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Old 06-16-2006, 06:15 PM
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I was merely trying to be positive, but I guess DR1 cannot differentiate between a resort worker and a sankie...that are all the same. Every single resort worker has been stamped with the sankie seal, there is no way they could possible actually be a decent human being....NOPE resort worker=sankie, it is black and white right???

I swear, am I the only person that thinks there might be some good people out there...

I really did not want this thread to turn sankie, but i knew it would get closed if it did. I wanted to spin off the Successful Relationship Dominican style (which I read) and see if anyone had successful relationships with resort workers in particular. I would think the relationship would be more difficult becuase of the sankie stigma...i just wnated to see if anyone over came that stigma and had a successful relationship...that is ALL.
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Old 06-16-2006, 06:18 PM
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I have a happy ending for you, I realized the guy was a sankie (thanks to DR1), stopped calling him, and saved myself a lot of money!

I'm happy!

I hope the same for you!
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Old 06-16-2006, 06:18 PM
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by marrying one and having a successful relationship, that would prove the guy is NOT a sankie.
How long do you feel they would have to be happily married, before it could qualify as a successful relationship?
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Old 06-16-2006, 06:20 PM
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AnnaC I think its time to close shop on this one.
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Old 06-16-2006, 06:22 PM
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I swear, am I the only person that thinks there might be some good people out there...
Wow. You've gone astray from your question.
We DR1ers think there are lots of good people out there.
Your question was about long term successful relationships with resort workers, and we know of none, nor do we expect to hear of any.
That doesn't mean we think there are no good people out there.
It means that we are experienced and have answered your question.
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Old 06-16-2006, 06:26 PM
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....I think there has got to be some good Dominican men that are resort workers, there just has to be. We are not in the twightlight zone, weirder things have happened
Of course there must be. But would you be willing to search for years for that good sankie? How many more break-ups, liars, cheats, scams, heartbreaks would you be willing to endure to find that "nice sankie" ?
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Old 06-16-2006, 06:38 PM
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Of course there must be.
Which just goes to prove how rare it is, as we've never heard of one, and Lord knows we've heard resort worker stories.
Anna could write a book, by now.
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Old 06-16-2006, 08:05 PM
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Well I guess you haven't found it yet so I'll give you the link

Sankies - Happy endings & STD's.

Some people do have a happy ending with a resort worker (NOT SANKIE)
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Old 06-16-2006, 09:44 PM
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Is the success you seek in the lasting relationship part or in meeting a resort worker who isn't a sankie? I can attest to the latter as I met a resort worker (not animaccion, not a sankie) back in 2000. We fell in love over many visits and several years. We eventually married, and he moved to Canada. However, he was not able to acclimatize to our culture. The first time, he lasted about 6 weeks. The second attempt (he thought he was prepared this time) was about the same, six weeks. We love each very much but cannot be together. There have been some successful relationships but I would not recommend that you go looking for this type of relationship. The challenges are unique and plenty and almost always ends in heartbreak. Trust me, been there, Done That! Got the Tshirt!
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Old 06-16-2006, 11:05 PM
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Well I guess you haven't found it yet so I'll give you the link

Sankies - Happy endings & STD's.

Some people do have a happy ending with a resort worker (NOT SANKIE)
Thanks AnnaC, I was looking for some similar postings, I checked the wrong thread.
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