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10-30-2006, 02:23 PM
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LOL and we are here waiting
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Originally Posted by **princess
In the end, no matter how much you tell someone, they don't listen unless they want to, and who actually wants to admit they've made a mistake. I sure as hell don't! Well I can now but it takes along time! Every time someone tells her, that she's doing wrong, she knows but just doesn't want to believe it. She has to believe herself that its wrong, not that this post is a complete waste of time, none of them are. However people gettin exasperated, is just wasting energy!! xx
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To tell them so....
For me this is entertainment. Ahhhh I have a home based office and next to the PC most of the day. However, if I can help people while doing it then so much the better.
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10-30-2006, 02:48 PM
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Trust your own instincts
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Originally Posted by mart0417
So I fell in love with this man in the Dominican ( no I did not meet him at a resort) and I married him, now we are waiting for him to come to Canada. He was so loving and caring and very very sweet, now things are chaning. He is not like he used to be, he is very angry adn he says he does nto know why, he seems to be mad at me everyday, btu he can't not tell me why. He says maybe he is jsut nervous He shoudl be in Canada soon adn now I am worried. Is it true Dominican men have tempers? How do I know for sure he did nto jsut use me to get out of the Dominican. I read a previous posting adn I got very sad, because it was talkign about all the things to watch out for adn I think he hit almost all of them. If any one is out there who married a Dominican man maybe we could chat and you could give me some advise.
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Ask yourself, how well do you know this man (your husband)? And more importantly, how well do you know yourself? Do you have a tendency or history to accept crappy treatment from men? Would you marry him knowing that he has an anger problem? I think he's just prepping you and preparing to bolt when he gets to Canada and make it your idea. You'll be glad to get rid of him. Why don't you cancel the sponsorship and get an annulment on your marriage. You don't really know each other, so how can you love each other?
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10-30-2006, 03:29 PM
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I do love him
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Originally Posted by margaret
Ask yourself, how well do you know this man (your husband)? And more importantly, how well do you know yourself? Do you have a tendency or history to accept crappy treatment from men? Would you marry him knowing that he has an anger problem? I think he's just prepping you and preparing to bolt when he gets to Canada and make it your idea. You'll be glad to get rid of him. Why don't you cancel the sponsorship and get an annulment on your marriage. You don't really know each other, so how can you love each other?
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I do love my husband. I know my self very well. He does not treat me like crap. there may have been some misunderstanding about the anger. You say I don't really know him, I did not marry him the first time I met him, I did spend alot of time there with him, I am now back in Canada. and I miss him very much.
As for my spelling mistake well I guess I am not perfect like some. And no I am not a teenager having fun!!
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10-30-2006, 03:39 PM
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Originally Posted by mart0417
I do love my husband. I know my self very well. He does not treat me like crap. there may have been some misunderstanding about the anger. You say I don't really know him, I did not marry him the first time I met him, I did spend alot of time there with him, I am now back in Canada. and I miss him very much.
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you have posted her for a reason, gal. and the reason is you have doubts about your husband.
we may laugh and make jokes at your expense but we all wish you well.
just give yourself some time to think...
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10-30-2006, 04:04 PM
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Ultimate Check
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Originally Posted by mart0417
....I did spend alot of time there with him, I am now back in Canada. and I miss him very much.
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Why didn't you stay here with him?
Come here asap and live with him.
Within a few months you'll know much more about your marriage... 
m'frog
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10-30-2006, 04:09 PM
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Then you are all set
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Originally Posted by mart0417
I do love my husband. I know my self very well. He does not treat me like crap. there may have been some misunderstanding about the anger. You say I don't really know him, I did not marry him the first time I met him, I did spend alot of time there with him, I am now back in Canada. and I miss him very much.
As for my spelling mistake well I guess I am not perfect like some. And no I am not a teenager having fun!!
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and do not need anyone's advice. People's posts here such as mine were not meant to be taken as attacks. I wrote because I thought you were seeking advice. With this last post you made I am mistaken and will no longer add to this thread. You seem to have changed your mind.
Ask the moderator to close this thread because it is obvious. You do not need anyone's help here.
Good luck, Scotty is out!
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10-30-2006, 04:13 PM
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On Vacation....
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Amazin Kreskin predicts ....
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Originally Posted by mart0417
I do love my husband. I know my self very well. He does not treat me like crap. there may have been some misunderstanding about the anger. You say I don't really know him, I did not marry him the first time I met him, I did spend alot of time there with him, I am now back in Canada. and I miss him very much.
As for my spelling mistake well I guess I am not perfect like some. And no I am not a teenager having fun!!
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Boohoo boohoo boohoo boohoo boohoo ..... no, not me crying rather that's you after a few weeks after his arrival in Canada. Keep safe so you don't have to re-type 
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10-30-2006, 04:15 PM
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trying
I was trying to get more information. I was trying to see if anyone else was in the same situation. But I all I seemed to get was negative. I thought this may be a place where I could exchange information
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10-30-2006, 04:37 PM
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On Vacation....
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You're not listening ....
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Originally Posted by mart0417
I was trying to get more information. I was trying to see if anyone else was in the same situation. But I all I seemed to get was negative. I thought this may be a place where I could exchange information
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Get your eyes examined (I should also say ears)!!!! You've received a lot of excellent advice, but it's not what you want to hear. Why don't you post what you want to hear then someone can re-type it and post? 
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10-30-2006, 05:13 PM
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She wants people to tell her - your husband will change, his anger problems will go away, he will turn into an angel soon, just be nice to him, do what he tells you to do and wait. That is what she wants. Is it going to happen???
OP - men almost never change. If you accept your husband for who he is the way he is - there is no reason to ask for someone's advice, just go with your heart. You might have to pay for it, but as long as that is what you wanted to do ...
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