some Dominican women can be dangerous - Page 3

miguel · #21 06-22-2006, 12:58 PM

I have NOT read all the comments on this thread, just the OP's blah blah, and since I am in a good mood today, let me post first and then read some of the posts later:

This guy is the perfect example of a foreigner who goes to the DR, starts "waving" his riches around, bangs whichever "putona" crosses his path and then starts complaining when they see him as a "cash mechine". F'ing amazing!.

You want easy sex, you get an uneducated "putina" who will see you for what you are, A JOHN.

You want a decent and respectable woman, you invest time getting to know her. Trust me, she WILL NOT be in a fricking jacuzzi with you after 2 days of knowing you, that's for sure.

SOME people should get their fingers(yes 3 fingers) out of their butts and stop complaining when they are the ones to blame for their mistakes.

How come there so many guys here NOT complaining about their easy conquests in the DR?, not only because SOME would not waste their time "banging" a hooker, but also because SOME DO have some shame and would not be caught dead coming to public site wanting EVERYBODY to know that they are JOHNS.

No, btw, NOT all Dominican women are waiting for a gringo with open legs because of his money!. Only the ones that you are looking for "putonas" (or the easy ones, if you will) are the ones opening their legs, as you say, for people like you. Trust me, ALL hookers and lowlives know a sucker when they see one. Simple.

So papi chulo, I don't care if you have 900,000 dollars in the bank, SOME Dominican women would NOT look your way, therefore, STOP painting all Dominican women with your filthy and "yucky" PAWS!.

Haven't you heard of "you get what you bargain for". Well, my motto is:

"You want easy sex, take whatever comes from it and SHUT THE HELL UP!".

Did I mentioned that I was in a good mood?.

chuckuindy · #22 06-22-2006, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by lalla

what do you EXPECT to get when you pick up a hoe? a SAINT? You picked up these girls for a reason, cause they were easy and you were there to have fun, you werent there to "court" a prospective wife...so I mean, dont all CHOPAS do the same thing? did you expect yours to be a little more discreet about milking you????

Your bankstatement? why in the WORLD would you access something so personal in the presence of a girl you met 2 days ago? For all you know shes the mother hen of the LADRONES from her barrio....that was careless on your part

and then you wonder WHY OH WHY her entire family packed into the car for drinks?? hell, your lucky she didnt invite the neighborhood.....

Cheap bastard, you shouldve left them more money and your wiring instructions so that you could continue to support them since you already shared your banking info with them.

They don’t have to be a hoe to be interested in your money. I travel to some non tourist places and finding young beautiful women has never been a problem. There is more than enough to go around.

Although I have never shown any chica my bank account I do wish the Dominican government would make a bill larger than a 2000 peso note so when I pull out my money clip the chicas can see I am here to have fun. Just kidding.

Never ever discus money with a Dominican chica they have no concept of how much money you have or earn. If you want to have a good time with them at the hotel give them 400 to 600 pesos or push it to $1000RDP if they are exceptional, but always explain to them that this money is not for sexual favors. It is because you like their company. I learned this the hard way. If you spend more than that you are down right stupid.

Beauty and quality never seem to go hand in hand. You can have the time of your life with a woman in the DR that is not a model type.

Chuckuindy

DominicanScotty · #23 06-22-2006, 01:13 PM

What the OP did here was insidious, ridiculous and very very foolish. Has anyone been reading the threads here at all? Flashing cash and jewelry is a big fat NO NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Flashing $100,000 in what appears to be a "liquid cash" account to someone you only met two days ago is insane! That's 3.250.000RD. Imagine meeting someone two days ago, you are already in bed with them and they show you 3.25 million dollars as if it is nothing. Never mind the barrio chopa, let's use ourself as an example. My question is this. What would we do, meaning the average everyday folk that is simply getting by paycheck to paycheck??? We are going home to tell the folks to start packing up because we are moving to "Beverly" just as the Clampettes did on the Beverly Hillbillies.

Tourists are seen (by many but not all) as milking cows, goats, pigs, chickens what have you. They are seen as a bottomless well that is always overflowing. They are there for the sole purpose of being "CONSUMED", "USED", sometimes "ABUSED" and then "DISCARDED" after they are "EMPTIED" or become so much of a problem that they are no longer worth it. They are seen this way because they have been forced by foolish tourists to believe they are this way. They are stupid, and I mean they as in the people that do such foolish things. The thing is that they MUST find the ones that do not see them as something to be consumed but something to behold.

(I edited here) For those of you that wish to find a knock out gorgeous Dominicana that has a college degree on her wall, money in the bank and still adores and respects the h*ll out of you? Try putting your wallet back in your pocket, your "thing" back in your pants and opening up your heart and mind. For those of you that enjoy doing what our friend (the OP) here does? Just keep doing what you are doing. I am not writing that it is wrong. It is a bit foolish and perhaps even dangerous, but it isn't wrong. Just keep doing what you are doing as long as you are happy. Just a suggestion.

