Visiting NY....a sad reminder of the unhappy existance of the American male

[MerengueDutchie]

From where I stand this is more about lack of care for each other, lack of love for each other and focus on getting the most you can out of your partner than anything else..

In a loving partnership, in which each party plays his/her part, the whining, shopping and other nonense will not appear, as both partners are naturally responsible towards each other.

[miguel]

Originally Posted by dulce

quote from Miguel
"On my posts, I mention other nationalities other than just American.

Can you define "you guys"?.

Miguel McHung darlin we all know you do not "do" putas..entonce "you guys" would be the men who do. Don't forget I used to live in the DR and saw tons of men from all countries spend huge amounts of $$$ on putas. These same men would claim to be ripped off by a woman from their own country expecting dinner and movie on a real date. Seriously, I observed putas receiving tons of respect and I often wondered why.
I do understand why men would prefer a Dominicana over another nationality but remember that not ALL women from other countries are bitches and not ALL Dominican women are putas.
Do I sound like a bitch? (don't answer that) ha ha ha

It's NoHung to you, lol.

Seriously, you are right and you are NOT saying anything that I, and others, have not said 10,000 times.

Back to the topic:

I have a co-worker who is always borrowing money because he gives his whole paycheck to his wife and she has him on an allowance!. He thinks that I am kidding when I greet him "what's up loser?". He is from somewhere in Europe.

[Malibook]

I have some friends who I never see anymore because they are not allowed out, ever!!
It is so sad and pathetic but they made their beds and they can sleep in them.
I can't help but laugh at them.

I am meeting up later with a buddy visiting from Thailand.
I asked him if a friend of ours Steve will be joining us and he told me probably not but Steve will try and ask to see if he might be allowed.
We both can't imagine how a man could put himself in such a ridiculous situation.

Most of my friends' wives are pretty nice and let them out often for hockey, golf, or whatever on a regular basis like a couple of times per week.
Some of the idiots can't get out a couple of times every several years!!

[miguel]

Originally Posted by Malibook

I have some friends who I never see anymore because they are not allowed out, ever!!
It is so sad and pathetic but they made their beds and they can sleep in them.
I can't help but laugh at them.

I am meeting up later with a buddy visiting from Thailand.
I asked him if a friend of ours Steve will be joining us and he told me probably not but Steve will try and ask to see if he might be allowed.
We both can't imagine how a man could put himself in such a ridiculous situation.

Most of my friends' wives are pretty nice and let them out often for hockey, golf, or whatever on a regular basis like a couple of times per week.
Some of the idiots can't get out a couple of times every several years!!

What do you mean "let them"?.

If their wives "let them" go out for hockey, golf or whatever, they are also popola-whipped!.

[Malibook]

Originally Posted by miguel

What do you mean "let them"?.

If their wives "let them" go out for hockey, golf or whatever, they are also popola-whipped!.

I mean they get out.

I don't know the intricate details if they ask or tell but they are not prevented and forbidden.

Steve will not be joining us tonight.
Perhaps he will be allowed out another time one of these years.

[Exxtol]

This thread should be re-labeled the existence of some american males.

Women only do to their men what you let them do. If you let your wife become "mama" well then thats your problem--it shouldn't be blamed on the "americanization" of women, female lib, feminism etc. That guy in the store just needed to grow some "huevos" become a man and say, "I buy what i want, when i want, with our money, honey."

[AZB]

I agree with exxtol.
When I have plans with my girl and after spending a few hours with her, my buddy calls to go out, guess what i do? I tell her to dress up because I am taking her home. She can't stand my buddy so she always gets upset and calls a taxi and leaves by herself, never to see me ever again. I simply see it as "oh well". she always comes back for more just like the rest of them. I never even tell them how much I care for them. I simply act like I don't need them around me. This way, I have my liberty and she knows exactly where she stands.
AZB

[AnnaC]

Originally Posted by AZB

I agree with exxtol.
When I have plans with my girl and after spending a few hours with her, my buddy calls to go out, guess what i do? I tell her to dress up because I am taking her home. She can't stand my buddy so she always gets upset and calls a taxi and leaves by herself, never to see me ever again. I simply see it as "oh well". she always comes back for more just like the rest of them. I never even tell them how much I care for them. I simply act like I don't need them around me. This way, I have my liberty and she knows exactly where she stands.
AZB

I see so beautiful Dominican girls complain too but have no rights because they are not your wives.

I think you guys have made the right choice in staying single because as I see it even Dominican, beautiful, education have absolutely nada to do with comparing American/NA to Dominican women but rather it's about a girlfriend vs a wife .

[Dragonfly32837]

Originally Posted by dulce

interesting post Larry. I agree with most of the responses here that refer to American men as puzzy whipped. Now tell me how do the "nice" American women get the respect and money that you guys give to Dominican putas?

Lets clarify that not all of us are putas. That is such an ugly word by the way.

Edited to add that I just read your post where you say that not all are putas. Good.

[Musicqueen]

I think that if a man doesn't have the 'balls' to give and demand respect from his girlfriend/wife...he deserves what he gets!!!

Most (note: NOT ALL) american males have become such lazy asses they rather have their wives/girlfriends do ALL the work...outside and inside the home...that the women find they NEED to take charge...otherwise the situation will become chaotic!!!

Has anyone seen the new ad for Texas BK Whopper, where the slogan is EAT LIKE A MAN????

It's a joke...

MQ