he's alowed to live it without having his expectations shattered by a bunch of judgmental, closed minded Gringos.

Racism or jealousy???

******************************

And pleeeaaase, don't start telling me about all the horror stories, I've read them, I've seen some with my own two eyes, I've seen people getting married in DR, in Montreal... ... I've seen lots of failure, but I've also seen success. I'm sure any women heard it all before they traveled how those men want their way out of their countries etc... It's been said for ages!

It's right to say the proper things, it's right to tell someone about the risks and the dangers, the possibilities, tell real horror stories to educate the ones who might fall for it. But name calling a woman because she believed in love for a second, that is really innapropriate and of bad taste!

In North America, in Europe, a woman's body belongs to her, she's as liberated as any men, she's allowed to go where men goes, she knows what she wants, how to get it, and what to do with it. If she wants sex, or if she wants to believe in love, the decision is her own. Your job is to give the informations, that's it! It's not by judging, throwing stones and calling names that you will change things.

i don't even know where to start so i'll just say you got it all twisted. none of us here hate dominican men. those women (you?) need to get satisfied too, and most of us "gringos" don't eat at micky D's when we can have a triple "A" quality steak.

ps. are you planing to move to the DR because as you called it "a black man's tool" is bigger than a canadian gringo's is?

stallion · #3 01-22-2005, 01:01 AM

We Men do not hate the Dominican men. Some just hate the the sankies and the stupid women who fall in love with them. I mean We don't hear a man complaining about his DR based relationship. But we hear alot from the women. Like how when you call the other mistress answers the call, when the guy asks for cash and never calls after getting the cash, when the girl found out the guy she loved had 4 kids and a wife that she did not know about and so on....... We hear it everyday and get sick of it, especially after she has been warned. Personally speaking I am not racist and have many guy friends in the DR. And as far as jelousy goes, don't even go there. You could not compare us to the guys there. Whatever they can get, we can get better. Come up with something more reasonable next time.

I am sure AZB can give you the low down on your story.

Mira · #4 01-22-2005, 01:14 AM

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Originally Posted by liam1

ps. are you planing to move to the DR because as you called it "a black man's tool" is bigger than a canadian gringo's is?

You know, the only "black man" I had sex with lives here in Montreal. But my type is Mediteranean...

Mira · #5 01-22-2005, 01:16 AM

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Originally Posted by stallion

We Men do not hate the Dominican men. Some just hate the the sankies and the stupid women who fall in love with them. I mean We don't hear a man complaining about his DR based relationship. But we hear alot from the women. Like how when you call the other mistress answers the call, when the guy asks for cash and never calls after getting the cash, when the girl found out the guy she loved had 4 kids and a wife that she did not know about and so on....... We hear it everyday and get sick of it, especially after she has been warned. Personally speaking I am not racist and have many guy friends in the DR. And as far as jelousy goes, don't even go there. You could not compare us to the guys there. Whatever they can get, we can get better. Come up with something more reasonable next time.

I am sure AZB can give you the low down on your story.

So if you don't hate them, why bashing people? You give them the link on top of the thread that says everything! Now if they don't want to listen, do they have to be called name?

Some women just like being victims, some are just naive! It still don't deserve the name calling!

AnnaC · #6 01-22-2005, 01:33 AM

Not sure what makes you think that all men on this message board are gringos. We have many men that are Dominicans here.

When you read anything negative about what you think are all Dominican men, in reality they referring to "sankies". A sankie is a scam artist, a user and abuser of women. They are the ones that make women believe they are truly loved.

I don't know how many times I have said it. Dominicans are not all sankies so please don't start something that has nada to do with that.

When "gringos" meet someone they don't come and ask on a message board if anyone else knows his girlfriend. Far far less anyways. They ask questions too but it's not to find out who else is sleeping with their women.

Then there are men that go there to simply have sex and that's it. They really don't care what we think.

You are absolutely right. If that's what women wants to do then they are free to do so and no one says they can't.

