All about Jostan

[Audra]

Originally Posted by AZB

The reason he is able to go away for 3 months and gets his job back when he returns is because no one wants his job in the first place.

HAAAAA!

[Celt202]

Originally Posted by mountainfrog

But why marry?
www.rent-a-sankie.info
(in German)

Ausgezeichnet! You are an inspired madman.

[Jostan]

Hmm, you can all think what you want, I really dont care (too much)
First for DR standards he has a pretty good job, a lot of tourist come there to do this job too.
Second he doesnt ask me for money when Im staying in his house, he's telling me not to do it. But I dont feel comfortable with his money cooking and cleaning for me everyday without anything in return.
Third: the longest we have been apart is 6 weeks (in total we have been 10 months together and away from eachother for 5)
Fourth: lol, you can believe whatever you want about the ticket, he paid 20000 pesos to be exact and i paid 14000
Fifth: i have a whole bunch of friends in the DR, some dominican, some foreign residents and some long staying tourist, I doubt they will all shut up
Sixth: I didnt say he's poor, I said he's not rich, but he isnt poor either.

But it doesnt matter what I say, you will believe he's a sanky anyway, just be gratefull that i am the one that's with him and not you

To the one asking about the visas: it was just a tourist visa, he had all the right papers (and me too) so that was not a problem (i live in Holland, I dont know how the rules are in your country)

[AZB]

Originally Posted by Jostan

Hmm, you can all think what you want, I really dont care (too much)
First for DR standards he has a pretty good job, a lot of tourist come there to do this job too.
Second he doesnt ask me for money when Im staying in his house, he's telling me not to do it. But I dont feel comfortable with his money cooking and cleaning for me everyday without anything in return.
Third: the longest we have been apart is 6 weeks (in total we have been 10 months together and away from eachother for 5)
Fourth: lol, you can believe whatever you want about the ticket, he paid 20000 pesos to be exact and i paid 14000
Fifth: i have a whole bunch of friends in the DR, some dominican, some foreign residents and some long staying tourist, I doubt they will all shut up
Sixth: I didnt say he's poor, I said he's not rich, but he isnt poor either.

But it doesnt matter what I say, you will believe he's a sanky anyway, just be gratefull that i am the one that's with him and not you

To the one asking about the visas: it was just a tourist visa, he had all the right papers (and me too) so that was not a problem (i live in Holland, I dont know how the rules are in your country)

My last say in this matter:
He has many girls like you all over the world. He is in a bed with other girls just like you when you are away.
This is something you learn when you live here 24/7. Now if that doesn't bother you then you will have a very healthy relationship. Remember, you are only 23. Do you know how simple it is to fool a girl of your age?
nevermind.
I wish you good luck.
AZB

[Chris]

Originally Posted by AZB

... Do you know how simple it is to fool a girl of your age?
nevermind.
I wish you good luck.
AZB

That is profound. Oscar Wilde could have said that!

[Jostan]

I will come back in a couple of years and we will see who's right, the gullible 23-year old girl or the all-knowing (wo)man

Chances are we wont be together anymore in a couple of years, not because he's a sanky, just simply because most relationships end at some point.

And baby girl, I agree with you... my boyfriend isnt even in animation and immediately they 'assume' things, without even knowing him. Warning people is 1 thing, but this is just plain stupid.

[AZB]

Originally Posted by Jostan

I will come back in a couple of years and we will see who's right, the gullible 23-year old girl or the all-knowing (wo)man

Chances are we wont be together anymore in a couple of years, not because he's a sanky, just simply because most relationships end at some point.

And baby girl, I agree with you... my boyfriend isnt even in animation and immediately they 'assume' things, without even knowing him. Warning people is 1 thing, but this is just plain stupid.

Ok, i thought I won't respond to your gullible posts but I will, why? because I slept the afternoon so I am up at night bored to death.

Your boyfriend is no different from resort workers. He works on the beach and deals with tourists all day. He meets people like you everyday. The reason he works at the beach business is because he is uneducated and can't get a job in a bank or in any organization where the requirement is college education. Just ask him to write something in spanish right before your eyes, a paragraph and then post it here on DR1 or show it to a friend who is educated in spanish from another country. You will be surprised to see that the guy can't write to save his life. He will mis-spell every word to a rediculous level. These guys have the education level of a 6th grader. But you don't care for all that, because your love is blind. I wish you all the luck becasue you will need it.
Oh and don't bother tellling about the out come of your love affair, we see girls like you here everyday. You are no different.
AZB

[Bailarinagirl]

Originally Posted by Jostan

I guess it's a little bit too early to share my 'succes' story, coz we are only 15 months together but anyway I want to share it.
In feb 2005 I went to the DR for 4 months to do a research project for school, in the beginning of march I met my boyfriend. I have to admit it started out as a fling and I didnt take it serious at all. But after a month or so we were still together (haha) and it was getting more serious . At this time we (me and a friend) were still living in Sosua, but going to Cabarete everyday, my boyfriend asked us why we didnt move to cabarete (he lives in Cabarete too). So then he started looking for an appartement for us and after a week we had a great appartment for a very good price! He practically moved in with us from that day He was sleeping there every night and most of the day he was with me too, except for the hours he had to work on kitebeach. He took me all over the country and introduced me to all his friends and family.
But then in june the day came that I had to leave... We didnt broke up, but I think we both had the idea that we wouldnt last very long after i was back in my own country. Anyway it turned out different, when i was back home i missed him a lot and withing 4 weeks I went for a month back to see how it was with us (i lived in his house). Everything was still great and we tried to get him a tourist visa to come visit me. We got it without any problem.
Then on the 30th of july I had to go back again, we called everyday (well i called) and he came online every day to talk to me on the msn.
After 6 weeks (of very high phonebills) i went there again and took him with me to holland (1 month). It even got more serious after that, because this time he met all my friends and family too and saw all my stuff. Anyway the day he had to leave holland was horrible and living in holland alone was now even harder then before.
But I managed to go back there and get another visa for him for 3 months. These 3 months have just passed, he just left 2 weeks ago and Im going there in 4 weeks and im gonna stay for 6 months or so. If everything goes well when im there we are planning to marry in 2007, but i have no doubt it will all go well.

You two will be just fine together. I know of two couples who are resort workers (actual animacion team guys) who are married to European women and they are together with no problems, ( or just the usual one's we all have in relationships!) and long-term.

[momita]

Originally Posted by Jostan

I will come back in a couple of years and we will see who's right, the gullible 23-year old girl or the all-knowing (wo)man

Chances are we wont be together anymore in a couple of years, not because he's a sanky, just simply because most relationships end at some point.

And baby girl, I agree with you... my boyfriend isnt even in animation and immediately they 'assume' things, without even knowing him. Warning people is 1 thing, but this is just plain stupid.

I am really sorry for you but They are right for 100%.I CAN bet he will be in Bambu tonight as usually.

[Jostan]

Originally Posted by momita

I am really sorry for you but They are right for 100%.I CAN bet he will be in Bambu tonight as usually.

He's not. How i know this? Because people tell me that he's hardly ever going out anymore (and no, not his dominican friends, but my 'foreign' (girl) friends)
Anyway, I dont mind if people tell me that they think that he's a sanky based ON MY STORY, maybe I might even learn something from it.

But some people here have the same answer for every story and thats just not very informative, as a matter of facter I think it's counterproductive, because nobody will pay attention anymore.