Let's rescue this one
Let’s get the Defibrillator on this thread before Anna zaps it;
Ladies;
Bringing a Dominican to USA is an arduous, hard, complex and emotionally draining process; the rollercoaster of hell. After the process is complete, your husband arrives to USA and both of you start to face an endless number of conflicts, not only between the 2 of you as a couple, adjusting to domestic life for the first time, but also conflicts between your husband with his new surroundings. There is no colmado around the corner, no carwash to hang around with friends, no putas to“chat““” with etc…. This individual, predator-like, has been uprooted from his natural environment and starts to show signs of “bachata withdrawal”, there is no obvious sweat running through his head, but you start to notice that he’s being a bit “short” with you; the “nice” dancer of Animation Team is no longer the patience teacher that took his time to teach you the right merengue moves; now he’s mad if his dinner is not ready after you arrive from your 9 to 5 job @ Citigroup. He’s upset if you say ‘NO’ to the $300.00 he promised to send to his “prima” and grandmother. Things are not the same as when the 2 of you where together @ Fun Royale in Puerto Plata; Back then, he was the one “dictating” the moves; now, here in USA, you are the one who has to teach him how to fill a job application. The “Natural Balance” that was established in POP is no longer the status quo here ins USA or Canada, here you are the one who has to lead “the pack”, making your Dominican husband feel inferior, useless and powerless.
So, that first flight to POP, looking for a nice, relaxing vacation, ended up with a new “grown up” dependant, who just threw a bottle of Budweiser @ you because you couldn’t find him a cold Presidente..
Ladies, as tflea wisely indicated, have a safe return home, and leave the memories of hot sex in POP, because by the time you are boarding your plane back to Toronto (or Ottawa or Charlotte) Reginio is already working on his next mark.
Saludos
Contasm
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