my son's father is a deadbeat - Page 7

calico katz · #61 11-24-2006, 09:46 PM

he has played all the games. He would take him when he had a new girlfriend, just to aggrevate me. Then after a few weeks of this-and me not acting like i cared- he would start calling me late at night and then showing up at my house trying to give me a sob story, how he missed me and he was sorry and all the usual blah-blahs they give, i told him to buzz off, and i guess that really bugged him, because then he filed court papers. In court he tried to tell the judge I wanted him back. Well, he still didn't get his way.Visits the way he wanted, and reduced support. I will usually not hear from him for months, and then you guess it- 11 pm - the phone calls start. This has been going on for three years. You think the dummy would just get it through his head. He must not be able to deal with not getting his way. From all the posts i have read, he sounds like a typical Dominican man. Are there any who are not like that?

shadInToronto · #62 11-25-2006, 09:00 AM

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Originally Posted by calico katz

he has played all the games. He would take him when he had a new girlfriend, just to aggrevate me. Then after a few weeks of this-and me not acting like i cared- he would start calling me late at night and then showing up at my house trying to give me a sob story, how he missed me and he was sorry and all the usual blah-blahs they give, i told him to buzz off, and i guess that really bugged him, because then he filed court papers. In court he tried to tell the judge I wanted him back. Well, he still didn't get his way.Visits the way he wanted, and reduced support. I will usually not hear from him for months, and then you guess it- 11 pm - the phone calls start. This has been going on for three years. You think the dummy would just get it through his head. He must not be able to deal with not getting his way. From all the posts i have read, he sounds like a typical Dominican man. Are there any who are not like that?

You can do the same .... bug the sh!t outta him. Call at 3:00 AM then put the receiver next to your radio or blow a whistle in his ear; tell him your new bf is hot and has a bigger "dip stick"; .... make crap up

mountainfrog · #63 11-25-2006, 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by calico katz

... he sounds like a typical Dominican man. Are there any who are not like that?

Why are you asking?
Want another one?

m'frog

paddy · #64 11-25-2006, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by shadInToronto

You can do the same .... bug the sh!t outta him. Call at 3:00 AM then put the receiver next to your radio or blow a whistle in his ear; tell him your new bf is hot and has a bigger "dip stick"; .... make crap up

You don't want to go there with that kind of "crap"...the Daily News is loaded with stories about how these EX husbands become very violent because they don't get the EX part...these "cretins" look upon their women as property for LIFE..and I'm not just talking about Latino men ..who by the way have this "machismo" thing going on....which has nothing to do with being the type of real "man" that we're talking about here..a father to his children.

calico katz · #65 11-25-2006, 10:50 AM

no, i do not want another one.

Hillbilly · #66 11-25-2006, 12:41 PM

Calico: did you sic a lawyer on him? You should be able to get him to jump through a few hoops....

Let us know what's up...

HB

calico katz · #67 11-25-2006, 07:21 PM

This last time he filed modification to get out of support, the judge found him in contempt, and ordered him to pay double the support order to catch up on the arrears-3500., if he doesn't pay he goes to jail, and has to pay all to get out. Child support finally started taking from his paycheck, and this week he must have died when he seen his check, because they took out twice what they were supposed to. oh well, too bad for him. I had to keep calling cse to ask why they weren't collecting-it took six months. I have little patience for stupid men, and all i can say is god bless all those Dominican women who will always tolerate these fools. There is nothing they won't do for their men no matter how terrible they are treated. I feel sorry that their mothers didn't do a better job raising them. Thank god i am american and not dominican, because heaven help any man trying to get me out of bed at 1 a.m. to cook for him, or leave dirty laundry on the floor, or a messy kitchen to clean after work- i couldn't even do it.

AnnaC · #68 11-25-2006, 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by calico katz

This last time he filed modification to get out of support, the judge found him in contempt, and ordered him to pay double the support order to catch up on the arrears-3500., if he doesn't pay he goes to jail, and has to pay all to get out. Child support finally started taking from his paycheck, and this week he must have died when he seen his check, because they took out twice what they were supposed to. oh well, too bad for him. I had to keep calling cse to ask why they weren't collecting-it took six months.

I have little patience for stupid men, and all i can say is god bless all those Dominican women who will always tolerate these fools. There is nothing they won't do for their men no matter how terrible they are treated. I feel sorry that their mothers didn't do a better job raising them. Thank god i am american and not dominican,

because heaven help any man trying to get me out of bed at 1 a.m. to cook for him, or leave dirty laundry on the floor, or a messy kitchen to clean after work- i couldn't even do it.

So let me get this straight, you are American and your ex is Dominican and you are all living in the US as far as I can tell and it sounds like your problem has been solved, so you are still here to put down all Dominicans right?

I think we are done here.