Dominican women and cheating - Page 4

badpiece33 · #31 06-25-2009, 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Thandie

LOL! Those are some of the exact things I overheard in the ladies locker room at my gym. I thought wow if these husbands ever heard what their wives were saying...yikes!
One woman even said that she was so turned off sexually and bored with her husband and his out of shape body that she would bring their toddler into the bed to sleep with them so she could have an excuse not to be intimate.

Some men are delusional when they think/say women dont really care about their appearance (beer belly, balding, unattractive) and its their smashing personality and humour that is more important.
hahaha ok if that is what they want to believe. As if women dont love and prefer a six pack, tight buns and a guy who really knows what he is doing. I guess that is why you see more and more older women with younger guys nowadays.
We are physical/visual beings too. We want sexy too!

Some men need to hit the gym and step it up in the bedroom cause their wives are probably more bored then they are.

So basiclly what your saying is you get your Sanky and I will get one for me!!!! See very good relationship Works for everyone

badpiece33 · #32 06-25-2009, 12:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Vacara

I'm not an expert in this field but let me use some logic to give a rational, critically thought, well thought out response.

- DR is a poor country with high unemployment, typically women are hit the hardest in tough economic environment so they would sacrifice some happiness for some financial security.How is the woman hit harder than the male in tough economic times if they are living together as a family????

- Women lag behind men in education (in DR), it is typical in DR a woman would sacrifice, work a couple of shift, help the guy with college assignment so he can get his degree, once that happens she will find herself in the condition described above. Also in DR men encourage women not to seek jobs and stay home with the kids.I would suggest that you take a walk through UTESA,PUCCM, or any other university in the DR, I think you will probably see more women than men in the universities, I would like to see Hillbillys opinion on this.

- Lack of proper family planning, once a girl has a baby (or babies!!!) it is hard for her to break the cycle of dependency, even if the marital condition warrant it.Very True, No family planning for the most part.

- It is deeply embedded in Dominican culture men will get lot of women, since they are babies everybody tell them "tu va' tene' muchisimas novias". Women on the other hand can hardly afford to look promiscuous, once that line is crossed she will be forever "esa cuero 'el diablo, maldita puta vagamunda"I will agree with that statement.

- Dominicans are deeply religious, Christianity (especially Catholicism) teach people to avoid at all cost to break the marriage. It also teaches "not to pay attention to suffering in this world but to focus instead in the afterlife", that is an explosive combination that expels doom for the weakest link at home.If Dominicans are so religious, Doesnt the Catholic church teach that premaritual sex is a sin!!! Doesnt seem to be slowing anyone down in DR.

I had a female friend married to a well to do engineer. The had three kids. The guy was two timing her badly, sleeping outside, coming home in the morning etc, but she never broke up cuz her family (and his family too!!!) encourage her to "hold on to god cuz he was going to fix her marriage", and hold on she did, for like 10 long years until one day he walked out the door and moved with his mistress. I guess god can't do everything.

People stay in relationships beccause they want too, All the advise we could give people goes right out the window. People will stay or leave because that is what they want to do and thats it.

Thandie · #33 06-25-2009, 01:03 AM

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Originally Posted by badpiece33

So basiclly what your saying is you get your Sanky and I will get one for me!!!!

Thankfully I dont have to travel to a 3rd world country to get a young, goodlooking, buff guy. There are plenty of those here in downtown Toronto to choose from, who are also highly educated and successful and we have a lot more in common. Dominican men are not my type anyways.
But I am sure you love the vast 'choices' you have in comparison to what you can hook back home

But dont worry young, sexy Dominican college students want you because they are dazzled by your great personality and sense of humour that they could see from across the room! lol

À bientôt · #34 06-25-2009, 07:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Thandie

Thankfully I dont have to travel to a 3rd world country to get a young, goodlooking, buff guy. There are plenty of those here in downtown Toronto to choose from, who are also highly educated and successful and we have a lot more in common. Dominican men are not my type anyways.
But I am sure you love the vast 'choices' you have in comparison to what you can hook back home

But dont worry young, sexy Dominican college students want you because they are dazzled by your great personality and sense of humour that they could see from across the room! lol

But if I said you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?

Lambada · #35 06-25-2009, 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by À bientôt

But if I said you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?

Gosh the old lines are the best - last time I got asked that in public by a stranger was the student hustings for the position of Woman Vice President when I was 19. I'm now 66

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For those wondering why men or women stay with partners who 'stray' - well maybe it isn't important enough to make a fuss about or.......maybe they're planning something really spectacular like Ruth Ellis, the last woman to be hung in UK in the 1950's or more recently this lady:
Spurned wife laced cheating husband's fruitcake with rat poison | Mail Online

catcherintherye · #36 06-25-2009, 04:04 PM

With such a subtle warning, I doubt Grahame strays too far.

It only goes to show, if the woman in the relationship doesn't want, appreciate or condone the practice, it simply won't happen, and if it does happen, there will be repercussions, and it will only happen once.

G5ive · #37 06-25-2009, 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by badpiece33

People stay in relationships beccause they want too, All the advise we could give people goes right out the window. People will stay or leave because that is what they want to do and thats it.

Exactly, people will always do what ever they please.

badpiece33 · #38 06-26-2009, 01:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Thandie

Thankfully I dont have to travel to a 3rd world country to get a young, goodlooking, buff guy. There are plenty of those here in downtown Toronto to choose from, who are also highly educated and successful and we have a lot more in common. Dominican men are not my type anyways.
But I am sure you love the vast 'choices' you have in comparison to what you can hook back home

But dont worry young, sexy Dominican college students want you because they are dazzled by your great personality and sense of humour that they could see from across the room! lol

Ahhhh Thandie always nice to see your personal attacks, What happened you couldn't find your sanky in Puerto Plata and had to move back to Canada so now you are a bitter woman taking pot shots at anyone who doesn't share your same opinions? Can you simply disagree without a personal attack? And also I would like you to know I can and do pull some hot women in NY also and believe it or not I don't have to pay for them!! Guess they can see the great personality from across the room because they are not angry and bitter.

Vacara · #39 06-26-2009, 02:02 AM

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Originally Posted by badpiece33

- DR is a poor country with high unemployment, typically women are hit the hardest in tough economic environment so they would sacrifice some happiness for some financial security.How is the woman hit harder than the male in tough economic times if they are living together as a family????

Badpiece relax, sit down and take a careful look at the silliness you just wrote. This is the kind of post that can get you a bad reputation in a forum, from today on, as far as I'm concerned there's an asterisk above your nick.

badpiece33 · #40 06-26-2009, 02:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Vacara

Badpiece relax, sit down and take a careful look at the silliness you just wrote. This is the kind of post that can get you a bad reputation in a forum, from today on, as far as I'm concerned there's an asterisk above your nick.

Ok,Explain to me why the woman is hit harder in these times of an economic downturn. The men are not affected almost the same?
Please explain it to me I am not trying too be facetious.

I don't mind the asterisk.