Let the double standard live...

Berzin · #1 02-18-2005, 04:23 PM

just make sure you can go somewhere where it will occasionally work in your favor.

A pretty girl can ask for whatever she wants, and go about dating someone for money in a shameless manner. A dusty male hotel sankie satisfies his tourist girlfriend, he gets paid and he is a no-good opportunist.
I am all for male sankies getting their "Game" on. And if they can profit from it more power to them. Girls do it all the time to guys and it is socially accepted.

I have heard disparaging remarks about guys going to the DR to hook up because they go there to play the "rich american" just to impress some poor dominican girl. More power to them, too.
The dream lives-these female tourists who hook up with sankies probably feel loved for the first time in their lives!!!! Whatever they pay their sankies is worth it!!!!

I hooked up with a girl in Boca Chica on Christmas and it was the best two days I ever had in my life with someone. So good in fact that I decided to give my supposed girlfriend the boot as soon as I ran into her in Santo Domingo. I figure why compromise?

So folks, go to the DR, do your sightseeing, travelling and play around with whomever you can. Just leave it there when it's time to go home.

chuckuindy · #2 02-19-2005, 08:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Berzin

just make sure you can go somewhere where it will occasionally work in your favor.

A pretty girl can ask for whatever she wants, and go about dating someone for money in a shameless manner. A dusty male hotel sankie satisfies his tourist girlfriend, he gets paid and he is a no-good opportunist.
I am all for male sankies getting their "Game" on. And if they can profit from it more power to them. Girls do it all the time to guys and it is socially accepted.

I have heard disparaging remarks about guys going to the DR to hook up because they go there to play the "rich american" just to impress some poor dominican girl. More power to them, too.
The dream lives-these female tourists who hook up with sankies probably feel loved for the first time in their lives!!!! Whatever they pay their sankies is worth it!!!!

I hooked up with a girl in Boca Chica on Christmas and it was the best two days I ever had in my life with someone. So good in fact that I decided to give my supposed girlfriend the boot as soon as I ran into her in Santo Domingo. I figure why compromise?

So folks, go to the DR, do your sightseeing, travelling and play around with whomever you can. Just leave it there when it's time to go home.

Love and lust are powerful emotions. Not all of us are strong enough to ignore them once we return home from the DR.

Charlie

Berzin · #3 02-19-2005, 08:08 PM

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Originally Posted by chuckuindy

Love and lust are powerful emotions. Not all of us are strong enough to ignore them once we return home from the DR.

Charlie

What would be the knockout blow for you, then? To find out your guy/girl is in the prostitution business? That they are living with someone the whole time they tell you they are single? Or when you call and another guy/girl answers the cell phone?
What you pay for(or think you pay for) in the DR is not love. It is a temporary arrangent meant to fool you into thinking you are in love. And when you finally open your eyes and see what is actually going on, it's TOO LATE!!!
You've been played!!!! We call THEM sankies. You know what they call us? LONG-DSTANCE PENDEJOS. Don't become one.

Rocky · #4 02-19-2005, 08:56 PM

Most of the ladies of the night make clear cut deals for their services, whereas the sankie plays a sneaky game of bleeding the woman's (victim) out of her, under false pretenses.
Not only does the woman get victimized financially, but the sankie plays games with her emotionally as well.
There truly is no comparison between the two and there is no double standard.

Van2004 · #5 02-23-2005, 08:54 PM

Guys, seriously why does every forum say things about "sankies" i mean so what, there not ALL sankies. Every forum when it should be about something else ends up about sankies maybe some of the guys are jelous about how much booty these "sankies" get? and if they are all sankies power to them, i mean who really cares? but, i have many friends from DR and some who are guys that work at resorts that i have never had sexual encounters with and never paid a cent unless it was for myself. Actually just last week a friend of mine took me out and i didn't pay for a thing, got pretty drunk and danced the night away all on him! Mind you the other friends of mine from DR i do pay but only for myself or if i was to offer a beer perhaps. You would have to be very nieve not to see the signs of a TRUE sankie and yes there are many, but not all!

and this is not to start an argument just stating how i feel

Thanks Vanessa

Rocky · #6 02-23-2005, 09:44 PM

It's not a difficult thing to understand, Vanessa. The sankies engage in deceiptful business practices.
The sankies lead women to believe that they are in love with them, then bleed everything they can get out of them.
They are lowlives.
Not only do they rip their victims off, but they hurt them emotionally.
I cannot understand why this question keeps on coming up.
Perhaps if the women who use their services, just were honest with themselves and propositioned the dudes to give them the whirl of a lifetime, while whispering sweet nothings in their ears, then paid the dude and said goodbye, good riddance, then there would be no problem.
There would be no market for sankies if women didn't keep sucking up all the verbal diahrea that comes out of their mouths.

AnnaC · #7 02-23-2005, 10:12 PM

Not every forum is about sankies, only the "sankie forum" is and anything that sounds like it gets thrown down here. I'm surprised anyone can even find it.

You all must have learned how to click on the " new posts since last visit" button.

Rocky · #8 02-23-2005, 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Anna Coniglio

You all must have learned how to click on the " new posts since last visit" button.

It's the only way to travel...

Van2004 · #9 02-24-2005, 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Rocky

It's not a difficult thing to understand, Vanessa. The sankies engage in deceiptful business practices.
The sankies lead women to believe that they are in love with them, then bleed everything they can get out of them.
They are lowlives.
Not only do they rip their victims off, but they hurt them emotionally.
I cannot understand why this question keeps on coming up.
Perhaps if the women who use their services, just were honest with themselves and propositioned the dudes to give them the whirl of a lifetime, while whispering sweet nothings in their ears, then paid the dude and said goodbye, good riddance, then there would be no problem.
There would be no market for sankies if women didn't keep sucking up all the verbal diahrea that comes out of their mouths.

I understand completley and believe me i have ran into many "sankies" all i'm saying is that all resort workers aren't sankies and friends of mine are resort workers and are not sankies. I dated a dominican from Santo Domingo I payed for ONLY myself, no extras, and no money after sex, this guy never asked me for money, knew i was only a student, would be with me the hole night wherever we went, held my hand and would not flirt or leave to talk to any girls, for god sakes he had my picture blown up on his wall, mind you, i am the one who ended it because i met someone home wich is alot easier ahahah I am not saying most aren't sankies, just that some are not, and the signs are usually there plain and clear!
I do have a question though...lol...Why is it Dominian men get so jelouse? again not all but a few i know of do very much, is it in there blood or what?

AnnaC · #10 02-24-2005, 09:35 AM

Welcome back Vanessa. I see by your post that you went to the DR finally. Did you find out what entertainers make?