As AZB has offered, try going AWAY from the barrios and meeting an intelligent lady who has her own bank account (she won't show you this either, take a hint) with her own money in it and a family headed by a man that wears a suit and drives a decent car, that is parked in front of a house that has windows, air conditioning, real furniture and a real floor to walk on, a toilet in the house, hot water and a real roof. Be prepared for a long wait to get into that "Venus" of hers. You have to go through the atmosphere of her "Poppy" (and I mean her daddy) to get there. The odds aren't as good in your favor because you are already at a disadvantage, you are a tourist that is staying in SO-SEWER or BOCA-PUTA-CHICA.

Jeeesh...... 2 pesos, don't get much with that anymore, but it was worth it.

Good luck all!

DominicanScotty · #24 06-22-2006, 01:35 PM

We all have seen this in our lifetimes I am sure. A fool riding down the street with a cap on their head. It blows off! Sometimes they turn around just to plop it back on their head so that it falls off again and often they don't stop at all.

Putas, barrio chicas, chopas etc are not interested in holding on to you!

Alyonka · #25 06-22-2006, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by bob saunders

Actually, it's because of the emotional baggage that they have to deal with from the women in their own country.

Those women probably got that baggage from someone else. Baggage is baggage, everyone has it. It is much more difficult but rewarding to try to understand, not to keep that baggage running away looking for easy life. Nothing can replace being real.

lalla · #26 06-22-2006, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by chuckuindy

They don’t have to be a hoe to be interested in your money. I travel to some non tourist places and finding young beautiful women has never been a problem. There is more than enough to go around.

Never ever discus money with a Dominican chica they have no concept of how much money you have or earn. If you want to have a good time with them at the hotel give them 400 to 600 pesos or push it to $1000RDP if they are exceptional, but always explain to them that this money is not for sexual favors. It is because you like their company. I learned this the hard way. If you spend more than that you are down right stupid.

Beauty and quality never seem to go hand in hand. You can have the time of your life with a woman in the DR that is not a model type.

Chuckuindy

Chucky, are u kidding me??? The women that you guys are picking up ARE PUTAS, HOES!!! Look where ur picking them up!!! Do you think a DECENT family girl will run off with a white tourist to his jacuzzi after 2 days of knowing him? are u crazy! And you think these girls are with you for the hell of it? NO, its FOR YOUR MONEY, so to say that not all are after money is equal to the stupid comment of ALL DOMINICAN WOMEN ARE HOT!!!

ANd news flash, dont try and sugar coat what you are doing as simple company sharing and u compensating the female for spending time with you.
Its black or white, Your the John, shes the HOE...ur paying her? shes sleeping with you? hand job? blow job? yeah shes a hoe and your paying for it.

If thats what you boys want to do when you go there FINE, but as Miguel says in his post, DONT COMPLAIN about it, you went down there SEEKING such company, otherwise why did you end up with it? how did you know where to go??? You dont go in POPEYES CHICKEN for fine 3 course meals, you gor for fast greasy fried food, you know where to go to get what you want....your going to certain BARRIOS cause you know your gonna find your fat greasy chicken!!

NONE of you go to DR in hopes of meeting a classy, rich intelligent lady, you go hoping to get laid by a much younger women, and if she does something right and seems SLIGHTY decent, you might even marry her and then go way back to the other posts where we said you then go into "but my wife is different, she just lived in that barrio, she never really identified with it" mode...

LOL

chuckuindy · #27 06-22-2006, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by lalla

Chucky, are u kidding me??? The women that you guys are picking up ARE PUTAS, HOES!!! Look where ur picking them up!!! Do you think a DECENT family girl will run off with a white tourist to his jacuzzi after 2 days of knowing him? are u crazy! And you think these girls are with you for the hell of it? NO, its FOR YOUR MONEY, so to say that not all are after money is equal to the stupid comment of ALL DOMINICAN WOMEN ARE HOT!!!

ANd news flash, dont try and sugar coat what you are doing as simple company sharing and u compensating the female for spending time with you.
Its black or white, Your the John, shes the HOE...ur paying her? shes sleeping with you? hand job? blow job? yeah shes a hoe and your paying for it.

If thats what you boys want to do when you go there FINE, but as Miguel says in his post, DONT COMPLAIN about it, you went down there SEEKING such company, otherwise why did you end up with it? how did you know where to go??? You dont go in POPEYES CHICKEN for fine 3 course meals, you gor for fast greasy fried food, you know where to go to get what you want....your going to certain BARRIOS cause you know your gonna find your fat greasy chicken!!

NONE of you go to DR in hopes of meeting a classy, rich intelligent lady, you go hoping to get laid by a much younger women, and if she does something right and seems SLIGHTY decent, you might even marry her and then go way back to the other posts where we said you then go into "but my wife is different, she just lived in that barrio, she never really identified with it" mode...

