managing multiple girlfriends and living like a playboy

No NonSense · #1 03-03-2009, 02:02 PM

Honesty is the best policy and this is an honest post. I love women and sex and I love women that love sex. And I am not really ashamed to admit. I would like to eventually settle down with one Latina one day preferably a Dominicana since they are some of the most beautiful latinas (not sure if they are better than boricuas thought. maybe about the same) but in the mean time I want to play around alittle with the girls in DR and get the 'playboy' out of me before i settle. My policy is as long as there is an understanding that the relationship is based on sex and a small incentive for the lady then no one gets hurt. I prefer to avoid prefessional sex workers though. just not my style.

The ideal situation would be to have a serious gf with playmates on the side when I can't see my gf. And I understand dominicanos can pull off such things. the question is. How? how does a guy get such an arrangement without offended the real gf.

one idea i had was to have 2 apartments but that seems expensive. so i though maybe see the short term gfs in hotels instead. but than eventually they might want to see your house.

how do you guys do it. come on. i know there are guys here that aren't 100% faithful to their wives or girlfriends and i want to know how you or dominicanos make such arrangements without anyone getting hurt and is it even doable?

Thanks

rubio_higuey · #2 03-03-2009, 02:22 PM

A myriad of cabanas all around the country serve this purpose - in SD go to Doce de Haina or Autopista San Isidro

Bronxboy · #3 03-03-2009, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by No NonSense

how do you guys do it. come on. i know there are guys here that aren't 100% faithful to their wives or girlfriends and i want to know how you or dominicanos make such arrangements without anyone getting hurt and is it even doable?

Thanks

I know of a few married or taken men who rent an apartment between the 3 of them in NY and share the rent . They all have their own bedrooms and phone. This is were they take their unsuspecting woman for fun.

When they are done, they go back to their lives.

Pathetic? Yes, but to each their own!!

carl.r · #4 03-03-2009, 02:46 PM

no nonsense, you want to be a 'player' and you dont know how!!!! stick with one woman, you will never be in the 'major league'

laurajane · #5 03-03-2009, 02:48 PM

Why have a serious girlfriend and then bits on the side, dont get that at all

Just rent a house get a housekeeper to take care of all your domestic needs and then you can bring home a different dominicana whenever you want. I can see a logical reason to want a serious relationship aswell other than having someone to wash the lipstick off your collar!

Nothing wrong with being a Playboy but you cant have a serious girlfriend and be hugh hefenering it up and still expect no one to get hurt!

Then when you find someone you think maybe a keeper, you have sewn all your wild oats and can be a real man and go the distance without the need for all the messing about.

No one gets hurt that way

Bronxboy · #6 03-03-2009, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by laurajane

Why have a serious girlfriend and then bits on the side, dont get that at all

Some of us do not like eating in the same restaurant all the time. lol

laurajane · #7 03-03-2009, 03:02 PM

No, i meant just play around why add the serious girlfriend?

Just get a housekeeper or live with your mum ha ha!

Can still be a hot housekeeper

Bronxboy · #8 03-03-2009, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by laurajane

Can still be a hot housekeeper

With all the fringe benefits?

Hell yes. Where? Where? lol

Tamborista · #9 03-03-2009, 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by laurajane

Can still be a hot housekeeper

Then the house never gets cleaned, remember Seinfeld's housekeeper?

No NonSense · #10 03-03-2009, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by laurajane

Why have a serious girlfriend and then bits on the side, dont get that at all

Just rent a house get a housekeeper to take care of all your domestic needs and then you can bring home a different dominicana whenever you want. I can see a logical reason to want a serious relationship aswell other than having someone to wash the lipstick off your collar!

Nothing wrong with being a Playboy but you cant have a serious girlfriend and be hugh hefenering it up and still expect no one to get hurt!

Then when you find someone you think maybe a keeper, you have sewn all your wild oats and can be a real man and go the distance without the need for all the messing about.

No one gets hurt that way

Some men want to have their cake and eat it darling. I am sure there are many men that have a serious girlfriend and have others on the side. sure it doesn't make sense to you but to some men its needed.