advice on how to find out if your woman is cheating on you

[loublakk]

Hello all I'm new to this site.
My question is simply this: are there any resources available or even advise as to how to find out if your girl is cheating on you. i live in new york and she lives in santiago so it's hard (with all the stories i've heard) to know if she is being faithful with me as i am being with her. i thought maybe there might be private investigators in D.R..... any info will be greatly appreciated.

[badpiece33]

How often do you go too DR? Do you speak spanish or does she speak English fluently? How old are you? Her? Does she work? study? do nothing? How long have you known her? Whewre did you meet? Let me know some of these questions and I will be able to answer more intelligently.

[peteclaffey]

And give him your opinion ?

[catcherintherye]

The questions that Badpiece asked are a great way for you to start. Perhaps by answering them you can reach your own conclusion. It will certainly help you to define your relationship more clearly.

As a general rule, if you haven't known each other for several years and established a mutually beneficial and close relationship, and you don't share similar backgrounds and cultures, then I think hiring a private investigator would be a waste of money, and that you would be unhappy with the results of the investigation.

[pas]

is she a hottie....
well thennn
just give badpiece her adress and nummer....
he will find out for you.....!!!

[Hillbilly]

Let me help you.

If you met this young lady at any place other than a family affair, church social or school;
If you put your one-eyed-monk in her jade garden;
If you have sent any money;

then yes, she is not being 'faithful' beyond the fact that she will be "faithful" to you when you come down here.

there is a Dominican saying (actually it is pretty universal): Amores de lejos son amores pendejos.

don't get all hot and bothered....There are plenty of fish...

HB

[pyratt]

Originally Posted by loublakk

advise as to how to find out if your girl is cheating.

it's hard (with all the stories i've heard) to know if she is being faithful with me as i am being with her.

My .02 to the first part: Yes, resources available, and she probably "is".

My .02 to the second part: She's probably not.

[Celt202]

Originally Posted by Hillbilly

........there is a Dominican saying (actually it is pretty universal): Amores de lejos son amores pendejos.
don't get all hot and bothered....There are plenty of fish...

HB

Coffee out my nose!

[Thandie]

Originally Posted by pas

is she a hottie....
well thennn
just give badpiece her adress and nummer....
he will find out for you.....!!!

Yes...Bad'piece Pirate of the Dominican 'booty' to the rescue.

See Bad'piece your expertise in this area, is so well known on the board.

Dont stop talking about your 'skills'. Your becoming famous....playa, playa!

I see a Learning Annex seminar in your future... Think the Tom Cruises' character in the movie Magnolia.

[catcherintherye]

You seem to be obsessing, Thanie.

Time to move beyond whatever personal issues you have with Badpiece and focus on the questions asked in the original post.

Is this love?