And why not?
In life, people usually make choices according to "needs", not necessarily according to "wants".
You need her affection/sex. She needs your money/security or at least the hope that you'll take her to a "better place", be it a nice house in DR or residency in US or Can.
She may not want to marry on old geezer like you. Likely, she'll prefer a younger man. But she needs you.
You'd possibly,( guessing here), prefer an independent, sweet woman, closer to your age, but those are hard to find. Ergo, you need her.
In an ideal world, you're hardly compatible with one-another. i.e. language, culture, age, social status, race, and wealth. But so what? You have something she wants, she has something you want.
As long as there's a mutual need for each-other, I don't foresee conflicts in relationships of this nature.....However, Once the need is no more, the wants take over and that's when trouble begins.
If you taker to north America and she obtains her "green card", unless she truly loves you, she'll forget you and want to seek greener pastures. You'l be left broken hearted and feeling like a fool.
The moral here is that, as long as there's a symbiotic association here, the bond will remain. If not, well, hasta la vista, baby!
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