My heart has been ripped out! - Page 3

skyblue · #21 07-17-2006, 10:51 PM

stock, i'm really sorry this happened to you, but don't believe for one minute it was her moms doing. perhaps the mother is a scapegoat in this case b/c she was too pendeja to tell you the truth, which is that AGE does matter!!!! at that age you want to party, go out, be wined and dined, ect.... i've seen this time and time again here in the states. girls that age are dazzled by older men b/c older men take them to nice restaurants and to bars and don't expect the girl to pay half - like when you are in college and you are both broke! i bet you spent a pretty penny on her and showered her w/gifts ect.... she enjoyed it for a year (what girl wouldn't) and then said c-ya, that's it, time to move on. again, i'm sorry this happened, but be realistic. you sound like a great guy and shouldn't have a hard time putting yourself back together. your lady is out there, maybe even in DR, just be careful and don't be a sucker, like so many before you.

Don Juan · #22 07-17-2006, 11:05 PM

I don't mind telling the world my age (56). Although I still have the body of a piano mover and look like Tom Cruise, I'd still be honest and spare ourselves a lot of grief by telling the truth on the first date.
If she's still interested, the possibilities are endless, if not, I'd saved myself time, money and many disappointments.

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, find someone, # 1, closer to your age. someone who wants you for what you are not for who you are.

In the game of love, there are deceptions and scams. People will use and abuse you for their own selfish motives. These are the people who can take away your most precious possession: Your self-esteem. They will destroy you if you let them.
This is why (if you're a male), should not let your penis think for you. Or (if female), use your brain to distinguish between bull$hit and sincerity.

Finding the right partner ain't easy. it requires a lot of effort and Patience.
I you really want a lasting relationship, you must be completely honest with him/her. Lies will always catch up with you and will cost you dearly.

finally, A pretty face (or body), is not the common denominator by which thou shall pursuit your quarry. A good man/woman may not be initially attractive, but they can grow on you. I know that first hand!

Meeting women may not be easy for some men but, if you're well groomed, healthy and (again), sincere. you shouldn't have a problem. Especially in DR.

Enjoy the hunt!

chuckuindy · #23 07-17-2006, 11:16 PM

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Originally Posted by AZB

listen to what scotty says.
AZB

I second that.
Chuckuindy

AZB · #24 07-18-2006, 12:33 AM

Oh and never tell the whole truth, even if you are caught with your pants down, never admit to anything. Women will use your confession against you your entire life.
Lie lie and then lie some more. Keep up the mystery and she will never let you go.
AZB

Emma22 · #25 07-18-2006, 05:07 AM

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Originally Posted by AZB

even if you are caught with your pants down AZB

"Errrm I was just taking her temperature..."

Emma

Alyonka · #26 07-18-2006, 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by gary short

..........net worth..........

How did this important item slip through my mind

???????????? also, debt-to-income ratio and credit score are necessary items to discuss on the first date ...

Alyonka · #27 07-18-2006, 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by AZB

Oh and never tell the whole truth, even if you are caught with your pants down, never admit to anything. Women will use your confession against you your entire life.
Lie lie and then lie some more. Keep up the mystery and she will never let you go.
AZB

It is much easier to lie if you wear protection ....

stock · #28 07-18-2006, 10:32 AM

Thank you all for your comments, however I pose one question after really paying attention to everyone and many many past threads.

It doesn't seem like there is any "place, culture or formula" for a successful relationship, it's sort of hit or miss. I thought things would be different in DR only because Island people tend to be more wholesum, but based on your input the possibility of getting screwed time and time again will always be there regardless of the culture or island.

So in reality instead of spending thousands of dollar (like a did) in vacations and buying jewelry, i'll take my money, fly to DR (a bunch of times), find me a female sankie or two or three and have my way with them right? I mean I'll get more Bang for my buck won't I? And NO BROKEN HEART based on false promises again!

P.S. If you date someone for a year and they convince you that they want to spend the rest of their life with you...what do you do? Treat them like crap regardless?