Need to discuss relationships. Please help.

[shortraymond]

I recently met and fell in love with a dominican woman in Puerto Plata. I live in the US and I can only visit the DR twice a year, but this is all new to me as far as a relationship. We communicate well simply because we both speak some spanish for me, and english for her, so we make it work. But this is a very long distance relationship so I guess my question is, can anyone give me the heads up on the women of the DR as far as infidelity. I can see marriage down the road and even bring her to the US, but trust is a concern for me right now. Thanks for any advise.

Ray

[suzannel]

Originally Posted by shortraymond

I rCheckecently met and fell in love with a dominican woman in Puerto Plata. I live in the US and I can only visit the DR twice a year, but this is all new to me as far as a relationship. We communicate well simply because we both speak some spanish for me, and english for her, so we make it work. But this is a very long distance relationship so I guess my question is, can anyone give me the heads up on the women of the DR as far as infidelity. I can see marriage down the road and even bring her to the US, but trust is a concern for me right now. Thanks for any advise.

Ray

Ray,
To help you make your mind up, why don't you take a couple of days (I say that because there are many) and check out the treads that relate to Sankies in Men are from Mars and Women from Venus. The reading of these stories will certainly be relevant.

[Hipocrito Mejia]

A DNA paternity test is your friend!

Originally Posted by shortraymond

Thanks Domenico. My route will probably go by marriage. My fiance is pregnant with my child so will the baby automaticly have dual citizenship?

http://www.dr1.com/forums/real-estat...residency.html

[rio2003]

Originally Posted by Hipocrito Mejia

A DNA paternity test is your friend!



http://www.dr1.com/forums/real-estat...residency.html

I take it there is more information than you have actually put on this thread?
It might be worth another post putting all the information in one place - then people won't waste theirs and your time in their answers......

Rio

[elton]

I remember the days when pregancy came after marriage and getting to know someone came before sex mind you Im 368

[AnnaC]

Have a look at some of the threads we have on this topic

Relationships for men 101...

Levels of deception in the DR...Post your story

[Rocky]

Here is a thread of a similar nature to yours, minus the pregnancy.
http://www.dr1.com/forums/trip-repor...ationship.html

I would like to make a couple of remarks.
You have 2 choices.
To just support the new born child or try to make a family.
If you are seriously considering turning this situation into a family story, you will need to know 100% who you are dealing with.
There are ways of finding out.
You cannot just "take a chance" that she is on the up and up with you.
You need to be sure.

[rio2003]

Originally Posted by elton

I remember the days when pregancy came after marriage and getting to know someone came before sex mind you Im 368

Yes, but if you took the time to get to know them and find that you don't like them as a result - what would happen to the sex?



Rio

[drloca]

Originally Posted by rio2003

Yes, but if you took the time to get to know them and find that you don't like them as a result - what would happen to the sex?



Rio

It would be happening with somebody else

[simpson Homer]

#1 Prob. the same thing is going on her head, you and another girl we cant
judge that woman like you are her victim and she is the blood sucker.


The best thing is get to know her better and stop the paranoia, if that is what you are feeling about her now what would be your feeling after moving together ? then leave her and save yourself and herself stress and be only friends. Let it flow if it mean the both of you to be together it will otherwise never meant.

We have to remember most woman in the DR are not independent and most of them rely on their man, for what mean if she feel confident with you any time she needs a hands financially she will ask and depends on you if you want this to be a habit for what in a smart way you have to give and take if it turns to be a habit.

You can visit her and see with your own eyes whats around you, yes many of her friend will give her good and bad advice and dont be surprise.

Good, would be "he is a nice gentleman wont treat you bad", "you can learn a lot goods things from him and his culture", "he will be good to your kids"


Bad: "Marry the gringo he is your visa" "the gringo has money"


leave marriage issues for last minute 1CENT ((GET TO KNOW HER AND BE SMART)) both have to learn a bit about each other culture and each other.