Advice?

[snowqueen]

or you would not have posted. Run, don't walk, away from this skank.

[AtlantaBob]

Don't you women find it odd when a guy says he wants to marry you after only knowing you a couple days? Do guys back in your home town ask you to marry them after the first date? Read the Sankie threads, girl.

Bob (Back from the dead)

[Kyle]

early sankies get the worm ? if he is unemployed, then should be walking.

who's paying for his visa and passport ? oh i forgot, sankies get unemployment in the DR....LOL

[drluver]

To try to answer some of the questions.

1. I haven't seen him since he lost his job. So i don't know that he would continue to pay for everything. But I suspect he would.

2. I guess at the begining it was more his friends saying that he was going to marry me. I don't think he was really meaning it (at first).

3. He has never asked for anything. He calls me as often as I call him (but usually I will call him back)

4. When I tell him I am not ready that is ok with him. Of course he hopes I will change my mind. He knows I am not ready. Heck I am too young even.

Thanks everyone for their "help"

[El Tigre]

Originally Posted by drluver

To try to answer some of the questions.

1. I haven't seen him since he lost his job. So i don't know that he would continue to pay for everything. But I suspect he would.

2. I guess at the begining it was more his friends saying that he was going to marry me. I don't think he was really meaning it (at first).

3. He has never asked for anything. He calls me as often as I call him (but usually I will call him back)

4. When I tell him I am not ready that is ok with him. Of course he hopes I will change my mind. He knows I am not ready. Heck I am too young even.

Thanks everyone for their "help"

Hey can you post a picture of yourself?

[mountainfrog]

Originally Posted by drluver

.... The last two times I have been back to visit he has really wanted me to marry him. I have told him no as #1 he hasn't actually proposed, and #2 none of my friends understand...
Has anyone else been in a similar situation?

Similar situation?
Impossible!
This is sheer luck, very rare and great guy.
Go for it, follow your heart and/or your instincts...

Teach him how to propose or even better DIY.
And what do your friends know about true love, huh?

Rent-a-Sankie

m'frog

[canadiangirl858]

What everyone is telling you is true...RUN. This is my first time on
DR1. I wish I would have read the "sankie" forums before I married
my "sankie". Too late for me but its not too late for you.

Don't fall for the lines..they are all lies. They will marry you,
come to your country and then disappear in the night. and you are left picking up the pieces of your life.

[stormer]

Originally Posted by canadiangirl858

What everyone is telling you is true...RUN. This is my first time on
DR1. I wish I would have read the "sankie" forums before I married
my "sankie". Too late for me but its not too late for you.

Don't fall for the lines..they are all lies. They will marry you,
come to your country and then disappear in the night. and you are left picking up the pieces of your life.

Canadiangirl,
You should share your story. It may help others along the way.

[rellosk]

Originally Posted by canadiangirl858

What everyone is telling you is true...RUN. This is my first time on
DR1. I wish I would have read the "sankie" forums before I married
my "sankie". Too late for me but its not too late for you.

Don't fall for the lines..they are all lies. They will marry you,
come to your country and then disappear in the night. and you are left picking up the pieces of your life.

Welcome to DR1! Good first post. I hope drluver listens to your advice.

[Audra]

Originally Posted by canadiangirl858

What everyone is telling you is true...RUN. This is my first time on
DR1. I wish I would have read the "sankie" forums before I married
my "sankie". Too late for me but its not too late for you.

Don't fall for the lines..they are all lies. They will marry you,
come to your country and then disappear in the night. and you are left picking up the pieces of your life.

Welcome to DR1.

I agree with you about finding this site after the fact

It would be great to hear your story.