LOL

It is amazing how much you seem to know about hoes. Did that come from practical experience, or is it something your momma taught you? Just who in the hell wants a decent and respectable Dominican woman anyway? I got over that a few years ago. I go to the DR to have fun, find some women, play golf, fish and relax. Then I go home work my ass off, save some money and do it all over again.

I would never deny that most of the women I meet in the DR are interested in any money that I may have. I accept that as a fact, but give me credit for having some intelligence. If I want a hoe I know where to find them. I can go to a bar, carwash, or whorehouse. Instead I have many friends in the DR that are willing to introduce me some fine women. It is my choice who I sleep with in the DR and how much financial support I am willing to give them, if any at all.

I don’t need a respectable woman in the DR, or in the US. I need someone to feed my ego and supply splendid sex. I have had respectable women in my life and it has cost me more than any Dominican chica could ever hope to get.

What I hear you saying is that if I have some respectable woman and she is sleeping with me, gives me a hand job, a blow job, or what ever, and I have her move into my $300,000 house, buy her some clothes, feed her, and give her a few bucks because she has no skills and can not get a job, I would still be the John and she the hoe. Well I don’t go to Popeyes at home and what I eat in the DR is finger lickin’ good.

My friend Miguel is right. The worst a** I had in the DR was far better than 90% I got the first 57 years of my life, so I won’t complain. Remember though Miguel is a purse carrying, door opening wimp, that has became so Americanized he can only apply his screwed up standards to Dominican women who could give a rats a** how he would treat them.

You are correct; I do not go to the DR in hopes of meeting a classy, rich intelligent lady, I go hoping to get laid by a much younger woman, and so far it seems to be working out just fine for me. Most of my g/f’s just live in a barrio, they never really identify with it.

Chuckuindy

AZB · #28 06-22-2006, 05:16 PM

Lalla is right and chuck is also right in his own way. You see chuck comes here for fun, not to look for a mate. He knows what he is paying and what he is getting in return. He has seen this country and I have shown him a few places as well.

Now I would like to talk about the guys who really come here in hopes to find their 1/2 orange. If you try to take them to a respectable place, they will show up in a flower printed sleaveless shirt and faded jeans and sneakers. The hair will always be a mess and often times they forget to shave. They come in looking like a hippie. When you introduce them to an educated woman, they instantly become intimidated by presence and start to act like a gentleman from 1950's movies. The girls seem to figure it out in a NY minute that the man is not used to being in company of women like her. These guys can't even put in an effort to speak a work of english and when they say something in english, they usually talk about things that no one is interested in hearing in the first place. Then they start the tourist crap which bores the hell out of everyone. When these guys don't get the attention that they are used to getting from sosua hoes, they become bored and label the girls, arrogant, tight ass, stuckup bitches. These same guys get a glow in their eyes the moment they walk into a carwash whore house or meet some trashy slut on monumento. Thats when they feel right at home. Seems like these guys only feel comfortable when they are in the company of a trashy slut from a dangerous barrio. No wonder so many foreigner call every dominican girl "hey mami....". No wonder they think that every girl screams out "oh papi.... que buenoo..." when they are in the bed together. These guy think bachata is the #1 national favorite music of this country. These guys think all dominican girls love to blast music anywhere. These same guys think all domincian girls always ask for money.
The bottom line is, these guys will only seek putas in this country or in any country they visit. These are the only types they feel comfortable with.
its too late for them.
AZB

chuckuindy · #29 06-22-2006, 05:46 PM

AZB is correct again. It took me some time to learn to wear long pants, look good and smell good while visiting the DR. The rewards are all worth it. He also has shown me places to go to mingle with a better class of Dominican, although the last place we went together was crawling with women trying to hit on rich Dominican guys. Not puntas, but attractive women looking to better their lives or find love.

I remember the first two times I met AZB’s wife of the night. Both were unbelievable. Smart and beautiful, I could not keep from staring. I really made a fool of myself. I tried to act natural but I instantly become intimidated by their presence and started to act like a gentleman from 1950's movies. I am doing better now and can hold my own in a conversation.

For me, I am not looking a wife, girlfriend, or whore. I just want to wake up every morning I am in the DR next to some hard bodied hot young thing who doesn’t understand it is time to go unless I point to the door.

Chuckuindy

Ricardo900 · #30 06-22-2006, 06:05 PM

We all see one of the main reasons why tourists will not venture in upscale places in the Capital and Santiago. These are the same guys who may live in large US cities with a large Dominican community, but they can't name one nice establishment to meet well cultured Dominicans. These guys are not cultured, but they act like Donald Trump when they hit the beaches of BC. I've met guys who stated that they've been to Boca Chica and Sosua about 20 times, but yet they don't like Santiago or other neighboring towns. They can't impress a Dominicana who comes from upper-middle class family and most likely received her degree and probably traveled more than the gringo.