What do you know... - Page 2

DominicanScotty · #11 09-21-2006, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Robin'sGirl

You? BOINKED? Say it isnt so!

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...... nope, but I came close....does that count as being.....ahh ahhhhhhhh.....can I yell it? Woaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....boinked

jrf · #12 09-21-2006, 12:32 AM

Umm never said she was my novia.

If she was I would say so. Not a sock puppet thanks.

Anyway-the original question?

Berzin had the point and obvious read the question properly-thanks Berzin.

Anyone else have an opinion?

AnnaC · #13 09-21-2006, 01:00 AM

It's a strange kind of thing this privacy issue. Just thinking back I gave my password to my best friend of 20 years, he's a computer fixer guy and I wanted to know why I couldn't save pictures in my hotmail account. The funny thing is that I have no secrets from this guy and I also have nothing that interesting to find in my hotmail account but as soon as a few days went by I changed my password. Weird I know.

I'm not sure how I would feel about giving a husband or boyfriend my passwords like someone said, what if they take an innocent email and make more than it is. I think it depends on your partner. If you have a guy that makes a huge deal everytime he seems an email from a guy even if the email was nothing then you have yourself a more serious problem than emails.

Anyone want my password to hotmail?

DominicanScotty · #14 09-21-2006, 04:05 AM

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Originally Posted by jrf

Umm never said she was my novia.

If she was I would say so. Not a sock puppet thanks.

Anyway-the original question?

Berzin had the point and obvious read the question properly-thanks Berzin.

Anyone else have an opinion?

Don't give out the daggone password.

Audra · #15 09-21-2006, 08:15 AM

If your boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife asks you for the password to your cell phone or computer, they obviously have a suspicion about something and don’t trust you. If you do not give it to him/her, you obviously have a trust issue as well, and you will probably look quilty. The only password that should remain secret at all times would be the ones tied to any financial information.

What’s the big deal if you have nothing to hide? Trust – that’s what it’s all about.

miguel · #16 09-21-2006, 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by DominicanScotty

The only one that knows my personal financial records is my accountant. Who the heck divulges their financial records to some chica for Pete's sake???

Security codes for whom? Him/Her? If I have to worry about such ka ka she isn't worth it, period.

But then what are we talking about here? Guys/gals that get BOINKED? Ha ha ha ha, hoooooooooooooooiiiiieeeeeeeeee! Sankies and Sankiettes change their phone about as often as we change our socks (or as often as we should change our socks). I haven't gone through that nonsense in many years and even then I didn't buy them phones, couldn't care less who they were or are banging and still don't.

This whole thing is a joke. I don't want to know any idiotic codes, follow them around blabbity blah blah.....phoooie ( I spat). Come on guys/gals...do you really give a rat's arse? If he/she is a serious guy or girl you won't have to worry about it.

A serious woman or man doesn't receive calls every couple of minutes. Especially if they are with you!

ABSOLUTAMENTE CORRECTOMUNDO!!.

Has any of you guys ever heard of a person's right to his/her PRIVACY???.

Giving your boyfriend or g/f any security codes is unheard of!. Why in hell?.

A wife?, ok. But a girlfriend?. Don't you guys read or watch the news?. Haven't you heard or read what SOME b/f's and girlfriends have done(during, before and after the relationship ends) to those trusting partner after giving them their personal information?.

If I have to worry about who is emailing my g/f, she is a goner.

If I had to worry who she is emaling, she is a goner.

If she gets calls every minute when she is with me, she is a goner.

If she calls someone every minute while we are together, she is a goner!.

Just the thought of a girlfriend asking me for my personal codes is giving me a headache, lol.

Now, if the issue is that they want it because they don't trust you. Then there's 2 things for a person to do:

1- For the asking person:

to understand that no matter if he/she gets all the security codes he/she wants, if the other person is going to cheat on you, they will find a way, even if they have to do it on top of your head!.

2- For the person being asked:

since the other person obviously have some trusting issues, TIME TO MOVE ON!.

Btw, even if I have nothing to hide, I would NOT even let a girlfriend answer my cell phone. Just like I would NOT answer hers. It's called having the right to your own privacy!.

The VERRRRY few that "hinted" about email and phone codes were met with "I know you are kidding but in case you are not, learn your place because only a wife gets those types of information".

Girlfriends are just like boyfriends, you give them a finger, they want to take the whole arm!.

The more you give, the more they feel they own you!. Look it up, it happens every single day!.

Btw, don't we "talk" about this issue here all the time, about people not giving g/f's and b/f's their personal information?. Or are people just not supposed to give them to Sankies only?.

jrf · #17 09-21-2006, 09:49 AM

I agree. Maybe I was so used to the openness that my wife and I had it just seemed normal. We shared the computer and even shared the email address.

The ex-pat that she is with doesn't trust her at all-maybe rightly so-but I wouldn't stay in that kind of situation where I felt I was living with the police.

shadInToronto · #18 09-21-2006, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by jrf

How many of you know the passwords or cell phone numbers listed in your Domicana/o's computer and cell phone.

When I was living with and then married to my wife being able to use her cell phone if I needed or see/read her email it was never a big deal.

Do you let your partner read your email? See who you have been phoning?

Would you date or live with your Dominicana/o without being able to see who they are emailing, chatting with, or calling?

How about back home? Here it would be no big deal for them to see mine (so to speak

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Do you want to relinquish power? Never give out passwords, pins, or any other information. Always keep your email address confidential and use an alias email address to receive mail, which you can then forward to your real email.

Consider this scenario, you receive a spam for a XXX site, then she sees it and accuses you of being a porno addict ... keep it confidential to avoid future issues

Audra · #19 09-21-2006, 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by shadInToronto

Do you want to relinquish power? Never give out passwords, pins, or any other information. Always keep your email address confidential and use an alias email address to receive mail, which you can then forward to your real email.

Consider this scenario, you receive a spam for a XXX site, then she sees it and accuses you of being a porno addict ... keep it confidential to avoid future issues

You sound like you have something to hide.......... and have done this many times???

Is it about power?

Your scenario sounds ligit, those pop ups are a pain!!!!