Adios muchacha! (and some suggestions)

m.met · #1 12-31-2008, 03:00 PM

Dear alls,
keep to reading all threads about relation between a non dominican men and a dominican woman, I finally stopped my relation with the girl I stayed in my two trips (may and august 2008) in the DR.
On a hand I'm really sorry of this, it was not that easy but it was the moment to do it because more you leave the time goes on the more difficult it is. I decided from now to not answer and call never more the girl because I realized that I was going into a very difficult situation, because I was involved too much.

Let me do some final evaluations.
- I think that every word written in this forum is the holy truth and just exists one truth in this kind of relation (non DR man/girl with a DR girl/man)
- Now that I look back everything is as you supposed to be... western union daddy, love for some money, a game to be played even some days of the year and so on..

Just some more suggestions for whom would like to date a dominican girl:
- Don't get involved in her personal problems, like she/he misses work, she/he has one or more child to substain
- Don't trust if she/he helps you in the daily life and keep you out of the danger: that's all their interest and the real danger is the person you think to be in love
BUT
if you want play the game, do it till you are in the DR, give her/him money or love you think is good but at the end of the vacation just thanks and say goodbye.

THIS SUGGESTIONS ARE GIVEN FROM A GUY (ME) WHO WAS REALLY SURE TO HAVE FOUND THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE.
And probably it's the truth... in a dominican style but the meaning of this word can depend from many reasons... most of them you already know if you are usual in this forum.

THANKS TO MY MUM
Who told me: the first two times you f... her, if you return for the third she will know how to f... you!

In my poor english, a rich concept. Hope you got it and agree!

THANKS TO THE FORUM
That I think can be considered a Bible on dating girls in every part of the world that keep an account with the similar spread between pesos/dollars.

Have a nice 2009!

met

Richard Alberto · #2 12-31-2008, 04:19 PM

met, this was a great post. Yes it was understood.

You are 100% right, the more you wait the more harder it becomes and your Mom was right, how hard is it for someone to be on their best behavior for two or three weeks and to know how to sex you completely, it's a rush. But worth it in order to receive money, or marriage or a visa.

You were smart, I know it wasn't easy.