Can YOU "Land" A Good Dominican? - Page 51

La Mariposa · #**501** 10-20-2006, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnaC

Please don't make me say the visa-versa. I'm not that nasty.

Anna, you took the words out of my mouth

AZB · #**502** 10-20-2006, 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnaC

Please don't make me say the visa-versa. I'm not that nasty.

Hey, who's side are you on? Do not lean towards the liberal women views, they are mostly dykes and lesbos. Stick to the old fashion ways, meaning Kitchen and raising kids while men run the world.
AZB

miguel · #**503** 10-20-2006, 05:46 PM

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Originally Posted by dv8

so i am dating a godd dominican man. he has fulfilled and overfulfilled all hillybilly's rules: has more money than me, more credit cards (i have 0), writes cheques, has usa visa, lived there for a while, been to europe many times, has the equivalent of my university degree.

yet: he has no understanding why i run outside in a little more than my pink panties when i hear a loud cry of my kitty between loud dog barking (see our ongoing discussion about amimal walfare in dr).
he has no understanding for my desire to keep our family as small as possible (no more than one offspring) so we'd have more money to educate the child (abroad, should it need so) and for us to travel and enjoy life.
he does not know why i complain about cucarachas, they are harmless.
he sees nothing immoral in cabanas and nothing ironical in naming a cabana (on a way to santiago) ETHICS.
he does not understand that a person (namely me) can spend 150 british pounds on underwear in one visit to the shop (that was, however, when i earned in pounds, not now...).

i could multiply the examples here. what it boils to is that he may be good, educated and from good family - the cultural differences between us are still enormous. and, since I AM HERE, not he in europe, it is up to me to learn, compromise and step back...

Are you saying he is dating "down" and not you?. Impossible unless he wants something out of the relationship, hahahahaha!.

Seriously, are you sure he doesn't want the "trophy" girlfriend for a while?.

Listen, you are the only one who can tell if the guy is good enough to "land", or in this case, is he thinks that YOU are good enough to "land". All I know is that it takes more than a few trips to the DR, or living in the DR for a few "seconds" to really know what a person's intentions are.

All I can say is that it's a well-known fact that MOST rich Dominicans DO stay away from foreigners. But, like in all cases, ALL rules can be broken.

Now, I can understand a rich Dominican dating or marrying a rich foreigner, but a poor one, well, I don't know of ONE case. NOT that there aren't any, just that I don't know or heard of one.

MOST rather date and marry people from their same, if not higher, social "scale".

Btw, dv8 is NOT going anywhere. She needs to meet me first, wahahahaha!.

miguel · #**504** 10-20-2006, 06:13 PM

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Originally Posted by audrav

That's why people don't bother writing anything on here after a while. What's the point. Everyone here thinks their opinion is the right one and people are so closed minded.

People ask for new and interesting posts, when someone writes something, it turns into the same old hashed out subjects!

I don't understand what's the big deal if someone challenges another person's opinion.

One of the reasons why people are different is because they have different opinions.

My opinions are always challenged and I challenge other people's opinions, big deal. At the end of day, MY opinions are ALWAYS right and his, her or their OPINIONS are always right.

Just because a person says that my opinions are wrong doesn't mean that he/she is right. They are MY opinions and NOBODY should agree with my opinions if they don't like them, and visa versa.

Why go cry to mommy because someone is not agreeing with me?. Fight for what you believe and do not let ANYONE change your beliefs. See, as simple as that!.

The reason why there are so many arguments here is because EVERYBODY thinks that their opinions are right and EVERYBODY else's are wrong. And there's nothing wrong with that because NOT only are we not perfect, but we are humans and as humans, NOT 2 people think the same way 100%, therefore, their opinions are different.

I really don't know how to explain it any other way.

Btw, one of the reasons why many are NOT posting about dating or marrying a good, decent, educated and well-to-do Dominicans is NOT because they will be attacked, it's because there aren't many.

Audra · #**505** 10-20-2006, 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by miguel

Btw, one of the reasons why many are NOT posting about dating or marrying a good, decent, educated and well-to-do Dominicans is NOT because they will be attacked, it's because there aren't many.

This is one opinion which I will agree with you.

dv8 · #**506** 10-20-2006, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by miguel

Are you saying he is dating "down" and not you?. Impossible unless he wants something out of the relationship, hahahahaha!.

Seriously, are you sure he doesn't want the "trophy" girlfriend for a while?.

Btw, dv8 is NOT going anywhere. She needs to meet me first, wahahahaha!.

well, he is sort of dating down

given his family position...
i'm not much of a trophy, heck, he's not even gonna get european passport after we get married (polish law). i am also not at all that young and pretty, or rich. since he's well aware of that there is a slight possibility that he may, just maybe, a little, tiny teeny bit love me.

palomitamia · #**507** 10-20-2006, 08:57 PM

sounds like you found a great guy, congratulations!

don't be too modest, I am sure you are very pretty.....but he loves you all the same

btw, I DO enjoy reading your posts, I think you should start writing a blog because you are a very good writer&your engl. is fantastic: did you grow up in Britain?

wow, this thread is really(but not only) entertaining. dv8 and AZB are my favorite characters

have a groovy we,

P.

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Originally Posted by dv8

well, he is sort of dating down

given his family position...
i'm not much of a trophy, heck, he's not even gonna get european passport after we get married (polish law). i am also not at all that young and pretty, or rich. since he's well aware of that there is a slight possibility that he may, just maybe, a little, tiny teeny bit love me.

cobraboy · #**508** 10-20-2006, 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by miguel

If it was a black gringo with a white Dominicana, people will stare and talk.
If it was a old foreigner, male of female, with a young Dominican, people will stare and talk.
If it was a white foreigner with a white Dominican dressed as a hooker, they will stare and talk.

What about a white foreigner with a white, conservatively dressed Dominicana?

dv8 · #**509** 10-20-2006, 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by palomitamia

sounds like you found a great guy, congratulations!

don't be too modest, I am sure you are very pretty.....but he loves you all the same

btw, I DO enjoy reading your posts, I think you should start writing a blog because you are a very good writer&your engl. is fantastic: did you grow up in Britain?

wow, this thread is really(but not only) entertaining. dv8 and AZB are my favorite characters

have a groovy we,

P.

thanks, so many compliments....
i have lived in britain for 4 years, loved it.
i am sure azb loves me too, he's only playing hard to get.

dv8 · #**510** 10-20-2006, 09:38 PM

i forgot, minovio makes CHEESECAKES too!
now, azb, eat my pink panties - HE IS A GOOD DOMINICAN!!!!