Is a satisfied Dominican man possible? - Page 2

jruane44 · #11 12-11-2006, 10:09 AM

This post is BS.

tk toronto · #12 12-11-2006, 11:21 AM

I think I misread earlier, I thought you also had a baby. Now that I realize that you don't have a baby with him.........RUN!!! FAST!

AT 19, you should NOT be dealing with babymamadrama, you're too young. As well, starting a relationship at 14 with this man.....I don't know about this.

If he disrespects you, wants to control you, and wants to tell you what to do, there's a problem. A huge problem, just leave, you have no ties to him.

As well, if you were to have a baby by him, three women can attest to not being with him after the fact. If he is not with those other women, what makes you think that he will stay with you?

AnnaC · #13 12-11-2006, 11:43 AM

I have a question as well as many doubts about this story.

Were you hungry and living on the street when you met this man?

We are talking about the US not DR so why didn't your Italian parents break this guy's legs when he came near you?

And if you're only 19 and dance well why aren't you both out dancing till 4 am TOGETHER ?

AZB · #14 12-11-2006, 11:43 AM

she started this relationship with him at 14 or 15, so that makes her a little slut. Now my comments are proven correct. Women love a man who treats them like trash. When a man pulls chairs for her and carries her purse like miguel, he ends up divorced.
AZB

shadInToronto · #15 12-11-2006, 11:53 AM

Looking for attention? You've been reading too many romance novels but, your story doesn't make any sense .... firstly, get the chronology of events correct.

If you're 19 as you claim, therefore you were 14 when you started a relationship with him and since 14 is below the age of consent, he could have been (or could still be) charged with statutory rape, engaging in unlawful sex with a minor, criminal sex with a minor, or some other sexual offence with a minor. And further, if he has 3 kids, when and with whom did he have these kids? ... if before he met you, then you already know he screws around; if after, you have your anwers .... it just doesn't make any sense!!!!!

miguel · #16 12-11-2006, 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnaC

We are talking about the US not DR so why didn't your Italian parents break this guy's legs when he came near you?

Whether it was in the US or the DR, the guy is a pervert and a pedophile (that is if it's true they have been together for 5 years and she is 19 NOW).

Whether in the US or the DR, if she was my kid, I would hang that "fa'fo" by the balls!.

Btw: I think this poster is "pulling our legs". But you never knows, we have seen worse.

tk toronto · #17 12-11-2006, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by AZB

she started this relationship with him at 14 or 15, so that makes her a little slut. Now my comments are proven correct. Women love a man who treats them like trash. When a man pulls chairs for her and carries her purse like miguel, he ends up divorced.
AZB

It may be that this person is older than her, I guess no one thought of that possiblity.
As well, if she had a realationship at 14 or 15, it does not make her a little slut, as you say, AZB. Have you ever heard of high school romances?? I know you're not THAT old. Doesn't neccessarily mean sex is happening right away. If she did have sex with him in her relationship, she is not actively saying "let me be a slut", it could be that she thought she fell in love with this man or that he manipulated her. But, I guess with you, those kinds of logical deductions never cross your mind.
As well, people don't start treating you like trash the first day you meet them, they wait til they have reeled you in and then start treating you like trash. They wait until you are too deep in before they start treating you like trash. That is one of the simple basics of an abusive or controlling relationship.

shadInToronto · #18 12-11-2006, 10:42 PM

IMO, her relationship was/is definitely not high school romance or puppy love, perhaps doggie love is more appropriate since she hooked up with a man with 3 kids at 14. I don't know of any 14 yo who's in love with someone with 3 kids. It is not normal behaviour!!!!

So, she shouldn't be blamed for her actions, isn't responsible for her decisions, and shouldn't be called a slut 'cause her parents, teachers, and society drover her to hook up with a man with 3 kids at age 14 ... sounds like a NOW cover-up

tk toronto · #19 12-12-2006, 12:11 AM

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Originally Posted by shadInToronto

IMO, her relationship was/is definitely not high school romance or puppy love, perhaps doggie love is more appropriate since she hooked up with a man with 3 kids at 14. I don't know of any 14 yo who's in love with someone with 3 kids. It is not normal behaviour!!!!

So, she shouldn't be blamed for her actions, isn't responsible for her decisions, and shouldn't be called a slut 'cause her parents, teachers, and society drover her to hook up with a man with 3 kids at age 14 ... sounds like a NOW cover-up

Again, if she was 14, we don't know how old this person is, so we don't know if she was manipulated. As well, he may not have had 3 children when she met him, he may have fathered these children during the relationship and somehow convinced her to stay with him. No one said she shouldn't have to take responsiblity, since now she has to be responsible for leaving this potentially unsafe relationship.

Why does anyone feel they have a right to call someone a slut? Does AZB know her personally? What right does he have to be the morals police?

As well, if the focus is on her being 14, she was a child when this relationship started, so I don't know how calling her a slut is giving advice or helping the situation. The only thing calling her a slut accomplishes is that person who called her a slut feeling like they've done something great by being rude and sarcastic. Nothing else.

shadInToronto · #20 12-12-2006, 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by tk toronto

Again, if she was 14, we don't know how old this person is, so we don't know if she was manipulated. As well, he may not have had 3 children when she met him, he may have fathered these children during the relationship and somehow convinced her to stay with him. No one said she shouldn't have to take responsiblity, since now she has to be responsible for leaving this potentially unsafe relationship.

Why does anyone feel they have a right to call someone a slut? Does AZB know her personally? What right does he have to be the morals police?

As well, if the focus is on her being 14, she was a child when this relationship started, so I don't know how calling her a slut is giving advice or helping the situation. The only thing calling her a slut accomplishes is that person who called her a slut feeling like they've done something great by being rude and sarcastic. Nothing else.

Probably it's all conjecture as she hasn't posted again .... my opinion is that it was a sock whose motive was to stir the pot a bit and she certainly accomplished that. Notwithstanding that, whatever she's labeled, PC or otherwise, she did some damn stupid things not normal for a 14 yo.