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Originally Posted by Avrora
So, if a Dominican man married an american woman, got his visa to the US through this marriage and then left her or just started cheating on her and abuse her, he considered to be a sankie - low class sort of person?
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Look....I didn't say it is impossible for a gringa or a gringo to meet a respectable Dominican. I just stated what my Dominican friends conveyed to me. They are not interested in a gringa for fear of what their family and friends would think of them.
You don't have to be a sankie to be a man that cheats and abuses his wife now do ya? Can't answer this question because it doesn't make any sense.
I believe that any man that abuses his wife or girlfriend is a piece of garbage.
What does a sankie have to do with that? Sankies are what they are. Pros, know what they are doing whether that is getting a tentacle into your pocketbook or a visa to your country. Sankies have sankiette wives or girlfriends that are also doing the same thing to those boinked out gringo guys...the short con for money, gifts, visas.
Many Dominicans get up at 4 am, ride miles and miles to jobs that pay just a few pesos, work night and day just to bring home a few pesos for their family. Many Dominicans travel for hours and hours to universities where they study their darn tails off. They then qualify for jobs that pay more then they would as a waitress or whatever but not nearly as much as that beloved sanky animation guys who "freeelance". Ask these hard working Dominicans if they would like to be a sankie or sankiette and you will lose their respect and they might tell you off. Go ahead.... ask them and see what happens. Ahhhh, of course the sankie is going to tell you he isn't a sankie. Who wants to admit that to your face.
These others? They hang out at resorts, or work at them. They hang out at the beach and talk all of those nasty disrespectful words that you do not understand but their buddys do while you think they are complementing you simply because they are smiling as they trash you.They got soft hands and an even softer approach. Their job is to collect gringas...hmmm that's right, collect them. The notion that the gringa believes she is the "only one" is something for a Cinderella story.
Gringos are not safe here either so I am not gender bashing. I know dudes that get boinked by some puta and think they are the only one. I was at the airport one day for business with the chief of customs at the time. I saw a local puta from Sosua with her gringo that was going home. From my bar I know her and actually putas, putos whatever are just people too, right. What they do is what they do, but it is an occupation neverless. She saw me and put her finger to her lips and shhhhhh'd me. She hugged and kissed him, cried those croc tears and begged him to remember her regalo. He leaves and then she comes over me smiling and saying "shhhh tu sabes". She then waits for her next novio to come off the very same plane her last novio is getting on. I watch as she runs into his arms crying and all of that drama. She looks over his shoulder at me and puts that finger to her lips again........shhhhhhhhhh.
Over and over and over again...it's amazing!
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