Fell for a dominican man.. finding it hard to be without him..

JoeJoe · #1 03-06-2006, 07:28 PM

I was on an exposure trip in Consuelo recently.. and we had five tour guides bring the group of us canadian's around for a week. Well I fell into a quick friendship with one of the tour guides and we were purely friends at first but soon friendship brought on more passionate feelings and soon our 10 our days turned into 17 hours together when he would come over to my host families house to be with me and we talked for hours and hours. We have talked twice sometimes three or four times a day since I left a month ago and I was supposed to come back in may but that trip has been cancelled so I can put more money into my trip in the late summer (I'm going to school there for four months ..leaving in augest) I have never got the feeling from him that he is using me or wutever just because I am a canadian woman and I know he is a truely beautiful (inside and out) man. He is in university at the moment and doesn't want to come to Canada lol unlike what some of my friends would say "he is using me to get here" which is completely untrue.
Has anyone else .. falling in love.. with a Dominican man and have it actually work out for them? Can you please share your stories with me. Thank you I would really appreciate it.

mountainfrog · #2 03-06-2006, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by JoeJoe

.... He ....doesn't want to come to Canada lol unlike what some of my friends would say "he is using me to get here" which is completely untrue.

Of course.
Congratulations.
You've found the love of your life.

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Originally Posted by JoeJoe

Has anyone else .. falling in love.. with a Dominican man and have it actually work out for them?

It has.
You'd be surprised about the numbers.

Follow your heart.

Don't read "Sankie 101"!!!!!!!

m'frog

lovestruck · #3 03-06-2006, 08:35 PM

hOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT MY E-MAIL IS DEMERS_72@HOTMAIL.COM IF U WANNA CHAT tAMMY

Baby Girl · #4 03-06-2006, 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by JoeJoe

I was on an exposure trip in Consuelo recently.. and we had five tour guides bring the group of us canadian's around for a week. Well I fell into a quick friendship with one of the tour guides and we were purely friends at first but soon friendship brought on more passionate feelings and soon our 10 our days turned into 17 hours together when he would come over to my host families house to be with me and we talked for hours and hours. We have talked twice sometimes three or four times a day since I left a month ago and I was supposed to come back in may but that trip has been cancelled so I can put more money into my trip in the late summer (I'm going to school there for four months ..leaving in augest) I have never got the feeling from him that he is using me or wutever just because I am a canadian woman and I know he is a truely beautiful (inside and out) man. He is in university at the moment and doesn't want to come to Canada lol unlike what some of my friends would say "he is using me to get here" which is completely untrue.
Has anyone else .. falling in love.. with a Dominican man and have it actually work out for them? Can you please share your stories with me. Thank you I would really appreciate it.

Good Luck! Take things VERY slowly! Watch out for red flags but dont be too suspicious that it looks like you doubt him.

If you want stories where it actually worked out read "succesful relationships Dominican style" There are plenty of stories of happy endings with dominican men.

Keep us posted .... BTW i wrote you a PM

*Baby Girl

Charlielyn · #5 03-06-2006, 10:34 PM

You'd better read my blog.

( http://www.dr1.com/blogs/?u=Charlielyn )

JoeJoe · #6 03-06-2006, 10:56 PM

see.. he is not what everyone describes as a "sanky" he is educated, has a job, could be in canada if he wanted to be (his brother lives here) he speaks perfect english and writes in english so well.. he respected me, and treated me as a friend we talked and laughed ..

notion · #7 03-07-2006, 04:33 AM

So - you only met him one month ago? It's probably too early to tell then. I'd say time will tell.
I'm in a similar situation and have been for about six months now and I'm still not sure what to make of it.
But I can very much relate to your finding it hard to be w/out him. Long-distance-whatevers are not my cup of tea either.
Good luck!

Chris · #8 03-07-2006, 07:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Charlielyn

You'd better read my blog.

( http://www.dr1.com/blogs/?u=Charlielyn )

This is a good description of how the sankies work Charlielyn. You could almost call it "The Definitive Sankie Behavioural Guide". A suggestion for you and Anna, perhaps you could add a paragrah about women that actually try and stay with their sankie and the very real change of severe physical and mental abuse. Anna could then keep this one on hand and in her arsenal of tricks, that is if any of the women in the process of being sankified can sit still long enough to actually read it

JoeJoe · #9 03-07-2006, 08:54 PM

I really know he isn't a "sankie" he isn't even in a town that many tourists go to.. there are no hotels or resorts in his town.. he works and goes to school.. he doesn't scam on female tourists..

Mr_DR · #10 03-08-2006, 03:14 AM

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Originally Posted by JoeJoe

I was on an exposure trip in Consuelo recently.. and we had five tour guides bring the group of us canadian's around for a week. Well I fell into a quick friendship with one of the tour guides and we were purely friends at first but soon friendship brought on more passionate feelings and soon our 10 our days turned into 17 hours together when he would come over to my host families house to be with me and we talked for hours and hours. We have talked twice sometimes three or four times a day since I left a month ago and I was supposed to come back in may but that trip has been cancelled so I can put more money into my trip in the late summer (I'm going to school there for four months ..leaving in augest) I have never got the feeling from him that he is using me or wutever just because I am a canadian woman and I know he is a truely beautiful (inside and out) man. He is in university at the moment and doesn't want to come to Canada lol unlike what some of my friends would say "he is using me to get here" which is completely untrue.
Has anyone else .. falling in love.. with a Dominican man and have it actually work out for them? Can you please share your stories with me. Thank you I would really appreciate it.

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