advice on how to find out if your woman is cheating on you

[Thandie]

Originally Posted by AZB

Folks, the truth is, guys like badpiece have been dating and bedding girls in DR who have serious boyfriends in USA and in other countries. I have yet to see badpiece strike out with any of these girls. He knows exactly what types of girls foreigners date and where these girls come from. he sits and waits like a crocodile and then when his opportunity arises he catches them. AZB

Oh well if that is the 'class' and type of women he dates and goes after...that explains alot.

[Berzin]

Originally Posted by Thandie

Oh well if that is the 'class' and type of women he dates and goes after...that explains alot.

Some people, men AND women, don't live a pre-approved lifestyle according to your precepts. That's just too bad, isn't it?

I got a newsflash for you-any guy going to the DR and looking for that "true love" is seen as a sucker who deserves the cuerno his girlfriend gives him.

So you either adapt or you get fleeced and ridiculed.

The only people who have a problem with this are the judgmental hypocrites who don't like having sex and don't want anyone else to have fun, either.

As for "class and type", infidelity and promiscuity are not practices exclusive to the morally depraved and is not and should not be the only quality with which someone is judged.

The fact that you are so judgmental says more about you than it does about the person you are unfairly criticizing.

[Thandie]

Originally Posted by Berzin

Some people, men AND women, don't live a pre-approved lifestyle according to your precepts. That's just too bad, isn't it?

I got a newsflash for you-any guy going to the DR and looking for that "true love" is seen as a sucker who deserves the cuerno his girlfriend gives him.

So you either adapt or you get fleeced and ridiculed.

The only people who have a problem with this are the judgmental hypocrites who don't like having sex and don't want anyone else to have fun, either.

Oh Berzin, Berzin, Berzin,

Where did I ever say he has to live a lifestyle approved by me? Give me a break.
What are people not allowed or expected to make comments and share their opinions? This is not his private living room.
He is free to live however he wants and frequently post about his 'lifestyle' on a public website, and I am free to comment as well!
And if you dont like my comments about his lifestyle well...that's just too bad, isn't it?

My point is if you feel the need to tell the world about your private life on the WWW, be honest and call a spade a spade...like Augustus. As I said I dont have a problem with the game he plays because he is upfront and honest about it. I can respect that. Dont sugar coat what you are really doing.

This 'Oh I date the young, hot, educated, employed, classy, respectable Dominican women from good families who are not with me for my money...I dont deal with the low class barrio putas' BUT then go on to say these same 'classy' woman will carry on like the typical barrio putas, who will date his friends and sleep with him on the way home from the airport?
Are you kidding me? In image conscious, everybody sees everything and talks about everything Dominican Republic? hahaha

I was nervous when I had a male friend come to my house in POP after dark, worried what my nosey landlord and neighbours would think... and he was only helping me take my tank for the stove to the station to be filled up. lol

None of my classy and respectable DR girlfriends behave in that manner.
They have a reputation to uphold and maintain, and dont want to be viewed as that 'loose' girl light.

Lastly, actually it is judgemental for you to say that the only people who have a problem with it are prudes who dont like sex. Comical! Not everyone with that opinion is an old, fat, ugly asexual prude. I know that is the perception of some on this board. Typical response lol!

[BushBaby]

Originally Posted by Berzin

Some people, men AND women, don't live a pre-approved lifestyle according to your precepts. That's just too bad, isn't it?

That's a bit 'Judgemental' isn't it?

Originally Posted by Berzin

I got a newsflash for you-any guy going to the DR and looking for that "true love" is seen as a sucker who deserves the cuerno his girlfriend gives him.

That's a bit 'Judgmental' isn't it?

Originally Posted by Berzin

So you either adapt or you get fleeced and ridiculed.

That's a bit 'Judgmental' isn't it?

Originally Posted by Berzin

The only people who have a problem with this are the judgmental hypocrites who don't like having sex and don't want anyone else to have fun, either.

That's a bit 'Judgmental' isn't it?

Originally Posted by Berzin

As for "class and type", infidelity and promiscuity are not practices exclusive to the morally depraved and is not and should not be the only quality with which someone is judged.

That's a bit 'Judgmental' isn't it?

