Some feed back on getting a Dominican to UK

[delacruz]

I (English woman) have a Dominican boyfriend, I met him in August, he joined me on holiday for a week after we met and he rang me when he said he would so we have carried on our relationship by phone everyday and e-mail, msn. I went back for another 3 weeks and we lived in an appartment. He has applied for a visa for a visit to England, but just been declined and basically told we should marry! I do feel very srongly but feel I would like him to come to this country and see me here and meet my friends and family, before marrying. Is this just a crazy idea? Is the only way of getting him here, by marrying him first?

He has very little money and I don't have loads! Eventually we would prefer to settle in the DR, but probably need to be in the UK for awhile. I am going again hopefully for a month in January... any help would be much appreciated! Thanks

[AnnaC]

Marrying someone just so they can come to your country to meet your friends and family is crazy for sure.

Please go back many times to visit before committing to such a thing as marriage. Learn the laws of your country and your responsibility in doing such a thing.

[vince1956]

Just get a fiance visa you have 6 months to get married that is what i done it is a no? to get a vist visa they probley tell you that he wont go back thats what happened with my step son

[shadInToronto]

Originally Posted by delacruz

I (English woman) have a Dominican boyfriend, I met him in August, he joined me on holiday for a week after we met and he rang me when he said he would so we have carried on our relationship by phone everyday and e-mail, msn. I went back for another 3 weeks and we lived in an appartment. He has applied for a visa for a visit to England, but just been declined and basically told we should marry! I do feel very srongly but feel I would like him to come to this country and see me here and meet my friends and family, before marrying. Is this just a crazy idea? Is the only way of getting him here, by marrying him first?

He has very little money and I don't have loads! Eventually we would prefer to settle in the DR, but probably need to be in the UK for awhile. I am going again hopefully for a month in January... any help would be much appreciated! Thanks

Read everything in the sankie forum, re-read them, then read again and again ... if you're still convinced he's the one, listen to Anna.

Don't worry much, by the time you settle there, financially you'll be equals ....

Btw, delacruz doesn't sound English

Welcome to DR1

[mountainfrog]

Originally Posted by delacruz

.... and basically told we should marry!..... Is this just a crazy idea? ...

No, of course not.
Many have done it...




.... and regretted it.
But your 'de la Cruz' is different.
So nothing wrong with marrying him.


m'frog

[momita]

Originally Posted by mountainfrog

But your 'de la Cruz' is different.
So nothing wrong with marrying him.


m'frog

God ,safe the Queen!!!!!!!!
Do not be stupid Girl.....I understand you,but remember...it isn't love yet...it is just a good sex!!!!!Let him uncover his real face....and then you will decide.
Don't tie yourself with something unrealistic......:-)

Momita

[paddy]

Originally Posted by delacruz

I (English woman) have a Dominican boyfriend, I met him in August, he joined me on holiday for a week after we met and he rang me when he said he would so we have carried on our relationship by phone everyday and e-mail, msn. I went back for another 3 weeks and we lived in an appartment. He has applied for a visa for a visit to England, but just been declined and basically told we should marry! I do feel very srongly but feel I would like him to come to this country and see me here and meet my friends and family, before marrying. Is this just a crazy idea? Is the only way of getting him here, by marrying him first?

He has very little money and I don't have loads! Eventually we would prefer to settle in the DR, but probably need to be in the UK for awhile. I am going again hopefully for a month in January... any help would be much appreciated! Thanks

Move on..you're his "ticket to ride"...period...just read some of the posts on this site..

[BoricuaChica]

i have a friend who works in imagration in the uk and you will be waiting along time there very hard on that kinda thing due 2 the imagration problem in england so good luck with that...besides why would you want 2 move 2 DR life is hard..jobs,money,culture unless u have ALOT of money and dnt need 2 work lol

[Big_Al]

Originally Posted by delacruz

I (English woman) have a Dominican boyfriend, I met him in August, he joined me on holiday for a week after we met and he rang me when he said he would so we have carried on our relationship by phone everyday and e-mail, msn. I went back for another 3 weeks and we lived in an appartment. He has applied for a visa for a visit to England, but just been declined and basically told we should marry! I do feel very srongly but feel I would like him to come to this country and see me here and meet my friends and family, before marrying. Is this just a crazy idea? Is the only way of getting him here, by marrying him first?

He has very little money and I don't have loads! Eventually we would prefer to settle in the DR, but probably need to be in the UK for awhile. I am going again hopefully for a month in January... any help would be much appreciated! Thanks

Give him a chance, he just might be the one.

[Kyle]

i'm sure your heart is in the right place on this but:

why buy the cow when the milk is free ?