Wish we didn't have to hear about it

leaving us with other things to discuss like sex and foreplay ect

Anything pleassssssssse than "looking for".

Oh btw if someone says, mira you are a blah blah, that is a personal attack and they get two warning points and post will be deleted. But if someone says women are blah blah that isn't.

Because in turn you can men are all blah blah as you already have
Make sense?

Mira · #7 01-22-2005, 01:36 AM

From all I read so far it surely feels like you do. I've been chatting outside of this board with other posters and we all agreed on one thing : how judgemental and rude people can be here!

If those posts are not full of preconcieved thoughts, hatred and judgement, then I wonder!

http://www.dr1.com/forums/showpost.p...1&postcount=28

http://www.dr1.com/forums/showpost.p...3&postcount=43

And that's only found in the latest posts, I've seen far worse proofs of human sickness and disturbing stuff being said in older threads....

Mira · #8 01-22-2005, 01:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Anna Coniglio

Not sure what makes you think that all men on this message board are gringos. We have many men that are Dominicans here.

When you read anything negative about what you think are all Dominican men, in reality they referring to "sankies". A sankie is a scam artist, a user and abuser of women. They are the ones that make women believe they are truly loved.

I don't know how many times I have said it. Dominicans are not all sankies so please don't start something that has nada to do with that.

When "gringos" meet someone they don't come and ask on a message board if anyone else knows his girlfriend. Far far less anyways. They ask questions too but it's not to find out who else is sleeping with their women.

Then there are men that go there to simply have sex and that's it. They really don't care what we think.

You are absolutely right. If that's what women wants to do then they are free to do so and no one says they can't.

Wish we didn't have to hear about it

leaving us with other things to discuss like sex and foreplay ect

Anything pleassssssssse than "looking for".

There are Sankies and Sankiette (or whatever you call them) in any country, actually, in every coutry I'm pretty sure. People who will abuse of other's good feelings and $ and anything you are willing to let them take from you are not just a kind of person particular to the DR. Believe me, I met many French Canadian men like that! I've seen many girls like that too... It's everywhere! You can be hurt like that traveling to a foreing country, any of them, or into your own! Don't tell me there aren't any losers in the US, I won't believe it!

AnnaC · #9 01-22-2005, 01:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Mira

There are Sankies and Sankiette (or whatever you call them) in any country, actually, in every coutry I'm pretty sure. People who will abuse of other's good feelings and $ and anything you are willing to let them take from you are not just a kind of person particular to the DR. Believe me, I met many French Canadian men like that! I've seen many girls like that too... It's everywhere! You can be hurt like that traveling to a foreing country, any of them, or into your own! Don't tell me there aren't any losers in the US, I won't believe it!

Absolutely, but we aren't here to discuss anything that isn't DR related. NOT allowed!!!!

They come, they ask, opinions are given.

I'm going to bed. Good night

stallion · #10 01-22-2005, 01:52 AM

Welcome to DR1. Stop attacking everyone that posts on your thread. Simply ignore. You will here good talk and some bad downtalking. So you don't have to answer to everyone that posts on your thread like you are doing. I mean you joined in less than a week ago, posted 2 theads and replied to anyone who posted. I will advice you to play shadow and learn the forum, gain some experience and then start talking. You find couple of threads and assume that we all hate DR men and are very jelous. Also you assuming everyone is a gringo here, there are lots of DR men on the forum and that give women heck here, so get to now everything first, assumption is not the way to go. So read all the good stuff we talk about, rather than cathing on the 2 bad threads you found offensive. Good luck.

BTW I don't think you will survive in the DR with these kind of assumptions. You want to live in the DR and you are ****ing some people off. You are saying that we have problems like Erectile disfunction, Balding and lots of garbage. Just to tell you most of the older men are all currently residing in the DR and they will be the people you will turn to for help. And not all are erectile disfunction nor bold or old like you think. There are lot;s of young guys here that guys there could never compete against. I am in my early 20's and don't find the men in DR a threat. Have a nice day.