What do well to do Dominicanos look for in Dominicanas

[IslandPrincess]

Originally Posted by Manuel832

Perhaps its just easier to be manly in DR than in places like the US.

would you agree with that?


PS where is your picture?

Not intended to be venomous. Just struck a nerve because I hear this all the time. I think the DR does allow a man to feel manlier, but not necessarily in a healthier way. I suppose it all really depends on who you surround yourself with. Any man who has a heirum of women doting over his every need sexually and otherwise is going to feel more manly, if by manly you mean having total power and control. The DR invokes a primal sense of slavery, which in the end tends to be unfulfilling in the long term for most men that have reached a certain stage of development. In theory everyone wants this...I could only imaging being carried around by a dozen hot shirtless guys fanning me with palm leaves and feeding me grapes, but I am smart enough to know that this is not how I am going to achieve happiness. I dunno...I'm not going to change anyone's mind here, but I can't help but call things as I see them. Because I am pointing about these things does not make me any less of a woman, nor am I any less submissive at home. The DR doesn't have more feminine women, generally it has poorer women who 'need', which allows Predatorious men to take advantage and (fool themselves) think that they have found love, when in actuality they have a paid employee playing a specific role/job. If you think I am wrong, ask if the rich dominican women clean their husbands toenails? When you look for someone weaker than yourself, maybe that makes you feel more manly...but what else does it make you?? (Just a rhetorical question...)

As for my photo....won't be too hard to find if you know where to look....

[AZB]

Originally Posted by AnnaC

Manual what is it that you are looking for? Are you after someone to hopefully spend your life with or someone to play with?

For years now I've heard how well to do Dominicans have to be properly introduced, will never spend the night in a hotel with her lover/boyfriend, so now all these decent well do to Dominicans are to be found on websites for anyone to have a go at? Give me a break. I would think that would bring shame to a well to do Dominican to have their daughter advertising herself.

If you've after sex and only sex you can find that anywhere. Leave the decent girls alone. Sex with a beautiful uneducated girl is no differrent than an educated one unless you're going to parade her around to your friends. So decide what it is you are after first.

If you're a decent guy looking for more than just getting laid you need to spend time in the DR, networking, getting to know people. No one is going to introduce you to their daughter, cousin, friends if you're a well known playboy. You know what I'm saying?

Good luck

Anna, I bet you and i don't surf the same pages. let me tell you this: the majority of college educated girls with computer access do have a webpage here and there example: myspace.com, hi5.com, facebook.com etc. many do venture into badoo.com and tagged.com too. They don't have to talk to guy who is nasty or not suitable for their taste and style. They pick and choose to talk to men just like we men do with women. No one is advertising they want sex or looking for a husband. i bet you never even have looked inside badoo.com page.
\Anna, we are not in 1950's any more. This is the internet age.
AZB

[AZB]

Originally Posted by IslandPrincess

Not intended to be venomous. Just struck a nerve because I hear this all the time.

Oh so if its not true then why do so many men feel this way?
AZB

[IslandPrincess]

Originally Posted by AZB

Oh so if its not true then why do so many men feel this way?
AZB

Honestly it's usually a sign of men in a certain age bracket, that were around when the feminist era hit the states (1950's). Believe it or not More older American women (around my moms age) do project more feminist views, however the later generations have come to accept that men and women are different and women do not have to be LIKE men or lose their beautiful feminine qualities in order to be happy. That's my expert opinion (so yeah...I pretty much just called you "annually challanged")

[SKing]

Originally Posted by AZB

Just ask the same question to a well-to-do american or european who is educated and from a respected family. What do you think he will say? This is exactly how educated dominicans from respected background would say. Nothing is different here.
Lets just say, the women they date are also from similar backgrounds. these women don't have vulgar puta tattoos, they don't have super long vagabunda nails or fake penciled eye brows or talk in trashy fashion. These women act, talk and dress elegantly. they usually have university degrees from PUCMM. They can hold a conversation with you. can eat any food besides yuca and boiled bananas. They speak in a very sweet tone. These are the women who work in banks and other businesses and make good salary. When they are in restaurants, they take their own credit cards out to pay their bills. But why do you worry about them? if you don't know what these well to do dominicans look for in women, then I guess you have no clue what these women actually look like in this country.
Why do you ask?
AZB

Hey, that's me!!! But I didn't graduate from PUCMM
SHALENA

[Berzin]

Originally Posted by IslandPrincess

Honestly it's usually a sign of men in a certain age bracket, that were around when the feminist era hit the states (1950's). Believe it or not More older American women (around my moms age) do project more feminist views, however the later generations have come to accept that men and women are different and women do not have to be LIKE men or lose their beautiful feminine qualities in order to be happy. That's my expert opinion (so yeah...I pretty much just called you "annually challenged")

The feminist era did not hit the states in the 1950s'.

The 1950's was an era of conservative political backlash and anti-Communist resentment. If you don't believe me pick up this book-"The Liberal Mind in a Conservative Age" by Richard H. Pells.

The 60's and 70's was when the so-called "Second Feminist Movement" began to make major political and social waves and focused on gender-based inequality at home and at the workplace.

Your "expert opinion" would be much more expert if it wasn't based on historical innacuracies.

[IslandPrincess]

Originally Posted by Berzin

The feminist era did not hit the states in the 1950s'.

The 1950's was an era of conservative political backlash and anti-Communist resentment. If you don't believe me pick up this book-"The Liberal Mind in a Conservative Age" by Richard H. Pells.

