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[frank recktenwald]

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Originally Posted by badpiece33 View Post
Anna I never posted about what I once heard, I posted real life experience of what goes on in DR. If these people want to keep their heads in the sand thats on them,but at least let them see the information and make an informed decision. This poor woman is ready to quit her job in Canada and possibly ruin her life and you delete a very true and real life experience, not something I heard from someone else. So why not let it be? it was on topic and totally DR related and I wasn't demeaning to anyone or rude to anyone? Let me know are you now the PC police? Why delete RSG's post also?????
I've always been the PC police

Telling hundreds of stories of what happened to OTHERS does not help anyone, never has! If it didn't happen to you personally I don't want it used as advice.
You need to pick better ways to give advice and if the person still wants to do what they want then it's up to them. Like I've said a million times, you can tell someone the stove is hot but until they touch it they don't know what hot is. Hammering does not work.

If she wants to quit her job and move, that's the best thing she can do. She's young, she can get another job and she gets to know the guy better this way.


I think there is enough advice in this thread for her to decide what she wants to do,

Good luck

It´s a shame you closed the thread because I wanted to comment something about what you said.
I don´t know Badpiece personally but from the posts I´ve read I can see that he has common sense and that he knows the game, he´s a player.
My personal opinion is that somebody learns more from somebody who has game than from somebody who got burnt and is frustrated about it.
People that get burnt have no game and will screw up most of the time because they´re amateurs.
To give you an example there´s an Italian guy here in JD, arrived the first time here about 6 weeks ago for 2 weeks, fell in lust with this not so bad looking and at first sight a very charming Haitian woman. She started with the same lines, my mother is sick etc etc. The guy forking over money and even had to e-mail his mom to wire some more, he still lives with his mom and is approx 35 years old.
He´s back again now for a month, sold his race bike in Italy and he spents most of the day in the room knocking boots, reckon that he hardly ever got his rocks off in Italy.
He wants to marry her and start a live here in the DR, the guy is on cloud 9 and lost all common sense and is the laughing stock of the area now.
He´s on the road to get burnt and how do I know that? She´s hitting on me!! She knows that I have a wife and a family, she even knows them. She´s not after me for the money, don´t have any, she even paid my breakfast the other day because I was playing her, the money she got from the Italian.
To make a long story short I personally want to learn from people who wrote the book not from the ones that can´t even "read"

[AnnaC]

Frank I understand that you are married to a Dominicana right? If not then there's no point to this.

If I had hammered you with all the sad stories of what happens to "guys I know or HEARD of" would that have stopped you from getting married? How would you feel that just because we know people that married sankiettes we would tell you that more than likely your woman is a sankiette too? According to some people here if and Dominican is interested in a foreigner than she must be a sankiette, barrio chopa etc.

Isn't it up to you to figure out who you are with? I see no point in telling horror stories to convince others.

How many posts do you need to post in a thread after the OP is long gone?

[frank recktenwald]

Originally Posted by AnnaC

Frank I understand that you are married to a Dominicana right? If not then there's no point to this.

If I had hammered you with all the sad stories of what happens to "guys I know or HEARD of" would that have stopped you from getting married? How would you feel that just because we know people that married sankiettes we would tell you that more than likely your woman is a sankiette too? According to some people here if and Dominican is interested in a foreigner than she must be a sankiette, barrio chopa etc.

Isn't it up to you to figure out who you are with? I see no point in telling horror stories to convince others.

How many posts do you need to post in a thread after the OP is long gone?

First of all I´m not married with her on paper and yes she´s Dominican, we´ve been together 7 years, which is almost the same as being married, living in Costa Rica, Panama and now in the DR and we have a daughter together.
To be honest with you I don´t care what people think nor what they say, I´m old school and have known the game for almost 30 years, I could be with the biggest ho and wrap her around my finger. I control the situation no matter with who I am.
The society here is a dog eat dog society and one has to adapt to it in order to survive.
Of course it´s up to the person to decide with whom they are but keep both feet on the ground which most don´t do and that´s when the problems start.
What I´m trying to say is when one wants to learn boxing learn from a boxer who wins not from one who gets knocked out all the time.
Do agree that the experiences of people who got burnt can help, they can tell what happens when you don´t have your eyes open but comments such as from Badpiece will tell you how to control the situation which will help you to become a stronger person therefore controlling your destiny.

