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10-31-2006, 09:00 AM
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On Vacation....
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Join Date: Nov 2003
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Say it ain't so ....
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Originally Posted by Canadiankitty
OK so I just started reading postings from this site and I feel quite awful. I have been in a relationship for 1 year with a guy I met in the DR, and yes I love him but now I really wonder if it's real or not. when I talk to him I totally belive him, but after reading all this... His name is Jose ..anybody know him, he currently works at Gran Bahia Principe in Punta Cana, before he worked at Sunscape and Sirenis, both in Punta Cana, but he lives in La Romana. Yes he is in animacion. Yes he has done some but not all of the things you have all talked about that sankies do. I never thought I was stupid...but now...I don't know what to think. I have already booked my next vacation to see him again in Dec and we plan on getting married in April. After reading lots of these threads I know what you will tell me, that I am stupid and naive. Are there no relationships that turn out to be real? I don't know what to think.
A couple points in his favour:
>he does teach me Spanish and he encourages me to take Spanish classes in Canada, which I have taken
>he wanted us to stay at a local hotel instead of the resort to save money, but I didn't want to and preferred AI
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As I read this, I was hoping it wasn't a Canadian but am devastated (well not really but just showing a sensitive side) once again ... heed the advice of DR1's pros (not that type of pro, the knowledgeable type).
Would you be so quick to marry a guy in Canada who is a bellhop and makes minimum wage? .... think with your head, not your heart ... if you want to hear romantic words, get a few Julio Iglesias CDs. 
Last edited by AnnaC; 10-31-2006 at 11:15 AM.
Reason: no last names
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10-31-2006, 09:15 AM
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Join Date: May 2004
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I almost fell over laughing when I read the name... lord ... tears are comming out of my eyes on this one... I remember Jose very well. as I usto go to Sunscapes on a regular basis.........
You know the answer to your own question lol
ahahahaha
P.S - If this local hotel he wants you guys to stay at is Naragua.... than you got yourself a REALLLL WINNER lol aaaaaaaahahaha
Too funny
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10-31-2006, 09:17 AM
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Honorificabilitudinitatibus
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Join Date: Apr 2002
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Originally Posted by la_barbie
I almost fell over laughing when I read the name... lord ... tears are comming out of my eyes on this one... I remember Jose very well. as I usto go to Sunscapes on a regular basis.........
You know the answer to your own question lol
ahahahaha
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Spell it out for us.
Give us the sordid details.
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10-31-2006, 09:24 AM
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Bronze
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Join Date: Sep 2006
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Ounce of prevention
CdnKitty, I can't tell you what your man is or isn't as I don't know him (maybe la barbie can). But, the fact that you came on here with your doubts shows that you shouldn't be marrying him.
If you were dating a man in Canada and had doubts, would you still be thinking about marrying him? I hope not, because if it doesn't work in the beginning, it certainly won't work after when times get tough (which they do in all relationships). Okay, now add to the equation culture, language and climate differences. Even if you two were meant to be, those differences are going to make it so much tougher. That means that you and he (because it takes two to make a relationship work) have to be that much more certain and committed to each other and since you're not that certain he isn't a sankie, I think you should take a very careful look.
If you aren't ready to just end it, since you do love this guy, why not do what has been suggested and bait him. It sounds mean and harsh, but women have been doing it for years to catch cheating husbands, just do it before he becomes a cheating husband. This will break your heart, but at least you'll know for yourself he wasn't good enough for you.
Good luck. I know this is a tough pill to swallow, but an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
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10-31-2006, 09:39 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
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go kitty, go!
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Originally Posted by shadInToronto
As I read this, I was hoping it wasn't a Canadian but am devastated (well not really but just showing a sensitive side) once again ... heed the advice of DR1's pros (not that type of pro, the knowledgeable type).
Would you be so quick to marry a guy in Canada who is a bellhop and makes minimum wage? .... think with your head, not your heart ... if you want to hear romantic words, get a few Julio Iglesias CDs. |
oh, these canadian girls, so quick to fall in love, get married, start a family....
i wonder why the birth rate in canada is not skyhigh?
ach, because those silly gals find out they have been cheated and lied to!
kitty, take a grip on reality, your boy is an a$$. get your paws ready to tear his granitos into ribbons.
you ain't a fool, but you may soon be!
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10-31-2006, 09:52 AM
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On Vacation!
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Join Date: Dec 2003
Posts: 3,046
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Once In A Lifetime Luck
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Originally Posted by Canadiankitty
... I love... Espiritusanto... getting married in April....
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The Holy Spirit himself.... 
He's heaven-sent.
A godly man.
Oh, how lucky you are!
m'frog
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10-31-2006, 10:29 AM
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On Vacation!
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Join Date: Jun 2004
Posts: 1,291
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LOL, whewwwwwwwwwwwww she's good!
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Originally Posted by leehall
Sankiete? Don't know how the feminine version goes. I happened to be in the Puerto Plata Western Union today and recognised a animation team person from the Playa Dorado AI I am in. She bitched loudly for 15 minutes about how long she had to wait all the time. The teller told me that it wouldn't be such a problem if she only came in once a month, but she currently has 14 different nationalities sending her money...! and always causes a problem.
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14? Man oh man, she is the HALL OF FAMER of sankiettes! 14 dudes sending her money? It must be pure heck when 2 or more of these idiots arrive in town at the same time. Scrammble time, time to get sick, head into the countryside and wait it out. This one is good and man oh man is she ever bringing home the bacon to her chulos.
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10-31-2006, 10:34 AM
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On Vacation....
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Join Date: Nov 2003
Posts: 1,909
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Not true .... lies, lies, lies, and more lies!!!!
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Originally Posted by dv8
oh, these canadian girls, so quick to fall in love, get married, start a family....
i wonder why the birth rate in canada is not skyhigh?
ach, because those silly gals find out they have been cheated and lied to!
kitty, take a grip on reality, your boy is an a$$. get your paws ready to tear his granitos into ribbons.
you ain't a fool, but you may soon be!
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This person is not Canadian but a Brit tart impersonating a Canadian .... there're no Canadian Kitties, we got beavers here, don't try to hoodwink us!!!! ... 
What's gonna happen when your "minovio" discovers he's got a moochie hoochie? LOL!!! 
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10-31-2006, 10:36 AM
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Take it easy....
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Join Date: Jan 2002
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I am sitting here with my head shaking.
I think I will take a nap.
AZB
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10-31-2006, 11:06 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
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kitty, kitty....
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Originally Posted by shadInToronto
This person is not Canadian but a Brit tart impersonating a Canadian .... there're no Canadian Kitties, we got beavers here, don't try to hoodwink us!!!! ... |
beavers? they do get on so well with lumberjacks! marriage made in heaven!
i mean in the depth of the forrest.
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