What do you know...

jrf · #1 09-20-2006, 04:30 PM

How many of you know the passwords or cell phone numbers listed in your Domicana/o's computer and cell phone.

When I was living with and then married to my wife being able to use her cell phone if I needed or see/read her email it was never a big deal.

Do you let your partner read your email? See who you have been phoning?

Would you date or live with your Dominicana/o without being able to see who they are emailing, chatting with, or calling?

How about back home? Here it would be no big deal for them to see mine (so to speak

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azabache · #2 09-20-2006, 08:02 PM

I let Nooooooobody have the passwords to my cellphone or email.......even though I have nothing to hide. It's just that prying eyes might misinterpret what they see and create problems for themselves and you too. This same thing just happened to another couple who are good friends of ours. SHE saw that her husband had received more than a few phones calls from a certain number that she didn't recognize and she started investigating. To make the story short she found out that the incoming calls were very innocent--but not after confronting the lady who was calling, the ladies' husband and then her own husband. The investigating wife was so embarrased that she wound up in the hospital to be treated for her nerves.

jrf · #3 09-20-2006, 10:25 PM

A friend of mine there has now got a 'boyfriend' an older 'gentleman' and she is now living with him.
Well, he is not too trusting and now I am not supposed to email her. I know her from one of the restaurants in Batey and became friends.
He has her password for her email and she doesn't want anymore trouble with him.
Doesnt really matter to me. I miss knowing how she is doing but kinda wierd.

Then again-if he doesn't even trust her why bother living with her. But then I know the answer to that one. No love real.

DominicanScotty · #4 09-20-2006, 10:33 PM

Who cares? Life is too daggone short to be worried about such trivial nonsense.

However, I must add this. I am secure about my relationships and so are they. I don't need to worry about these things because they don't happen. If you know who you are going out with then you shouldn't either.

But, if you are going out with a sankie/sankiette/puto/puta/whatever then you will see this activity happen. Their phone constantly ringing and they are running off for all periods of time. Hey, anyone can have a phone call come in and anyone can be pulled away from their novia/novio once or twice an day. However, to have this happen every couple of minutes? No way Jose.

Go out with a serious person and this will not happen I assure you.

My 2 pesos worth

Berzin · #5 09-20-2006, 10:39 PM

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Originally Posted by jrf

A friend of mine there has now got a 'boyfriend' an older 'gentleman' and she is now living with him.
Well, he is not too trusting and now I am not supposed to email her. I know her from one of the restaurants in Batey and became friends.
He has her password for her email and she doesn't want anymore trouble with him.
Doesnt really matter to me. I miss knowing how she is doing but kinda wierd.

Then again-if he doesn't even trust her why bother living with her. But then I know the answer to that one. No love real.

That's ironic. I have a friend that I met on my first trip and we hit it off really well-like brother and sister. She is now dating a guy and I told her if she can't speak to me anymore because of her relationship I understand. She tells him about me and so far the communication has never stopped. I can only assume he's OK with it, but then again hes' not dominican and you know how jealous and posessive they can be. I would hate to lose a friend like her over petty jealousy.

gary short · #6 09-20-2006, 10:50 PM

HOLY CRAP SCOTTY..........thanks for that observation....if you have to worry about your security in regards to your mates access to security codes you may want to analyze your relationship.....although having said that keep all financial records secret.

DominicanScotty · #7 09-20-2006, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by gary short

HOLY CRAP SCOTTY..........thanks for that observation....if you have to worry about your security in regards to your mates access to security codes you may want to analyze your relationship.....although having said that keep all financial records secret.

The only one that knows my personal financial records is my accountant. Who the heck divulges their financial records to some chica for Pete's sake???

Security codes for whom? Him/Her? If I have to worry about such ka ka she isn't worth it, period.

But then what are we talking about here? Guys/gals that get BOINKED? Ha ha ha ha, hoooooooooooooooiiiiieeeeeeeeee! Sankies and Sankiettes change their phone about as often as we change our socks (or as often as we should change our socks). I haven't gone through that nonsense in many years and even then I didn't buy them phones, couldn't care less who they were or are banging and still don't.

This whole thing is a joke. I don't want to know any idiotic codes, follow them around blabbity blah blah.....phoooie ( I spat). Come on guys/gals...do you really give a rat's arse? If he/she is a serious guy or girl you won't have to worry about it.

A serious woman or man doesn't receive calls every couple of minutes. Especially if they are with you!

jrf · #8 09-21-2006, 12:03 AM

I think there may be a good therapist out there for you Scotty. lol

My original question was about relationships, my friend, her older ex-pat that controls her now, my wife before.

A simple question-not a sankie forum post by the way.

I just find it wierd. Don't like it contribute to another thread.

Robin'sGirl · #9 09-21-2006, 12:05 AM

You? BOINKED? Say it isnt so!

DominicanScotty · #10 09-21-2006, 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by jrf

I think there may be a good therapist out there for you Scotty. lol

My original question was about relationships, my friend, her older ex-pat that controls her now, my wife before.

A simple question-not a sankie forum post by the way.

I just find it wierd. Don't like it contribute to another thread.

Because I am secure in my relationships? You know? You might be right....

Who said I didn't like it? You are posting about keeping track of your novia??? The Dominican Republic? You really need to keep track of her cell phone? THis thread should be moved to the....oh nooooooooooo...shhhhhhhhhhh sankie forum. Sorry...it belongs there and it isn't a matter if I like it or not.