The 60's and 70's was when the so-called "Second Feminist Movement" began to make major political and social waves and focused on gender-based inequality at home and at the workplace.

Your "expert opinion" would be much more expert if it wasn't based on historical innacuracies.

Legacy '98: A Short History of the Movement

'So it's clear that, contrary to common misconception, the Women's Rights Movement did not begin in the 1960s. What occurred in the 1960s was actually a second wave of activism that washed into the public consciousness, fueled by several seemingly independent events of that turbulent decade. Each of these events brought a different segment of the population into the movement.'

The 1950's conservatism extremes sparked the 2nd wave women's movement, but this is not where feminism began Although the supreme court cases were open in the 50's, the 1st legal crusade was in '61, so I suppose technically you are right. LOL not here to battle out timelines, but the point is still valid. Actually this is quite a boring addition to this formerly interesting post. WWWWWAAAAAYYYYY off topic...

As I said before...I am not a feminist

[Manuel832]

Originally Posted by IslandPrincess

Not intended to be venomous. Just struck a nerve because I hear this all the time. I think the DR does allow a man to feel manlier, but not necessarily in a healthier way. I suppose it all really depends on who you surround yourself with. Any man who has a heirum of women doting over his every need sexually and otherwise is going to feel more manly, if by manly you mean having total power and control.

Agreed

The DR invokes a primal sense of slavery, which in the end tends to be unfulfilling in the long term for most men that have reached a certain stage of development. In theory everyone wants this...I could only imaging being carried around by a dozen hot shirtless guys fanning me with palm leaves and feeding me grapes, but I am smart enough to know that this is not how I am going to achieve happiness.

Agreed and i found the bit about the grapes funny.

I dunno...I'm not going to change anyone's mind here, but I can't help but call things as I see them. Because I am pointing about these things does not make me any less of a woman, nor am I any less submissive at home.

OK

The DR doesn't have more feminine women, generally it has poorer women who 'need', which allows Predatorious men to take advantage and (fool themselves) think that they have found love, when in actuality they have a paid employee playing a specific role/job. If you think I am wrong, ask if the rich dominican women clean their husbands toenails?

First things first. I am not looking for a poor woman. And there are many men like me that want a educated woman from a good home with the old fashioned or traditional type setting. I may never find what my parents had since the world have change so much since in their day. But they are happy.

And for the bit i highlighted in bold. i don't think anyone in this day and age men gets this kind of treatment. No matter what class he is in. I doubt even women in the working classes do this. except maybe in the Islamic world. But if she is comfortable to do so for her husband, provided he loves and respects her, then is she weak? and if he likes taking her on wild shopping sprees or perhaps rubbing her feet when she is exhausted does that make him "whipped"? Just a question

When you look for someone weaker than yourself, maybe that makes you feel more manly...but what else does it make you?? (Just a rhetorical question...)

I am looking for someone perhaps wise enough to understand out differing roles.

As for my photo....won't be too hard to find if you know where to look....

i haven't a clue. Perhaps you can point me in the right direction or pm me. thanks

[IslandPrincess]

Originally Posted by Manuel832

Agreed



First things first. I am not looking for a poor woman. And there are many men like me that want a educated woman from a good home with the old fashioned or traditional type setting. I may never find what my parents had since the world have change so much since in their day. But they are happy.

And for the bit i highlighted in bold. i don't think anyone in this day and age men gets this kind of treatment. No matter what class he is in. I doubt even women in the working classes do this. except maybe in the Islamic world. But if she is comfortable to do so for her husband, provided he loves and respects her, then is she weak? and if he likes taking her on wild shopping sprees or perhaps rubbing her feet when she is exhausted does that make him "whipped"? Just a question

I am looking for someone perhaps wise enough to understand out differing roles.

i haven't a clue. Perhaps you can point me in the right direction or pm me. thanks

I actually understand and agree with all of what you are saying and looking for and it sounds like it shouldn't be too hard to find. But these quality girls in the DR you need to meet in a 'normal' setting such as work, or a dinner out with friends. These more intelligent girls aren't in the Disco's, They are definitely not on the streets or in 'Passions' (or like places) not looking for hook ups on the Internet (although they may have a myspace or facebook, will not respond to unknown individual's Messages). I would steer clear of AZB's Advice though as I am pretty sure based on some previous posts he has girls cleaning his toenails for less than minimum wage...Yikes!

As for the photos...I am amazing that people are still asking me for that, but if you must know....go to the DR1 Members directory and I have a few posted there.

[Manuel832]

Originally Posted by IslandPrincess

I actually understand and agree with all of what you are saying and looking for and it sounds like it shouldn't be too hard to find. But these quality girls in the DR you need to meet in a 'normal' setting such as work, or a dinner out with friends. These more intelligent girls aren't in the Disco's, They are definitely not on the streets or in 'Passions' (or like places) not looking for hook ups on the Internet (although they may have a myspace or facebook, will not respond to unknown individual's Messages). I would steer clear of AZB's Advice though as I am pretty sure based on some previous posts he has girls cleaning his toenails for less than minimum wage...Yikes!

Thanks

As for the photos...I am amazing that people are still asking me for that, but if you must know....go to the DR1 Members directory and I have a few posted there.

I saw the pic. Very impressive and you are quite attractive. Blonde hair, blue eyes, tight bod. Very aryan looking. I am sure you never find rest with all those dominicanos trying to charm you with their sweet words. To them you are exotic.