am i a fool as well?

[mountainfrog]

Originally Posted by JDJones

...When this girl started this post, she had already decided what she wanted, and was going to get it.

Fair enough.
I had not seen her announcement in TIMES, so I was happy to find it here...

Originally Posted by JDJones

..Nor will she come back to tell us when it falls apart, either.

Well, we shall get over the loss.
Remember, this is 'Sankie 101' and thus a revolving door...

Let's just assume that not hearing from her again means that happiness rendered her speechless.

m'frog

[mountain5]

Ok, first I think that a lot of girls who fall for con artists are ashamed to talk when they discover that the love they were fighting for is not true.
Second I think it is normal that somebody like Canadiankitty has already decided what she wants,even if she asks for advice here.It doessnt mean that she wont listen to the advice but if she loves her fiancee then she will marry him no matter what others say unless she has proof that he could be a con artist.But we all know that most of them are not stupid and so they will not get caught.Unfortunately most of the girls will not discover that her bf or husband is a con artist until he got what he wanted which will be moneyor visa.
But I do agree that if somebody gets caught before he got the visa and the girl goes on with the relationship because she thinks that he really changed for her now then I think it is a little stupid because a person doesnt change that fast even if he wants too.
It is good to be honest to the girls who ask for advice but sometimes it would be good to say the things in a different way.I think that is what Canadiankitty wanted to say with her post.