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07-17-2006, 05:35 PM
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Awww AZB!! NO!! Ya can't go about the place telling "porky-pies" to possible partners! *wags finger* "No! No! No!!!" At the end of the day they need be with you because they want to be with you (not somebody young you're pretending to be!) It'll all end in tears when she discovers you're a fibber - me think so indeed!!
ATB Emma 
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07-17-2006, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted by AZB
. She was stunningly beautiful but only 23 yrs old.
I was almost in love with her. Then one day, I felt confident enough to tell her my true age (41 yrs old at the time). She seemed a bit disturbed and when she talked to her friends about this, she became more uninterested in me. Needless to say, she dumped me and went back to her original boyfriend and married him. I was left broken hearted. This taught me a very valuable lesson. Never tell the whole truth to women under any cost.
AZB
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Not your age, maybe she figured out that the relationship was going no where. I keep telling you guys and you don't have to believe me but (not all) but most women want the same thing in life and it ain't frolicking around for the rest of their lives for just having sex. Especially in their mid 20's. Clock is ticking baby, eggs are calling 
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07-17-2006, 05:59 PM
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I think people should tell each other the truth right away. A lot of men don't do it trying to get laid: they cover up their age, marriages, other women they are sleeping with, etc, etc... and then end up in trouble ....  If someone starts a relationship with a lie - how do you trust them at all? I think that is why a lot of women leave - they have no trust and respect for that person any more ....
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07-17-2006, 06:23 PM
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It happened to me once. I was dating a med student from moca once. She was happily together with me for some time. She was stunningly beautiful but only 23 yrs old. I was almost in love with her. Then one day, I felt confident enough to tell her my true age (41 yrs old at the time). She seemed a bit disturbed and when she talked to her friends about this, she became more uninterested in me. Needless to say, she dumped me and went back to her original boyfriend and married him. I was left broken hearted. This taught me a very valuable lesson. Never tell the whole truth to women under any cost.
AZB
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back in true form........ I love it!
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07-17-2006, 06:26 PM
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On Vaction for a few weeks!
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Oh, tell me why?.
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Originally Posted by stock
Well instead of going to DR, I found a 26 year in NY and began dating her, can you believe that after a year or so I begin to notice some change in her (less sex drive, doesn't want to do anything, spending more time with her friends) I'm sure you are all saying ...Oh...Oh!
Turns out, her "Mommy" has been telling her for a few months that the "Age difference" is to great and that she should find someone closer to her age..... Long story short, I broke it off. Here is a good example of the US vs. anywhere Caribbean!
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I just a question for you:
Since you were the one who broke it off, and you already knew that she was changing for the worse (less sex, did not wanted to do anything and spent more time with her friends):
Why didn't you set-up your mind for the worse?. Let me explain:
If I see that someone, after a year, is changing for the worse, I will put it in my mind that she is NOT worth it. Therefore, the breakup would not hurt as much, if any!.
Your hear is "broken" because you were into her more than she was into you. As simple as that!.
If she changed and you were the one who broke it off, move on and find yourself a better one, or someone closer to your age.
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07-17-2006, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted by AZB
It happened to me once. I was dating a med student from moca once. She was happily together with me for some time. She was stunningly beautiful but only 23 yrs old. I was almost in love with her. Then one day, I felt confident enough to tell her my true age (41 yrs old at the time). She seemed a bit disturbed and when she talked to her friends about this, she became more uninterested in me. Needless to say, she dumped me and went back to her original boyfriend and married him. I was left broken hearted. This taught me a very valuable lesson. Never tell the whole truth to women under any cost.
AZB
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But AZB let me tell you that it sounds to me that she wasn't that interested in you. If she would have been 100% with you, she wouldn't have listened to anyone and she would have stayed with you regardless of your age.
How old did she think you were??? Only if you were 41 and looked to be about 25 then I would understand why she became disappointed.
But anyway, women especially shouldn't tell everything to their men. Many times a man would use the info against her. But it is always best to be as honest as possible since the beginning to gain each other's respect and trust.
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07-17-2006, 06:33 PM
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Your hear is "broken" because you were into her more than she was into you. As simple as that!.
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That reminds me of a great line from the show Sex & the city "he's just not that into you" goes for both sexes
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07-17-2006, 09:46 PM
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That reminds me of a great line from the show Sex & the city "he's just not that into you" goes for both sexes |
Since birth I have been sexualy challenged in some ways. i can only get into her so far.
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07-17-2006, 10:24 PM
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Originally Posted by M.A.R.
But anyway, women especially shouldn't tell everything to their men. Many times a man would use the info against her. But it is always best to be as honest as possible since the beginning to gain each other's respect and trust.
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Agree, we shouldn't be telling them about our previous relationships, problems, etc. They don't really need to know any of this. Just the same way we don't need to know theirs unless they want to tell us. But, major things like age, children, marital status, living status - i think both need to know the truth right away ...
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07-17-2006, 10:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Avrora
Agree, we shouldn't be telling them about our previous relationships, problems, etc. They don't really need to know any of this. Just the same way we don't need to know theirs unless they want to tell us. But, major things like age, children, marital status, living status - i think both need to know the truth right away ...
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..........net worth..........
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