[badpiece33]

{/Quote}It´s a shame you closed the thread because I wanted to comment something about what you said.
I don´t know Badpiece personally but from the posts I´ve read I can see that he has common sense and that he knows the game, he´s a player.
My personal opinion is that somebody learns more from somebody who has game than from somebody who got burnt and is frustrated about it.
People that get burnt have no game and will screw up most of the time because they´re amateurs.
To give you an example there´s an Italian guy here in JD, arrived the first time here about 6 weeks ago for 2 weeks, fell in lust with this not so bad looking and at first sight a very charming Haitian woman. She started with the same lines, my mother is sick etc etc. The guy forking over money and even had to e-mail his mom to wire some more, he still lives with his mom and is approx 35 years old.
He´s back again now for a month, sold his race bike in Italy and he spents most of the day in the room knocking boots, reckon that he hardly ever got his rocks off in Italy.
He wants to marry her and start a live here in the DR, the guy is on cloud 9 and lost all common sense and is the laughing stock of the area now.
He´s on the road to get burnt and how do I know that? She´s hitting on me!! She knows that I have a wife and a family, she even knows them. She´s not after me for the money, don´t have any, she even paid my breakfast the other day because I was playing her, the money she got from the Italian.
To make a long story short I personally want to learn from people who wrote the book not from the ones that can´t even "read"[/QUOTE]

Frank, Anna is 100% right you cant do anything for him.
If he wants to quit his job,sell his race bike and move, that's the best thing he can do. He's young, he can get another job and he gets to know the gal better this way.
Why should we give people advise on what we personally see with our own eyes, when we can read post after post of others who have gotten burned and all they can offer each other is support,not good sound advice as to what is going on when they are not there. Frank who are you and I to put our 2 cents out here on this board? When we can listen to advice from people who goto DR once or twice a year and think they know whats up. You live in Juan Dolio and I am in Sosua 10 days a month, so who do we think we are trying to show some real insight as to what is really going on.

[AnnaC]

Originally Posted by frank recktenwald

To be honest with you I don´t care what people think nor what they say,

Exactly my point Frank, thank you

It wasn't Badpiece's advice that I deleted but his telling of someone else's story followed by others with same.

Like I said, you need to find a better way to give advice than telling other people's horror stories. It's now one of MY rules. I know you guys can do it because I've seen it before.

[frank recktenwald]

Originally Posted by badpiece33

{/Quote}It´s a shame you closed the thread because I wanted to comment something about what you said.
I don´t know Badpiece personally but from the posts I´ve read I can see that he has common sense and that he knows the game, he´s a player.
My personal opinion is that somebody learns more from somebody who has game than from somebody who got burnt and is frustrated about it.
People that get burnt have no game and will screw up most of the time because they´re amateurs.
To give you an example there´s an Italian guy here in JD, arrived the first time here about 6 weeks ago for 2 weeks, fell in lust with this not so bad looking and at first sight a very charming Haitian woman. She started with the same lines, my mother is sick etc etc. The guy forking over money and even had to e-mail his mom to wire some more, he still lives with his mom and is approx 35 years old.
He´s back again now for a month, sold his race bike in Italy and he spents most of the day in the room knocking boots, reckon that he hardly ever got his rocks off in Italy.
He wants to marry her and start a live here in the DR, the guy is on cloud 9 and lost all common sense and is the laughing stock of the area now.
He´s on the road to get burnt and how do I know that? She´s hitting on me!! She knows that I have a wife and a family, she even knows them. She´s not after me for the money, don´t have any, she even paid my breakfast the other day because I was playing her, the money she got from the Italian.
To make a long story short I personally want to learn from people who wrote the book not from the ones that can´t even "read"

Frank, Anna is 100% right you cant do anything for him.
If he wants to quit his job,sell his race bike and move, that's the best thing he can do. He's young, he can get another job and he gets to know the gal better this way.
Why should we give people advise on what we personally see with our own eyes, when we can read post after post of others who have gotten burned and all they can offer each other is support,not good sound advice as to what is going on when they are not there. Frank who are you and I to put our 2 cents out here on this board? When we can listen to advice from people who goto DR once or twice a year and think they know whats up. You live in Juan Dolio and I am in Sosua 10 days a month, so who do we think we are trying to show some real insight as to what is really going on.[/QUOTE]

Do agree that I can´t do anything for him, don´t want to either why should I, I´ve got enough problems of my own besides that I paid my dues have him pay his.
Badpiece keep up the good work, spread the word and maybe someone will learn something

[AnnaC]

How about a short lesson on how to use the quote button while we are here


When you quote someone do not remove the beginning or ending of these words [....quote] and [...../quote]

I had to add dots so you can see it

[frank recktenwald]

Originally Posted by AnnaC

How about a short lesson on how to use the quote button while we are here


When you quote someone do not remove the beginning or ending of these words [....quote] and [...../quote]

I had to add dots so you can see it

Sorry if I did something wrong, still have to take the course "how to write on a forum"

[AnnaC]

Originally Posted by frank recktenwald

Sorry if I did something wrong, still have to take the course "how to write on a forum"

No problem Frank. Thought I'd add something useful here for future quoting

[Hillbilly]

What is that old saw

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink?

............

You know, sometimes you just want to take a hammer to them anyway!!!

HB