Money for a Sankie

UK GIRL · #1 10-19-2006, 10:51 AM

I have not been with my sankie for over 9 months now and still he calls. The funny thing is he calls his other ex's to and ask's them for money. The new call was he hurt his back at the riu working and he wants $100 dollars. Now as I am in a new realtionship with a lad from London does he really think that we are going to be as stupid to send him money. Me and his other girls found out his game and thanks to this website we saw the light and saw each others messages so the relationship with him ended and so did his funding. I am glad that he has been caught out by us even now when he calls I ask him who his latest victim is and has she not got him a visa yet.

Really what I want to say is a big Thanks to DR1 and to those of you that have not seen the light yet please open your eyes cause trust me all resort workers are the same as to them it is a game. Even if they say they love you they dont they love your bank account etc etc

AnnaC · #2 10-19-2006, 10:57 AM

That's great, good for you.

Now the next step is to discourage his calls. Just say you were on the way out and hang up. As long as you chit chat the calls will keep coming and if you're in a new relationship these calls should stop.

shadInToronto · #3 10-19-2006, 11:25 AM

Tell him you still love and care for him, you'll send cash and gifts, etc. etc. When he calls, put him on hold until he hangs up or minutes exhausted. He'll keep on calling using up his limited resources ... get even not angry!!!!

stormer · #4 10-19-2006, 12:09 PM

Good for you UK girl!! You should be so proud of yourself, for seeing the light. It takes some people a lot longer.

UK GIRL · #5 10-20-2006, 11:35 AM

I cant believe this guy he has only been on the phone asking a friend for $400 this time. He is such an fool. He wants a scooter for his birthday and is asking all of the girls for cash so he can buy it. I am awaiting his next call and when he does call hes like some said is going on hold for a very long time. This annoys me so much as there are other friends that I have in pop that arnt like this in fact when I went in may they insisted in paying for everything.....

AnnaC · #6 10-20-2006, 11:48 AM

Can you gather all the girls numbers please. I have stuff to sell and it sounds like you're all easy targets.

Sorry to sound so harsh but you still don't get it. He shouldn't even get to the part about him asking for anything. You hear his voice and the first time you say, "please do not call here again". After that it's not considered rude if you hang up immediately upon hearing his voice.

Please pass this on to the others, a ruthless person will never stop as long as you are not rude and short with them. Hang up

Audra · #7 10-20-2006, 12:11 PM

I think you still like the thought of having a guy in the DR. He is obviously giving you something emotionally, that's why you are still in contact with him. He is probably still feeding your ego, but really, is he? Its all lies.

Ask yourself, what's the point - don't you have a boyfriend now? Let it go.

shadInToronto · #8 10-20-2006, 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by audrav

I think you still like the thought of having a guy in the DR. He is obviously giving you something emotionally, that's why you are still in contact with him. He is probably still feeding your ego, but really, is he? Its all lies.

Ask yourself, what's the point - don't you have a boyfriend now? Let it go.

Voice of reason or experience???? .... just askin', I never judge people