DR relationship. When to pull the plug....?

[AZB]

I live in santiago. Give me her name and what store she works at in santiago. I can get you some information.
AZB

[shadInToronto]

Originally Posted by audrav

How old are you, how old is she?

Can you live there for a while?

Always go with your gut feeling, it never lies.

Unfortunately, the intestinal canal is not used for this purpose and most often in these circumstances "thinking" is done with the copulatory organs

[shadInToronto]

Originally Posted by enos234

There are cases in the news in Vancouver with Chinese women getting screwed over by bring men over from China and getting stuck with huge bills from social assistance.

Too many signs point to sankietteville and should not be ignored ... phone issues, incommunicado, taken on "meet the family" tours, marriage proposal without knowing her properly .... rather strange situation to be in.

Canadian?

[enos234]

Originally Posted by shadInToronto

Too many signs point to sankietteville and should not be ignored ... phone issues, incommunicado, taken on "meet the family" tours, marriage proposal without knowing her properly .... rather strange situation to be in.

Canadian?

yup

[enos234]

Originally Posted by audrav

How old are you, how old is she?

Can you live there for a while?

Always go with your gut feeling, it never lies.

I'm 37, she's 26...her daughter is 4. I want to buy property there (regardliess of relationship) but my career won't let me move right now.

[enos234]

Originally Posted by shadInToronto

Too many signs point to sankietteville and should not be ignored ... phone issues, incommunicado, taken on "meet the family" tours, marriage proposal without knowing her properly .... rather strange situation to be in.

Canadian?

I thought the family tour thing was a good sign. I read sankie signs are NOT letting you meet the family. Are you saying they are all "in on it"? I'm starting to see the light on a lot of things but I don't buy that.

[laurapasinifan]

If I read the threads very good...I think you said you have only visited the DR 3 times????

that is not nearly enough time.....and answers a lot of questions.

you should go for a week or more . Maybe even take a leave of absence from work for a month and live with her..........

while i think seeing her only three times makes marriage talk strange...i do realize that thousands of people fall in love over the net and even end up getting married.....

what was a poor girl doing at a resort?............if they are that bad off or can just make ends meet going to a resort is a huge exspense, and is a red flag to me.

good luck

bob

[SKY]

Stop calling her and you will find out that her phone works fine and she can use it any time, as she will bombard you with calls.

When she does, and she WILL, try and avoid her for awhile.

[shadInToronto]

Originally Posted by enos234

I thought the family tour thing was a good sign. I read sankie signs are NOT letting you meet the family. Are you saying they are all "in on it"? I'm starting to see the light on a lot of things but I don't buy that.

Wrong!!!! Part of the sales pitch to recruit you into the family and thereby take on family responsibilities ... 'come meet mi papi y madre y sistr y brothr y ..... hug hug kiss kiss, now here's the shopping list, let's go shopping'. That's the standard MO

[shadInToronto]

Originally Posted by enos234

I'm 37, she's 26...her daughter is 4. I want to buy property there (regardliess of relationship) but my career won't let me move right now.

Holy crap man, what's wrong with you???? Find yourself a single broad and don't tie yourself down with unnecessary responsibilities ... if you've got moolah and a decent career, why rush?