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09-21-2006, 04:38 PM
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See Scottie !
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otherwise we subsequently end up ruining an otherwise beautiful day. To me it is a no brainer. What is yours is yours and what is mine is mine. If your phone rang and you asked me to get it for you of course I would but would never want to look at the number or answer it. It isn't any of my stinking business who is calling and I respect that. If a female friend ended up finding out something she did not like it would be "short lived" because we wouldn't be seeing each other again. That seems simple enough too.
Robin, we seem to have a good understanding.
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Us low/moderate level BOINKED people do have some redeeming qualities LOL!
Now, go tell your family that I'm coming for dinner 
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09-21-2006, 05:41 PM
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On Vacation....
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Easier said than done!!!
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Sounds reasonable to me Scotty. But the way I see it, you should never have to stop someone from grabbing your cellphone. It should be a given that you ask to answer it not just take it upon yourself to do so.
Personally I would never do it for fear tht i might find out something that I will not like...
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Many women (or at least the ones I've known) assume there is something always going on. My ex tore up my phone book when we got married "so we can start with a clean slate" .... she didn't know about electronic backup 
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09-21-2006, 06:03 PM
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Many women (or at least the ones I've known) assume there is something always going on. My ex tore up my phone book when we got married "so we can start with a clean slate" .... she didn't know about electronic backup |
Sometimes people start talking about their exes and mentioning those too much in conversations. Doing this is really not a good idea unless your current partner asks to talk about it because it makes them feel uncomfortable, like they are being compared or the past relationship is not over completely. This is what could make someone to tear up a phone book
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09-21-2006, 06:46 PM
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On Vacation!
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Nothing wrong with getting BOINKING
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Originally Posted by Robin'sGirl
Us low/moderate level BOINKED people do have some redeeming qualities LOL!
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as long as YOU are the one doing the BOINKING....
I am ordering out tonight...hmmm as a matter of fact I order out everynight.
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09-21-2006, 06:47 PM
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On Vaction for a few weeks!
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Pa' la mierda se va'!
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Many women (or at least the ones I've known) assume there is something always going on. My ex tore up my phone book when we got married "so we can start with a clean slate" .... she didn't know about electronic backup |
Seriously?.
Trust me, that would not happen to me. If someone is going to tear up my "black book", it's going to be me and only ME!. Just like I don't give a crap if she keeps hers, she shouldn't give a crap if I keep mine.
My past is my past and I am the only one who should worry about it. Just like she should be the only one worrying about hers.
Now, that doesn't mean that I will "shove it" on her face (the "black book", I mean). I don't need to "display" my past to her. That would be rude and disrespectful..
See, that's exactly what I mean when I say that people should NOT be given so much rights. She tore it up because she thought she had the right to do so. But where is she now?, GONE.
So what's the point in giving someone so much liberties with YOUR stuff?.
Btw, that was funny, the "electronic backup" thingie!.
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09-21-2006, 06:54 PM
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Live and learn, but ....
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See, that's exactly what I mean when I say that people should NOT be given so much rights. She tore it up because she thought she had the right to do so. But where is she now?, GONE.
So what's the point in giving someone so much liberties with YOUR stuff?.
Btw, that was funny, the "electronic backup" thingie!.
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I still have my electronic file .... from Mainframe to PC to Server to PDA .... Maybe I should email her a copy .... nah, bad idea!!! 
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09-21-2006, 07:13 PM
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I have never felt the need to give my boyfriends or any friends/family access to my passwords. Perhaps it is an IT thing, that passwords shouldn't be shared and for a reason.
One of my ex boyfriends was an unapologetic pathalogical liar. I knew it...there were signs right there from the start that he couldn't be trusted, but I stuck it out. Ok so the one time I noticed his password on the scratch pad on my phone, I couldn't resist temptation and called his voicemail. Sure enough it was full of suggestive messages from more than one other woman...I had only confirmed what I had known all along...there was no need to have his password.
Before that and since then I've stuck to the no password sharing policy and I haven't had a problem. At home or in the DR...Everyone needs a degree of privacy. If they aren't to be trusted it will show in other ways...
IMHO If you (or anyone in general) feel you must know your partner's business and get the passwords, chances are you are with the wrong person, or you're not to be trusted yourself...I'm not trying to be smart-@ss, but it's often the ones that are out there committing the dishonesty that want full disclosure from others...distrustful behaviour breeds distrust in others.
Last edited by nikke; 09-21-2006 at 07:14 PM..
Reason: added some conjunctions, LOL
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09-21-2006, 07:35 PM
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Only share with fellow geeks!!!!
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Originally Posted by nikke
I have never felt the need to give my boyfriends or any friends/family access to my passwords. Perhaps it is an IT thing, that passwords shouldn't be shared and for a reason.
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When he/she is wearing his/her propellor cap and has his/her plastic pocket protector - with pens (fountain and ball points) and pencils (mechanical and lead).
Standard attire: white short sleeves shirt tucked into pants, worn above the waist (close to the stomach), tie, black shoes and white sweat socks
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09-21-2006, 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted by nikke
IMHO If you (or anyone in general) feel you must know your partner's business and get the passwords, chances are you are with the wrong person, or you're not to be trusted yourself...I'm not trying to be smart-@ss, but it's often the ones that are out there committing the dishonesty that want full disclosure from others...distrustful behaviour breeds distrust in others.
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Totally agree. Honest people have ability to trust others and beleive in good qualities in people in general. Those, who question everything about others usually are very dishonest themselves.
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09-21-2006, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted by miguel
Dragonie, let me tell you a little secret about guys, or people in general:
We NEVER, EEEEEEEVER ask a woman for her email address or cell phone code unless we want to snoop around!.
What's the point?. We are not going to ask for it and then just "sit on it"...
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I agree with you on the privacy thing Miguel. We all need our privacy.
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