In defense of the Barrio Chopas and others - Page 3

No NonSense · #21 04-01-2009, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by liam1

I think the OP is asking why are those girls more attracted to the barrio bum who can not and does not want to help the girl in any way other than sexually, then to the gringo who is responsible, educated, financially stable and so on. What the gringo is doing wrong is simply being too nice and in turn he is looked upon as a loser who can't get any wherever it is he came from. I think those girls know they are nothing special but also they know that the gringo can not do any better than them, because if he could then he wouldn't be with them in the first place. The best thing you can do is turn the tables on them, you use them for sex and fun, along the way spend a few bucks on her, but only WHEN SHE IS WITH YOU, don't let her take any of your money with her. If you are together pay her the most expensive dinner and vine, but don't give her one peso to take home. When upon return to the barrio the tiguere sees she's back empty handed he won't be that happy to see her. Then it's only you who's giving her any attention, and she'll be glad to see you every time. Either that or she will, at the tiguere's instructions, go looking for someone dumb to bleed dry. Win-win for you.

Thanks Liam1. we are both on the same page. i just couldn't get it. the good news is that due to my experience in other 3rd world countries i could see the scemes coming miles away.

I just hate losing to the other AM (alpha-male). I know you can't always win but you can at least draw. way thanks for the post. Maybe us gringos should to become the tigres and poslish them up abit and make em abit more lady like

Berzin · #22 04-01-2009, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by No NonSense

I just hate losing to the other AM (alpha-male). I know you can't always win but you can at least draw. way thanks for the post. Maybe us gringos should to become the tigres and polish them up a bit and make them a bit more lady like

What exactly would you be losing, and is it really a loss? If this alpha-male competition is ego-driven, then expect to wallow in their mud. They will bring you down to their level, you will not bring them up to yours.

If this is where you want to be, then fine. But don't expect anyone here to share your enthusiasm or applaud your efforts. They seem misguided to say the least.

No NonSense · #23 04-01-2009, 05:14 PM

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Originally Posted by rsg

thats the thing i cant understand. Why the newbies come down here and feel that they need to do so much, and give so much to keep one of these bario chicas. There is nothing wrong if a guy enjoys that type of company,[probably the only kind he can get] but they need to realize that there is no reason to buy it and pay a weekly western union payment on it when they can just come down and pay a small rental fee when they are here. Rent it, enjoy it, then turn it back in with no more money due to the bario she came from..

Exactly. Thanks rsg and DR1 (or robert).

I learned a similar lesson when i was sending my girlfriend in the philipines money for her "sick son or sick mother or eleectricity bills" etc etc. only to find out she bought a car and managed to get a house before i returned. but i should be thanking her because i learned a lesson.

"why do we fall, so we can learn to pick ourselves up".

do the minimum and let them please you. not the other way around. and you can be the alpha male to them over their tigres.

No NonSense · #24 04-01-2009, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Berzin

What exactly would you be losing, and is it really a loss?

The Benjamin's in my pocket and the fact the my wallet will seem ever so lighter. i just hate acting as a bank to someone else.

tht · #25 04-01-2009, 05:44 PM

Leave the Barrio Rats a.k.a. Barrio Chopas, Chopas de la Playa, Ratones, Queros etc. etc. etc. alone and enjoy the sun and have some seafood, have a beer.

Bronxboy · #26 04-01-2009, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by tht

enjoy the sun and have some seafood, have a beer.

malikp · #27 04-23-2009, 07:23 PM

i date hood girls cause there's no strings attached. I'm a bachelor now and I intend to stay that way till I find a good girl. But I dont take the ones I've dated seriously. I know they're cueros and are gonna cheat on me the same way I do to them.

badpiece33 · #28 04-24-2009, 03:15 AM

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Originally Posted by MrMike

OK I have to remind myself to unsubscribe from this thread since it is going to be long and pointless.

But my two cents: the problem with barrio girls is that "love" or whatever is not a matter of the heart or a pass time for them, but a matter of survival. so their priorities are going to be very different and the chances of having a meaningful relationship where one partner isnt just being used are pretty slim.

And if one partner IS just being used, its going to be the gringo. Sorry, but you are not gonna beat these b!tches at their own game. Besides, they are playing for keeps and you are just passing through.

Hillbilly's 3 rules (sorry no time to make a link) are perfect for evaluating mixed relationships.

Right on point Mr Mike!!!

badpiece33 · #29 04-24-2009, 03:20 AM

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Originally Posted by liam1

I think the OP is asking why are those girls more attracted to the barrio bum who can not and does not want to help the girl in any way other than sexually, then to the gringo who is responsible, educated, financially stable and so on. What the gringo is doing wrong is simply being too nice and in turn he is looked upon as a loser who can't get any wherever it is he came from. I think those girls know they are nothing special but also they know that the gringo can not do any better than them, because if he could then he wouldn't be with them in the first place. The best thing you can do is turn the tables on them, you use them for sex and fun, along the way spend a few bucks on her, but only WHEN SHE IS WITH YOU, don't let her take any of your money with her. If you are together pay her the most expensive dinner and vine, but don't give her one peso to take home. When upon return to the barrio the tiguere sees she's back empty handed he won't be that happy to see her. Then it's only you who's giving her any attention, and she'll be glad to see you every time. Either that or she will, at the tiguere's instructions, go looking for someone dumb to bleed dry. Win-win for you.

This should be a made a sticky. Well Said Liam

pyratt · #30 04-24-2009, 10:04 AM

Don't give them ANYTHING you don't wish to lose...understand nothing you do is for "keeps". There's nothing wrong with being nice and treating "them" to the lifestyle to which you've become acustomed to (nice dinners, drinks, fun while you're there)...but don't feel like you HAVE TO do anything.

The most fun one can have is to watch the games "they play" while trying to figure out yours....