Why do Canadian women keep their new Dominican husbands locked up at home!!!!!!!!!!!!

crazy moon · #1 08-13-2008, 03:01 AM

My husband has been with me in Canada for over a year now. But within this year we have met 12 other couples in Canada. The husbands are Dominican and their parteners are Canadian women .Some young and some old.But for some reason the women like to keep their men hidden at home. Poor guys,10 men out of the 12 couples have told my husband how unhappy they are with their relationships. They all feel like they have no control anymore, one guy was even in tears and feeling like he was in jail. Very scared of his wife. What a sally. Well I guess they are learning that life may not be so great here after all. Or the women don't trust their husbands. These women need to give their men a break and let them see the outdoors once in a while. Or even let them hang with some Dominican guys. Has anyone else seem to be having this same problem in their relationship .If so I would love to hear about it.
Crazymoon

AnnaC · #2 08-13-2008, 08:44 AM

Crazy moon, first of all let me say congratulation on making it to your one year anniversary together in Canada. I'm sure adjusting to life in Canada wasn't easy for your husband.

Eddy · #3 08-13-2008, 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by crazy moon

My husband has been with me in Canada for over a year now. But within this year we have met 12 other couples in Canada. The husbands are Dominican and their parteners are Canadian women .Some young and some old.But for some reason the women like to keep their men hidden at home. Poor guys,10 men out of the 12 couples have told my husband how unhappy they are with their relationships. They all feel like they have no control anymore, one guy was even in tears and feeling like he was in jail. Very scared of his wife. What a sally. Well I guess they are learning that life may not be so great here after all. Or the women don't trust their husbands. These women need to give their men a break and let them see the outdoors once in a while. Or even let them hang with some Dominican guys. Has anyone else seem to be having this same problem in their relationship .If so I would love to hear about it.
Crazymoon

Where in Canada? You gotta be joking.

donnaparadise · #4 08-13-2008, 09:06 AM

You can't possibly be serious! A few reasons why these men might be at home might be that they are not working yet and don't have money to go out, they've been caught cheating once too many times, there just isn't enough money from what the wife earns to 'go out with the boys', etc.

I doubt very much that these women are holding their husbands hostage and won't 'let' them out..... Nice to come on here and suggest somehow Canadian women are nuts without more facts.......

sokitoumi · #5 08-13-2008, 09:32 AM

I'm sure Dominican women all over the country are laughing about this post if they see it- the poor little meek Dominican men , I dont think so

curlyq · #6 08-13-2008, 11:21 AM

These women have insecurity written all over them and the men are well...weak to say the least.

Like the other poster said, I doubt they are chained up in the house and doubt they have electronic tracking devices on their ankles. Just because they are in Canada because they married these women does not mean they should not be able to establish a life here. Networking with other Dominicans is important. If these women were married to Canadian men it would never last. They would surely tell them where to go. Perhaps that's why they chose Dominican men in hopes of being in control of their relationships.

A tiger never changes his stripes.

AZB · #7 08-13-2008, 11:44 AM

What is there not to believe that these men are chained to radiator heaters at home?
First of all, these men are totally uneducated, some were hotel servants, others were motoconcho level workers or just some jobless street tigres. Not one was a lawyer or a doctors, engineer or even a professional office/business type, college degree holder. These guys are all ghetto tigres who were working like slaves in some service field type industry (most likely hotel industry). They know how to speak English and dance well, perform well in bed too, but that's about how far their abilities go. These guys are not trained to hold any type of a respectable job in canada. They have no education and zero knowledge on international level current events. They have no idea where they are on a world map, except they know they are in canada. So naturally the women see their weaknesses and are embarrassed to show their husbands to anyone with any level of education. The canadians are pretty smart people and have good education as compared to USA. These hotel servant types are too out classed by other canadian men, husbands of other women. These dominican men can't hold any serious intellectual conversation except baseball. They know nothing about anything in general. They are depending on their wives, have no cash and if they work, they are taxi drivers, janitors, restaurant waiters, security guard or work at a local colmado. These women who have married these types are no charlie angels either. They couldn't find a decent man in canada so they had to settle for these types of men. Now they hold their men at home so he won't embarrass her by speaking to anyone. Remember, people still look strangely at you in north america if they see a white/black couple. They are more likely to be noticed if they live in a all white area. In many cases, the women look like moms of the men in many cases.
I am sure the men are also afraid to go out, drive in city or simply have no cash to spend. These women keep a tight leash on them.
Oh and one more thing: these tigres would cheat on their wives at first opportunity.
AZB

jruane44 · #8 08-13-2008, 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by AZB

What is there not to believe that these men are chained to radiator heaters at home?
First of all, these men are totally uneducated, some were hotel servants, others were motoconcho level workers or just some jobless street tigres. Not one was a lawyer or a doctors, engineer or even a professional office/business type, college degree holder. These guys are all ghetto tigres who were working like slaves in some service field type industry (most likely hotel industry). They know how to speak English and dance well, perform well in bed too, but that's about how far their abilities go. These guys are not trained to hold any type of a respectable job in canada. They have no education and zero knowledge on international level current events. They have no idea where they are on a world map, except they know they are in canada. So naturally the women see their weaknesses and are embarrassed to show their husbands to anyone with any level of education. The canadians are pretty smart people and have good education as compared to USA. These hotel servant types are too out classed by other canadian men, husbands of other women. These dominican men can't hold any serious intellectual conversation except baseball. They know nothing about anything in general. They are depending on their wives, have no cash and if they work, they are taxi drivers, janitors, restaurant waiters, security guard or work at a local colmado. These women who have married these types are no charlie angels either. They couldn't find a decent man in canada so they had to settle for these types of men. Now they hold their men at home so he won't embarrass her by speaking to anyone. Remember, people still look strangely at you in north america if they see a white/black couple. They are more likely to be noticed if they live in a all white area. In many cases, the women look like moms of the men in many cases.
I am sure the men are also afraid to go out, drive in city or simply have no cash to spend. These women keep a tight leash on them.
Oh and one more thing: these tigres would cheat on their wives at first opportunity.
AZB

I couldn't have said it better.

Kyle · #9 08-13-2008, 01:02 PM

this thread should be closed on that point....

Eddy · #10 08-13-2008, 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Kyle

The canadians are pretty smart people and have good education as compared to USA.
you got any facts to back this up ? i'm sure Canada doesnt have any top-ranked colleges or universities that rank higher than the big boys in the USA....

Hey, if AZB says it, it's true. LOL