Originally Posted by Berzin

The fact that you are so judgmental says more about you than it does about the person you are unfairly criticizing.

That's a bit 'Judgmental' isn't it?

Just trying to keep the image of being a 'Royal Pain' .........

Getting back to the OPs question ..... unless you have someone you truly trust to give you honest responses, your best bet is to come down unannounced some time & check her out for yourself! There have been other posts on tis subject & I don't believe ANY of them have come up with a Private Investigator who has proven him/herself worth the money required (with due acknowledgment to the 2nd or 3rd poster who I accept did not ask for money!!) ~ Grahame.

[Berzin]

Thandie-you are mistaking what people are SEEN doing and what they actually do.

Pull away the veneer and you will see a society that isn't really all that hung up on sex.

So if you wanted to stay a prude you can always relocate to the US, because good girls from good families like sex just like any barrio chica, and the ones who are casual about dating don't necessarily let the world see them do what they do-that doesn't mean they do not sleep around and it doesn't mean they are bad people for doing it.

Bushbaby-you never cease to amaze me. They can do anything in the DR, even teach a mummy how to use a computer keyboard...

[badpiece33]

Originally Posted by AZB

its hard not to ;listen to guys like badpiece. Folks, the truth is, guys like badpiece have been dating and bedding girls in DR who have serious boyfriends in USA and in other countries. I have yet to see badpiece strike out with any of these girls. He knows exactly what types of girls foreigners date and where these girls come from. he sits and waits like a crocodile and then when his opportunity arises he catches them. One of his hottest pickup spots is, airport. Hehehehe. yes when the boyfriends go away, he gives the girls a ride back, but often times the girls never reach their own homes; most likely a motel. Hahahahaha. he has done this several times. He would give foreign guys a ride to airport along with the guy's girlfriend. Then when the guy is gone, the girl goes to bed with badpiece.
Oh boy so much to add and so little time. Now I have a feeling badpiece will drown me in sosua beach for giving away his tricks. But but, I have a feeling this cabron has done a few of mine as well. No wonder he always wants to know my departure dates of my trips to USA. Ummmm.
just like to say, the guy has been on the front line for a long time. so listen to him,
AZB

Wow, that was pretty bad AZB, I havent been like that in some time.I can't believe you just let the genie out of the bottle and told all the secrets that I have learned from you over the years.

[badpiece33]

Well, Im off do DR tommorow morning so if any of you guys need me to drop you off at the airport, no problem I will even invite your girlfriend along for a tearful farewell.I will make sure they get home safe and sound.

[Thandie]

Originally Posted by badpiece33

Wow, that was pretty bad AZB, I havent been like that in some time.I can't believe you just let the genie out of the bottle and told all the secrets that I have learned from you over the years.

Haha, your friend did throw you under the bus! He let it all out lol.
Good to know you have changed now, just like I "hope" he has too.
But dont worry I believe you when you say that Prof. Azb has schooled you and many a gringo men how to 'treat' the lovely ladies of the DR.

[À bientôt]

Originally Posted by Berzin

The only people who have a problem with this are the judgmental hypocrites who don't like having sex and don't want anyone else to have fun, either.
.

Pot, meet Kettle.

[pyratt]

Originally Posted by AZB

its hard not to ;listen to guys like badpiece. Folks, the truth is, guys like badpiece have been dating and bedding girls in DR who have serious boyfriends in USA and in other countries. I have yet to see badpiece strike out with any of these girls. He knows exactly what types of girls foreigners date and where these girls come from. he sits and waits like a crocodile and then when his opportunity arises he catches them. One of his hottest pickup spots is, airport. Hehehehe. yes when the boyfriends go away, he gives the girls a ride back, but often times the girls never reach their own homes; most likely a motel. Hahahahaha. he has done this several times. He would give foreign guys a ride to airport along with the guy's girlfriend. Then when the guy is gone, the girl goes to bed with badpiece.
Oh boy so much to add and so little time. Now I have a feeling badpiece will drown me in sosua beach for giving away his tricks. But but, I have a feeling this cabron has done a few of mine as well. No wonder he always wants to know my departure dates of my trips to USA. Ummmm.
just like to say, the guy has been on the front line for a long time. so listen to him,
AZB

Where do you come up with this stuff...I got a good laugh out of that